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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
37 weeks ago

Watford

What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol

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By *avin77Man
37 weeks ago

camberley


"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"

Confuses me to if honest

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I would just message regardless, both parties are clearly interested.

Might as well strike up a conversation first

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I always take it as an invite to chat and hopefully vice versa.

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By *MandMMCouple
37 weeks ago

Welwyn


"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"

We've had this many times, so we just don't bother with winks. It feels like they are saying we're interested, but want you do send the first message

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By *ayndeeCouple
37 weeks ago

Newark

If we get a wink we check out their profile, if we're interested we wink back and follow that up with a polite thank you for the wink and hopefully start to chat.

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By *lhr1061Man
37 weeks ago

Warwickshire

If I receive a wink and like what I see, I'll wink back and message if they haven't messaged me soon after. Having said that, I received a wink a couple of days ago, fabbed a few of my pics too, sent a polite message thanking them and asking would they like to chat, and heard nothing back

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By *acky RacersCouple
37 weeks ago

Lincoln

Our system is on our profile.

We wink, and you wink back, we say hi.

You wink and we wink back, you say hi....This seems to work OK.

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By *oxy jWoman
37 weeks ago

somerset

i just mass delete every few days

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
37 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My wink etiquette is ignore it until its over a thousand and then open it so the number on the homepage isn't so long.

I don't have a use for winks

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By *n2YouMan
37 weeks ago

Your To Do List

If I get Winked at, I will send a message, hoping it's a sign that the door for chatting is open.

However; I've spoken to some guys on here and other sites where winking is a thing..

Most guys will wink, because they don't want to waste the effort on an "amazing opening message" - only for it to be deleted or ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

If the profile takes our fancy then we will reach out with a message.

Out of every 10 we get maybe 2 messages back.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"If the profile takes our fancy then we will reach out with a message.

Out of every 10 we get maybe 2 messages back."

that is less than i would have thought - bit rude not to even get a response

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By *implesimon777Man
37 weeks ago

Leeds

What's a wink?? lol

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
37 weeks ago

Bromley

Two winks don't make a right

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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
37 weeks ago

Watford

Thanks for the feedback I think we're just going to message for now on

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By *inkster seekingMan
37 weeks ago

Ponty

If someone winks at me first I normally message back.

If I get a wink back , I then also message back.

Just use it as an opener the winking

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By * and BCouple
37 weeks ago

Durham


"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"

We don't even look at winks anymore for that exact reason. It says on our profile, so if people do wink, it just shows they haven't even taken the time to read our profile

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By *stwo60Couple
37 weeks ago

Hampshire

We’ve had winks from couples, we will always respond, normally with a message thanking them for the interest even if it’s not what we’re looking for. Some we have responded to really politely have then just completely blanked us. Just don’t fucking wink then!

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By * and BCouple
37 weeks ago

Durham


"I would just message regardless, both parties are clearly interested.

Might as well strike up a conversation first"

We never did wink back, used to follow up with a message but still nothing came back. Hence what we said above, just don't bother looking anymore

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By *ast_jjMan
37 weeks ago

Dublin and London


"If we get a wink we check out their profile, if we're interested we wink back and follow that up with a polite thank you for the wink and hopefully start to chat.

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This is how I do it also.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"If we get a wink we check out their profile, if we're interested we wink back and follow that up with a polite thank you for the wink and hopefully start to chat.

This is how I do it also. "

That, winks are a nice gateway.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Our system is on our profile.

We wink, and you wink back, we say hi.

You wink and we wink back, you say hi....This seems to work OK. "

That is the system that works the best I think

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By *empest2KMan
37 weeks ago

Derby


"Our system is on our profile.

We wink, and you wink back, we say hi.

You wink and we wink back, you say hi....This seems to work OK. "

This is the wink etiquette I use too, especially as it seems logical and sensible to me

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By *assConductorMan
37 weeks ago

the wild


"Our system is on our profile.

We wink, and you wink back, we say hi.

You wink and we wink back, you say hi....This seems to work OK. "

This makes the most sense, but I don't really like winking, just say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"

The winking option for me is like the “ like” button of the faces of books some people pay attention to it or they don’t , personally I think it’s there to test the waters and always respond accordingly

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By *rishGent82Man
37 weeks ago

Ireland & Beyond

I like what a few people have said here already….

-1st party winks if they are interested

-2nd party reciprocates with a wink back if they are also interested

-1st party then messages to introduce themselves

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By *hesubtlegentMan
37 weeks ago

surrey

I like to send a wink. If they wink back, I message them. If they wink first, I wink back then message them have had a few meets happen doing this

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
37 weeks ago

North West

Yeah we seem to be the same as most people.

If we wink and they wink back then we message.

If they wink and we like what we see then we wink back to show we are interested and presume they will message.

If we wink and no reply then we move on, and if someone winks us and we aren't interested we don't reply

Pretty simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

What they said …..

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"What would you guys consider the correct winking etiquette, As we have had several times we get winked, wink back and then everything is silence should we just message them and take the reigns or is it a sign the other part of the couple was probably like actually no thanks lol"

Who wouldn’t wink. You look stunning

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By *Ollyinone.Man
37 weeks ago

West Mids

A wink gives green light for message. Gotta be!

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