FabSwingers.com forum: Flirting.. can you?

By *ittleMissCali_MrDJ OP Couple
38 weeks ago

wonderland.

I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply

So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.

I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...

Cali

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By *nt1845Man
38 weeks ago

Birmingham

I’m rubbish at putting it into a message, suppose it’s just because I’m a polite guy.

However face to face and I’m flirty!

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
38 weeks ago

york

On here, I'm awful

And if I'm feeling shy I'm awful

If things are going right I can be a terrible flirt

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJ OP Couple
38 weeks ago

wonderland.

"I’m rubbish at putting it into a message, suppose it’s just because I’m a polite guy.

However face to face and I’m flirty!

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I can't even do it in person lol

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Stockport

Never really got the hang of flirting.

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By *ucka39Man
38 weeks ago

Newcastle

I seek an opportunity with a mix of banter and flirt happily making her blush

I just can't help myself, that's life so live it

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
38 weeks ago

Southampton

I'm probably better at flirting online than in real.life lol

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By *avexxMan
38 weeks ago

cheshire

love a bit of flirting kinda makes me horny

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Absolutely no idea and no social life anyway.

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By *T89Man
38 weeks ago

Llandudno

"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply

So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.

I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...

Cali "

I'm good at flirting if the other person is doing it also,but trying to hold a conversation, if there ain't much coming back is hard. Flirting is fine but knowing what to say first to someone on here is my issue. Never get a reply

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By *ouplewithKinks23Couple
38 weeks ago

Walsall

See I don't think I'm flirty, but apparently I (m half) am in person!

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
38 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Love flirting

whether online or in person, something about eye contact and gentle strokes really gets me going

S xxx

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
38 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I need someone to be giving me the same energy to be successful at flirting. Otherwise it's a dreadful failure!

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By *uffnmuffCouple
38 weeks ago

London

I love banter its right up there with kissing xx

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
38 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

I'm terrible at it and also spotting when guys do it to me xx

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By *ularliWoman
38 weeks ago

Worcester

I am awful at flirting

Especially online

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By *edDevil5Man
38 weeks ago

NN4

Absolutely love flirting

Love to know what there thinking

What makes them tick and what buttons they love being pushed.

Massive turn on

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By *edDevil5Man
38 weeks ago

NN4

"I need someone to be giving me the same energy to be successful at flirting. Otherwise it's a dreadful failure!"

Totally agree

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJ OP Couple
38 weeks ago

wonderland.

I'm feeling much better about my inability to flirt after reading this lol

Cali

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By *avin77Man
38 weeks ago

camberley

"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply

So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.

I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...

Cali "

I'm awful lol. Always polite but awful hahaha

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By *ornycougaWoman
38 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I can kinda do it online but irl can't do it to save my life

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By *iddle ManMan
38 weeks ago

Walsall

I am terrible over the phone or in messages, I'm good at dropping some sexual innuendos, but I much prefer to do my flirting in person.

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By *ularliWoman
38 weeks ago

Worcester

"I am terrible over the phone or in messages, I'm good at dropping some sexual innuendos, but I much prefer to do my flirting in person. "

Oh on the phone and in person I’m quite good at it. Online….nope. I would much rather talk to someone as texting just becomes boring.

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By *andP123Couple
38 weeks ago

London

We love a good flirt

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By *rs spicyCouple
38 weeks ago

Chesterfield near centre

I'm awful at noticing when someone is flirting with me when I'm on a night out. People have to point out that someone is flirting.

I'm out on Friday night so I will see if I pick up on it!

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By *im_1878Man
38 weeks ago

Formby

I have many skills (without sounding too cocky), but flirting is one skill I have never mastered.

I am oblivious to attention from women and when I try to flirt, more often then not end up putting my foot in my mouth

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By *ssexBlkMaleMan
38 weeks ago

Essex

I’m a massive fan of flirting and teasing and giving banter and taking it back to begin with when first speaking to someone.

Looks will fade eventually so I always want someone that I can bounce off perosnality wise in my opinion anyway

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
38 weeks ago

"I’m a massive fan of flirting and teasing and giving banter and taking it back to begin with when first speaking to someone.

