FabSwingers.com forum: Pet hates

By *oelDorian OP Man
44 weeks ago

vanaheim

What is everyone’s pet hates on here I have a few one is when someone complains that you don’t have a certain type of picture on your profile.(cock pictures) But sorry I thought it was what I wanted to display on my profile I don’t have cock pictures in my public gallery to entice people to engage in a chat first.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
44 weeks ago

Thurrock

Profiles that been on over a year with no pics and not even site verified

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

The double standards on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

When you chat to a profile for a while all seems to be good lots in common and similar desires only when a meet is discussed they disappear don’t message back anymore still on the site but just ignore you.

We are happy if a meet isn’t what you want just say it!

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

^^ as above..

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
44 weeks ago

The amount of people that think you’d meet them without seeing what they even look like

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"The amount of people that think you’d meet them without seeing what they even look like

Yes agree here had a couple for discretion they won’t send face pics but let’s meet up…if we meet sure we will see a lot more than their faces hahaha

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By *andA123Couple
44 weeks ago

cannock

"When you chat to a profile for a while all seems to be good lots in common and similar desires only when a meet is discussed they disappear don’t message back anymore still on the site but just ignore you.

We are happy if a meet isn’t what you want just say it! "

Had this happened to many times to count that’s why we use this site to perv and cam only now

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
44 weeks ago

"The amount of people that think you’d meet them without seeing what they even look like

Yes agree here had a couple for discretion they won’t send face pics but let’s meet up…if we meet sure we will see a lot more than their faces hahaha "

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By *lym4realCouple
44 weeks ago

plymouth

Mrs4's pet hate is non matching undies and Mr4's is everyone assuming it's Mrs4 reading the messages although he loves being called the various names ( secretly) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

We are happy if a meet isn’t what you want just say it!

Had this happened to many times to count that’s why we use this site to perv and cam only now "

We keep coming back hoping that one day that naughty couple or woman we are talking too does actually want to meet haha

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
44 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

"The double standards on here. "

For some on here, if there weren't double standards, they wouldnt have any!

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Couples profiles with no pictures of the male half.

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By *iss DevilWoman
44 weeks ago

Bedford

People not bothering to read profile. Being called "babe", "hun" etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

People complaining they don’t get meets/messages/replies.

It’s just boring.

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By *rpeggioCouple
44 weeks ago

Baughurst

"The double standards on here. "

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By *rpeggioCouple
44 weeks ago

Baughurst

We are happy if a meet isn’t what you want just say it! "

We hate that too. We have now realised it usually means a real couple but only one does the admin (usually the man) and is "selling the goods" before consulting with the partner, if at all, typically a "part-time" or "once in a blue moon" swinger. In other cases many of those are couples with no spine incapable to tell us thanks but no thanks, you are not our cup of tea.

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By *andPextraCouple
44 weeks ago

North West

“Wot uu lookin 4 “ type messages.

Read

The

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profile

Rant over

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
44 weeks ago

Buckingham

"No face pic no replies " from a profile with no face pics

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By *oxy jWoman
44 weeks ago

somerset

people asking for profile advice

and people that give it

peo[le asking why the cant get meets ... when its so obvious why but the choose to ignore the reason and blame some thing or one else

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By *oxy jWoman
44 weeks ago

somerset

oh male halfs of swinging couples who think i would be interested in them cheating on there swinging partner ... more common than you think

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
44 weeks ago

Norwich

Specific to this site or with the world in general? I have a whole menagerie….

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By *rBobbMan
44 weeks ago

Birmingham

Profiles that say "will fill in later"

or even worse ....

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By *witchblade RomanceWoman
44 weeks ago

Country Bumpkin...

You start talking to someone on here in a friendly way,then they automatically assume you are up for it!..then when you say your not my type or we do not connect happy to stay friends...That's when they show their true self!..So annoying.

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By *ay40xMan
44 weeks ago

Bromley

Not getting a reply to a message, even a ‘no thank you’

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By *uri00620Woman
44 weeks ago

Croydon

I don't care enough to hate anything, more bemused really.

