FabSwingers.com forum: Let downs

By *ewbies08 OP Couple
38 weeks ago

Bucks

Do you think we should name and shame couples who let you down? So other couples are aware?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Do you think we should name and shame couples who let you down? So other couples are aware? "

How exactly?

You can't do it on the forums as it's against the site rules.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
38 weeks ago

Staffordshire

No.

How would anybody know who was being truthful?

We could say you let us down and we’d be lying but nobody else would believe you if we said it first.

Learn lessons from let downs and move on.

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By *ewbies08 OP Couple
38 weeks ago

Bucks

Really I did not know that. What’s the reason it’s against the rules?

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By *OYFBWoman
38 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Not just couples!

Plenty of let downs from single profiles, but if we all listed them, the post would fill up fairly quickly!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
38 weeks ago

Wherever

No because it’s your words against theirs.

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By *OYFBWoman
38 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

People have reasons for not meeting last minute and that’s fair enough. But if there was a way it can be marked against someone’s profile, so if they were a no-show at the last three arranged meets, other users would be aware.

It’s difficult because it’s one person’s word against another’s. And then there will be the trolls who may try and get profiles blacklisted for no good reason.

The only practicable thing to do is to report the profile, then block them and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Yes it’s not just the men

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By *layfullsamMan
38 weeks ago

Solihull

"Do you think we should name and shame couples who let you down? So other couples are aware? "

Those _ewbies08 are time wasters and let me down, don’t meet them folks !

Now obviously this is made up but you’ll get the point that it opens up a can of worms

Shame there isn’t a way but I think you can report to admin who I’d like to think see if a name crops you regularly

But even if account is closed it’s 2 minutes to start another.

Maybe clubs put the odds in your favour

Good luck

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
38 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Not really we've been let down few times now . Just accept it as part of the swing scene x

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By *e-funcoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

We have got in touch with other local couples we know and told them about people to avoid and the reasons.

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By *ewbies08 OP Couple
38 weeks ago

Bucks

You made me worry when I saw the start of the message

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By *ony MannMan
38 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I don't travel far without a verification, and a verification means nothing if it is not pub

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By *lay 4 uMan
38 weeks ago

bolton

Definitely.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
38 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

No. System would be open to abuse and sometimes people actually do have genuine reasons for not showing up.

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