Looks will fade eventually so I always want someone that I can bounce off perosnality wise in my opinion anyway"

We agree

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By *orace99Man
38 weeks ago

York

Flirting is a dark art of which I fail at spectacularly....

Not as much as I fail at recognising someone is flirting with me.

I am reasonably equipped for sexual innuendo though

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
38 weeks ago

"I'm awful at noticing when someone is flirting with me when I'm on a night out. People have to point out that someone is flirting.

I'm out on Friday night so I will see if I pick up on it!

Phew it’s not just me then.

Haha

K x

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By *ardfun10Man
38 weeks ago

banbury

I can’t tell if someone is flirting with me

useless at it in return too

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
38 weeks ago

Bristol

"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply

So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.

I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...

Cali "

I'm exactly the same so leave a lot of messaging to the Mr. Sometimes I can chat back and forth with people for a while and then a message will completely throw me and I literally have no idea how to reply. I can't do flirty conversation in person either. Or sexy talk

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I can do it and do recognise when flirting is happening, but J doesn't pick up on the signals so I have to take her aside and tell her when someone is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Is wearing slutty makeup and clothes deemed the same as flirting?

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By *assy LassieWoman
38 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I'm rubbish at flirting. Also rubbish at picking up signals.

Begs the question why I'm even here

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I'm rubbish at flirting. Also rubbish at picking up signals.

Begs the question why I'm even here

To give out mixed signals, that's why...!

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I'm rubbish at flirting. Also rubbish at picking up signals.

Begs the question why I'm even here

The banter

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By *assy LassieWoman
38 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"I'm rubbish at flirting. Also rubbish at picking up signals.

Begs the question why I'm even here

The banter

And the nights out

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By *-jonMan
38 weeks ago

London

You’re already there with being friendly. Keep that trait, they’re both closely attached. Then just let your attraction shine through your friendly nature. Maybe add a little more cheekiness and you’re there

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I'm rubbish at flirting. Also rubbish at picking up signals.

Begs the question why I'm even here

You like a dirty perv from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I can write things better then actually flirt. I am shy why am I on this site? help lol someone must want to have fun with me. Pretty please.

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
38 weeks ago

Folkestone

"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply

So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.

I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...

Cali "

Very bad when I get nervous, but when I'm feeling tip top i'll flirt the night away

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
38 weeks ago

Bristol

"I can do it and do recognise when flirting is happening, but J doesn't pick up on the signals so I have to take her aside and tell her when someone is interested."

Mr has to do the same with me on this as well. It's amazing we get up to anything in club's

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
38 weeks ago

Cardiff

I’m better on here than in real life I’m the world’s worse also no good at picking up signals either someone have actually got to tell me to my face

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By *alm_one4Man
38 weeks ago

RM16

My ex wife says that when I’m flirting I’m useless, but when (I think) I’m not, I’m very good.

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
38 weeks ago

Carlisle

"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply

So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.

I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...

Cali "

Good god no. In either the written word or face to face. In fact I don't know how the Mr happened, thank god he could see past the lack of flirting (shrug)

Mrs

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By *ot to giggleWoman
38 weeks ago

Coventry

i love banter and flirting -

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

“So…… do you like bread?”

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
38 weeks ago

Next Door

I'm the worst flirt ever, I've no idea how to do it.

And even worst at picking up signals that someone is flirting with me

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By *unglevipsCouple
38 weeks ago

Somerset

I’m not very good. Mrs however, she could give classes at flirt school.

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By *ickD38Man
38 weeks ago

Preston

With MY reputation?

I've always specialised in highbrow flirtation. Bit of dirty talk in Latin or quoting a bit of Earl Of Rochester usually does the trick

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By *CLM87Woman
38 weeks ago

Derbyshire

I'm a flirty person in general and have to be careful not to give the wrong impression

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
38 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Absolutely shocking at flirting or recognising I'm being flirted with

Tinder

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
38 weeks ago

Thurrock

We discovered early on that hedgehog wasn’t particularly good at flirting when we discussed it she realised men don’t exactly need a lot of work so she never really had to bother, for most of our messaging I’ve done the flirting but she’s gotten a lot better at it now

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
38 weeks ago

Bromley

Flirting only seems to work if both parties are actively involved in it, otherwise it just goes over the other person's head

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJ OP Couple
38 weeks ago

wonderland.