But those people who talk of "fakes" on the forums and who have written fake verifications for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

When you message someone they reply with hi so you respond with (insert polite message) then never hear anything again why go the trouble in the first place

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By *imisugarWoman
44 weeks ago

Rugby

People complaining how no replies is rude and wouldn't take much effort but then rarely reply to anyone that's taken time to offer reasons on the forum post.

Profile not being read - wasting both our times.

Rudeness when rejected, unnecessary.

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By *oelDorian OP Man
44 weeks ago

vanaheim

"People complaining how no replies is rude and wouldn't take much effort but then rarely reply to anyone that's taken time to offer reasons on the forum post.

Profile not being read - wasting both our times.

Rudeness when rejected, unnecessary. "

Agree with that

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By *iss DevilWoman
44 weeks ago

Bedford

"Not getting a reply to a message, even a ‘no thank you’ "

Read site's FAQs- no reply is a reply. With the number of messages some women and couples on here get, it's impossible to reply to everyone.

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By *exySenseiCouple
44 weeks ago

"What is everyone’s pet hates on here I have a few one is when someone complains that you don’t have a certain type of picture on your profile.(cock pictures) But sorry I thought it was what I wanted to display on my profile I don’t have cock pictures in my public gallery to entice people to engage in a chat first. "

I'm not a fan of bearded dragons as pets. Also not a fan of keeping birds in cages.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Bristol

One word.

'Hey'

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By *oelDorian OP Man
44 weeks ago

vanaheim

Yeah a no response is a response it states that in the FAQ

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Single female profile that arent single , before you know it theres a husband or boyfriend onboard ,we call them bait profiles x

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By *eyeYCouple
44 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"“Wot uu lookin 4 “ type messages.

Read

The

Bloody

profile

Rant over

That! We'll add fab tourists (no pic's, will fill out later) and unsolicited friend requests..

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By *eyeYCouple
44 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"Single female profile that arent single , before you know it theres a husband or boyfriend onboard ,we call them bait profiles x "

And that..

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By *hil most chillMan
44 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I love pets, why have them if you hate them?

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Sitting on the table

Random friend requests.

I approximately get about 1 per day, and I've literally just been sent one now. Fuck off..

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By *oelDorian OP Man
44 weeks ago

vanaheim

"Single female profile that arent single , before you know it theres a husband or boyfriend onboard ,we call them bait profiles x "

And the opposite to that as well with supposed single guys

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By *aprica2Couple
44 weeks ago

Chertsey

"Random friend requests.

I approximately get about 1 per day, and I've literally just been sent one now. Fuck off.."

Yeah not even a message it's so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Couples profiles with no pictures of the male half.

That's most couples profiles

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By *rBobbMan
44 weeks ago

Birmingham

People who block you and you have never even spoken to them???

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By *iss DevilWoman
44 weeks ago

Bedford

"People who block you and you have never even spoken to them???"

I block people who have never spoken to me, for a variety of reasons. Mostly - if they have said something on forum that indicated to me wouldn't be compatible or if their status mentioned drugs. Nothing personal, I just don't want them to come up in my searches or me in theirs.

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By *rBobbMan
44 weeks ago

Birmingham

"People who block you and you have never even spoken to them???

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By *andPextraCouple
44 weeks ago

North West

"Random friend requests.

I approximately get about 1 per day, and I've literally just been sent one now. Fuck off.."

That boils us, especially as we ask people not to, i mean obvs why wouldnt we just randomly agree to befriend someone without so much as a hello first

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

1. Those profiles that state “looking to be spoiled”.

2. Those passive aggressive profiles that only show their entitled attitude because they’re a certain type or sex!!

3. People judging you on your sexuality as if you’re not allowed your own opinion on the matter!!

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By *sprite62Couple
44 weeks ago

Camberley

People who don't read the profile and clearly are not a match for us. Our blocked file is huge.

