FabSwingers.com forum: Message turn-ons / turn-offs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies, what’s more likely to entice you into responding to a guy’s introductory message: His personality, or the prospect of fantasy fulfillment? Soft porn or a non-sexual message? And what are your turn-offs?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Non sexual....and something funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual....and something funny

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I prefer messages that sound like the writer considers me a human, and not just a pussy on legs.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I prefer messages that sound like the writer considers me a human, and not just a pussy on legs."

You forgot about the tits.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Non sexual....and something funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i agree, definitely nothing sexual. Steer away from using baby, babe, etc... Some women dont like that. Either something funny or something relating to their profile..

Good luck!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Txt spk and "I want to make you squirt" are big turn offs for me aswell. x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Ladies, what’s more likely to entice you into responding to a guy’s introductory message: His personality, or the prospect of fantasy fulfillment? Soft porn or a non-sexual message? And what are your turn-offs?"

His pics and profile

If I don't like the look of them, doesn't matter how good or bad his message is.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

something that I feel isn't copy and pasted to every woman on the site.

Something that shows he's used his brain, and nothing sexual for a start, but more than a one liner!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Non sexual, shows that he has read my profile so the message is directed at me and is not a standard copy/paste, more than one line (aalthough it depends ont eh content Lol) brings a smile to my face....

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

In the past 3 hours, I have received 6 messages, all saying "hi babes. Wanna chat?" or some variation of.

None have received a reply!

Give me something worth talking about, and I'll chat. Funny, non sexual and above all original!!

One guy sent me the opening message "Do you like stew?" Original, made me giggle, he got a reply, and a blowjob, but that's another story!!

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

One guy sent me the opening message "Do you like stew?" he got a reply, and a blowjob"

I suppose a quick Stroganoff is out the question then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry ladies but you all know what you really want in a message is a straightforward "free now to fuck? Cock pic attached."

Cool. Cleared that up. Off to the Middle East now to sort them feckers out!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great, the consensus is a nonsexual message - to be treated with respect as a human, not a piece of meat on display.

But what if the woman’s profile is provocatively sexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual....and something funny

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