"We discovered early on that hedgehog wasn’t particularly good at flirting when we discussed it she realised men don’t exactly need a lot of work so she never really had to bother, for most of our messaging I’ve done the flirting but she’s gotten a lot better at it now

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this is what we are doing... Mr does most of the flirting and I'm learning slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Nope and can't tell when people flirt with me

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By *otguy555Man
38 weeks ago

Bristol

I think I'm pretty good at flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

We are both individually really bad and wish at clubs other couples would take the initiative and would flirt with us so we can have a good time with them

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

I’m a Gemini, flirting is how I communicate with pretty much anyone

even if I don’t fancy them! But it does take practice I think? And a certain level of confidence and self awareness

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By *SCouple81Couple
38 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Mrs is pretty good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I am awfully blunt, the older I get the less time I've got for pissing around

Do you wanna join us for some fuckery or not? That's my chat up line. Its simple enough right?

Mrs

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By *ecky and justCouple
38 weeks ago

Godalming

Apparently I’m a massive flirt.

Becky pokes fun at me about it regularly.

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By *illie fitMan
38 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"I am awfully blunt, the older I get the less time I've got for pissing around

Do you wanna join us for some fuckery or not? That's my chat up line. Its simple enough right?

Mrs "

Straight to the point, wish everyone was

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By *ettpairCouple
38 weeks ago

Kettering

Absolutely useless when it comes to flirting.....the wife on the other hand is a bloody natural at it lol

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By *ove2-lickMan
38 weeks ago

Worcester

Absolutely love flirty banter before meet it will make me more comfortable when u meet.

But still no luck

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By *hinstrapMan
38 weeks ago

Barnsley

I'm probably the world's worst at flirting . Hence why I'm still single.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I am notorious bad at flirting .... I have to get Mr to do a lot of the chats as I am just blunt and if someone says something flirty with me I can't reply

So can you...? Do you need flirty banter before you would meet.

I am great at being friendly and welcoming and saying " shall we have some fun" but can't do the small talk flirty stuff lol...

Cali "

In the same boat as you chick! I'm neurospicy, so being straightforward and direct is the only way for me, although I can sometimes tell if someone is being flirty, but I never know what to respond with.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"I am awfully blunt, the older I get the less time I've got for pissing around

Do you wanna join us for some fuckery or not? That's my chat up line. Its simple enough right?

Mrs "

Sounds fine to me. I don't see the issue.

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By *laytonAMan
38 weeks ago

newport

Absolutely terrible at online flirting in my opinion and probably equally bad in real life.

Not overly confident in that regard so just tend to try and be me and hope my odd ball humour is endearing.

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By *eliWoman
38 weeks ago

I'm not sure.

Sometimes I think I can but that's more to do with connecting with another rather than flirting, if that makes sense? I'm probably sometimes a bit flirty but if there being any finesse to it is questionable.

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By *rBobbMan
38 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I'm not sure.

You have said it perfectly and I totally get where you are coming from

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair

Yes, however my flirting and flirtatious behaviour is masked behind the nuances and safety of messaging and written correspondence, which I enjoy (without being overbearing).

In real life it's a little more subtle... sometimes even non-existent unless there's clear and present chemistry.

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By *ausage1970Man
36 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Lol my favourite pastime

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
36 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

I'm absolutely awful at flirting, online or irl, example: if you were a potato, you'd be a really good potato

lol

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
36 weeks ago

east coast

H tells me I'm flirting all the time she think I do it with everyone lol even the ladies in the office at work say the same haha I don't think I do though xJ

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By *assConductorMan
36 weeks ago

the wild

Online or over text absolutely not.

In person I unintentionally do, unfortunately this ability vanishes when it's someone I'm interested in.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Initially I'm absolutely shit at flirting, I never know when anyone's flirting with me unless it's obvious & I need to know someone a bit to be able to "attempt" to flirt so in the 1st few messages I'd struggle, later down the line if I was comfortable and knew it was mutual I'd relax a little more.

Mrs

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