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By *kpiercedCouple
44 weeks ago

walsall

Single males presuming that it’s the female half of the couple who only uses the couples profile

Always addressing anything to the female like the male doesn’t exist

Yes it’s the male half here of the couples profile

No I don’t like messages being plastered with darling & x’s etc etc

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By *ames250122Man
44 weeks ago

Worcester

"The double standards on here. "

Yeah I’d say this would be mine as well x

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By *eyeYCouple
43 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Ditto, posts on forums which indicate we'd not be interested. But also those with an abundance of pic's which turn us off. Or those with none! Go find your wank fodder elsewhere tourists..

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By *orelloCouple
43 weeks ago

Hitchin

We're on here to meet couples. We ask straight out after chat. Can't be bothered wasting time if not interest in meeting. If people just want to talk filth that's cool...just not our bag

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Getting harassed by men even though I have stated on my profile I am straight

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By *endalshaggersCouple
43 weeks ago

Lake District

People not reading profiles is a huge bug bear - or just assuming they're automatically "your type" or what they can offer is what you're on here for.

People with double standards or who very quickly contradict themselves.

Some people who have a very high opinion of themselves and make it out they're gods gift to sex/swinging.

Multiple posts on the forum of the exact same thing day in day out, usually from the same suspects.

Completely blank profiles - no pictures, barely any text - that demand "face picture with message". Er, OK....?!?

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
43 weeks ago

rochester

Beards, body hair generally, rude people and liars.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
43 weeks ago

Leeds

Couples with an invisible man or just a penis.

Men that send their cock despite the 2nd line in my profile telling them not to.

Men that seem to think the fact we don't meet men as some kind of challenge to change my mind.

General fab double standards.

Gaping arseholes/vagina/cock over a dirty toilet.

That's about it for today.

Mrs

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By *andPextraCouple
43 weeks ago

North West

"Couples with an invisible man or just a penis.

Men that send their cock despite the 2nd line in my profile telling them not to.

Men that seem to think the fact we don't meet men as some kind of challenge to change my mind.

General fab double standards.

Gaping arseholes/vagina/cock over a dirty toilet.

That's about it for today.

Mrs "

All of the above

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
43 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"Profiles that been on over a year with no pics and not even site verified "

This...

and being called babe,or hun

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By *luefire2Couple
43 weeks ago

just somewhere around here

People that message all enthusiastic and pushy but then when you reply, they don't even read it.....couldn't have been that interested then lol.

We give people a couple of hours to reply, if they don't they get blocked.

Also, the one liner "meet now" type of messages. The biggest hate is people not reading our profile and then asking "what we are into".....Arghhhhhhh

Mrs R

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By *ick1111Man
43 weeks ago

Near Spalding

Hate seeing pics that have been taken with toilet on show

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By *issmorganWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Couples looking for other couples, with no pics of the man.

Pushy people who say they are happy to just chat, but then continue to push for a meet (when you've said more than once you're not meeting)..Or that send a message and then another one quickly.

Not reading profiles and then asking to meet now or for fun.

The dreaded can I ask you a question.

Hi babe/hun/nawty.

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By *tickler2000Man
43 weeks ago

St Agnes

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By *tickler2000Man
43 weeks ago

St Agnes

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By *tickler2000Man
43 weeks ago

St Agnes

Not so much a hate,

More like a "Make an effort FFS"

No picture and "Will fill in later" message that has been there for ages.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Central

This isn't a pet hate but I'm amazed frequently at the number of men who assume that others are a 100% match for who someone is looking for, if they are within the age range and share an interest in sex or some sexual interests. Clueless. And then whinging about Lack of replies when they were so obviously suitable

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Profiles (it’s always men) with IM STRAIGHT NO MEN OR TVS etc.

Just set your fucking filters and spare us your adolescent bigotry.

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By *oelDorian OP Man
43 weeks ago

vanaheim

"Profiles (it’s always men) with IM STRAIGHT NO MEN OR TVS etc.

Just set your fucking filters and spare us your adolescent bigotry. "

I agree with that

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