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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x " Sorry but where does it say in fab rules that you have to log on every day? We often don't log on for a week at a time unless we are in the process of planning/setting up a date to meet. | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x " Queer? They must have a life! Z | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x Sorry but where does it say in fab rules that you have to log on every day? We often don't log on for a week at a time unless we are in the process of planning/setting up a date to meet. " yes but in mid conversation do you?? thats what the op is saying | |||
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"lol! yeah, it bugs the hell out o me. Ha ha. yes i did really like (lust after) the first few it occured with so did make a note of when they had logged on again. days! a fortnight in one case?!? lol. there are tons of cock teasers on this site. but thats alright, takes all sorts. " why are they cock teasers? - work - holidays - illness - life in general - Z | |||
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" yes but in mid conversation do you?? thats what the op is saying " Not quite mid conversationn though is it? OP sends message, he gets a reply (rather than ignored/deleted) Doesnt mean they interested in having a conversation! And you all wonder why we just ignore/delete | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x Sorry but where does it say in fab rules that you have to log on every day? We often don't log on for a week at a time unless we are in the process of planning/setting up a date to meet. yes but in mid conversation do you?? thats what the op is saying " YES lets stay on the point, surely if your about to log off a quick "I have to go now so speak again, maybe, by for now" would be in good stead....? | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x Queer? They must have a life! Z" | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x Sorry but where does it say in fab rules that you have to log on every day? We often don't log on for a week at a time unless we are in the process of planning/setting up a date to meet. yes but in mid conversation do you?? thats what the op is saying YES lets stay on the point, surely if your about to log off a quick "I have to go now so speak again, maybe, by for now" would be in good stead....?" why? You're not in a rrelationship with them - you've just replied to a random message! Z | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x " Brace yourself, this may come as a shock, but people actually have lives away from Fab! I know, sounds unbelievable but I read it on the internet so it's TRUE! | |||
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"lol! yeah, it bugs the hell out o me. Ha ha. yes i did really like (lust after) the first few it occured with so did make a note of when they had logged on again. days! a fortnight in one case?!? lol. there are tons of cock teasers on this site. but thats alright, takes all sorts. " So if you don't immediately reply then your a cock teaser....heard it all now! | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x Sorry but where does it say in fab rules that you have to log on every day? We often don't log on for a week at a time unless we are in the process of planning/setting up a date to meet. yes but in mid conversation do you?? thats what the op is saying YES lets stay on the point, surely if your about to log off a quick "I have to go now so speak again, maybe, by for now" would be in good stead....? why? You're not in a rrelationship with them - you've just replied to a random message! Z" manners maybe?? | |||
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"lol! yeah, it bugs the hell out o me. Ha ha. yes i did really like (lust after) the first few it occured with so did make a note of when they had logged on again. days! a fortnight in one case?!? lol. there are tons of cock teasers on this site. but thats alright, takes all sorts. So if you don't immediately reply then your a cock teaser....heard it all now! " I love threads like this as the single men highlight why some people don't reply to them. Talk about sense of entitlement and needy...from ONE message! | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x Sorry but where does it say in fab rules that you have to log on every day? We often don't log on for a week at a time unless we are in the process of planning/setting up a date to meet. yes but in mid conversation do you?? thats what the op is saying " Wouldn't really call replying to one message, mid conversation. Would call that being polite. If we have been sending a few messages back and forth in a short space of time then that's different. Would usually put that we were logging off. | |||
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"Think you need to read OP post again.... It wasnt a conversation!!! The other person simply replied to the OP's first message!! That does not instigate a full blown conversation " Agree! One reply doesn't mean anything, much less that anyone should have to inform anyone of their intention to log off. | |||
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"well, thank you yam and xandxtra for understanding the point. yes, of course life in general happens and there are lots of genuine reasons for it happening, but as pointed out, plain manners and courtesy are being lost as further and further generations of cyberpeople (no dr. who witticisms please) are being created. rudeness and lack of social skills are the norm for some people who have forgotten, or havent even really known, what politely conversin wit a human is about.hangon,jus puttin my kevlar on. " I've tried being polite and its been met with a load of abuse. This has happend several times and I know its happend to a lot of other women as well. | |||
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"manners maybe?? " why does it feel like sometimes you can't do right for doing wrong... they don't write back... complaint... they do write back.. but take time between messages... complaint... heck... its called the real world out there FGS...... can't people just be happy.. and if it goes too slow for you.. move on!!! simple as!!! | |||
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"Put it this way..... IF she was interested, she would have came back on to chat to you.... " and if she wasn't interested her reply message could have been no thanku, end of conversation | |||
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"well, thank you yam and xandxtra for understanding the point. yes, of course life in general happens and there are lots of genuine reasons for it happening, but as pointed out, plain manners and courtesy are being lost as further and further generations of cyberpeople (no dr. who witticisms please) are being created. rudeness and lack of social skills are the norm for some people who have forgotten, or havent even really known, what politely conversin wit a human is about.hangon,jus puttin my kevlar on. I've tried being polite and its been met with a load of abuse. This has happend several times and I know its happend to a lot of other women as well. " ive heard this too and i agree its unacceptable and also understand why the ladies dont answer for this reason i can see both sides | |||
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"lol! make a note of when they had logged on again. days! -)" What? like cyber stalking? I think you may have too much time on your hands | |||
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"well, thank you yam and xandxtra for understanding the point. yes, of course life in general happens and there are lots of genuine reasons for it happening, but as pointed out, plain manners and courtesy are being lost as further and further generations of cyberpeople (no dr. who witticisms please) are being created. rudeness and lack of social skills are the norm for some people who have forgotten, or havent even really known, what politely conversin wit a human is about.hangon,jus puttin my kevlar on. " So if you send me a message for example "hi how are you?", I reply "fine thanks & you?" Then the doorbell goes and I log off to deal with something, then have to go off and deal with other things and don't long on for a couple of days, I'm Rude & a cock tease? That's what your original post insinuated, that you'd sent one message, got one reply and then the logged off for days. I don't agree with you at all, it's not rude in my opinion. I never tell people I'm chatting to if I'm logging off as its an email based chatting not chat room based, I never check if someone is online or not when I reply to messages and have no intention to start. I think it's rude to use a sweeping generalisation to call people cock teases because they log off after replying to a message. | |||
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"manners maybe?? why does it feel like sometimes you can't do right for doing wrong... they don't write back... complaint... they do write back.. but take time between messages... complaint... heck... its called the real world out there FGS...... can't people just be happy.. and if it goes too slow for you.. move on!!! simple as!!!" Your posts are always the voice of reason . Love them. Unlike all the other wingers ! X | |||
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"well yam, i can see youre clearly a level headed, sensible man! this thread is about manners. plain and simple. the art of conversation. even if that conversation lasts 2 messages. lady says thank you but no thank you. takes 30 seconds. what would someone think if in that strange thing called real life, someone just walked off after a nice reply to something said to them. height of ignorent rudeness. i put your sensibleness yam, down to the fact your profile pic is maybe where u live. in nature. " thanks lol, i know what your thread means, and where u were trying to go with it, but its a forum and all points are valid. some of the above are deviating slightly away from what you are trying to say, but at the same time it is there opinion of which we are all entitled and some valid points and answers too, and they will also understand what u were getting at and going with this there an intelligent bunch just may not agree and that's life i'm afraid | |||
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"Put it this way..... IF she was interested, she would have came back on to chat to you.... and if she wasn't interested her reply message could have been no thanku, end of conversation " We dont know what he asked her though? If he said "Hi, how are you"? And she replied with "No, thanx".. Bit presumptuous of her.... | |||
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"well yam, i can see youre clearly a level headed, sensible man! this thread is about manners. plain and simple." And where are your manners? Complaining in an open forum when you clearly have no idea why she logged off! | |||
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"The point is messaging on here is not the same as having a face to face conversation, its a totally different thing. You send a message, if that person is online they may reply, they may read it then go off to do something a few hours later. It's a message, you're exchanging messages not having a conversation. When you email someone, do you think them rude if they aren't logged on and don't reply immediately? It's the same on here, read the site FAQs it's clearly explains that not replying to messages isn't rude, however you would think it was. Yes Yam is speaking sense, however he is also seeing both sides of the discussion which you aren't and that's the differance. Just because someone doesn't agree with you doesn't mean their point isn't valid or they are rude. " | |||
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"The point is messaging on here is not the same as having a face to face conversation, its a totally different thing. You send a message, if that person is online they may reply, they may read it then go off to do something a few hours later. It's a message, you're exchanging messages not having a conversation. When you email someone, do you think them rude if they aren't logged on and don't reply immediately? It's the same on here, read the site FAQs it's clearly explains that not replying to messages isn't rude, however you would think it was. Yes Yam is speaking sense, however he is also seeing both sides of the discussion which you aren't and that's the differance. Just because someone doesn't agree with you doesn't mean their point isn't valid or they are rude. " | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x " Some people have a real life do you really think they should log on at your beck and call? | |||
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"is it only me who gets mighty frustrated at the following situation; you like someone, message them, they DO actually message back. then they immediately log off before you can even get a further message to them first, then they stay logged off for days or even a week???? lol. is slightly annoying but hey, nowt so queer as folk! x " Up until last week, I hadn't logged in for 3 weeks and since then a couple of times only, it's called real life and priorities | |||
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"When they have not logged on for a few days or a week or so it is probably because they have logged back onto their real male profile x i have a suspicion not every female profile you see has a female behind it or one that would align with the perceived motives of the site. it is right to suggest there is evidence of poor manners on here and it is a downward internet assisted slope , it is right to point out this is the internet and such behaviour is to be expected and ignored . I also think it is healthy to question the behaviour of the site to help understand who may be real ,Who is worth time and which profiles are fake although people are right to suggest its internet life don't let it bother you , i feel this is often said too harshly not accepting asking questions trying to understand a mystery is rational of course making accusations presumptions and wild statements of cock tease does discredit the cause x don't forget you just don't know who you are talking to" The cause? | |||
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"When they have not logged on for a few days or a week or so it is probably because they have logged back onto their real male profile you just don't know who you are talking to" It is refreshingly comforting knowing one is not alone in their cynicism! | |||
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