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bi, or bi curious..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello to all of you..

I'm on here as a straight guy, but over time have imagined situations where the girl has requested a bit of male male contact as it would turn her on to see it.

Now I like to think I'm open to suggestion, & like to please & satisfy my partner completely.

So if I would consider this, does that make me curious or totally bi.??

I did come into a girl's mouth once & immediately took it back from her into mine & swallowed it, that was horny, but not the same as sucking another guy's cock huh.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say if your just thinking about it, your curious. If you try it and go back for more, you ain't curious anymore, .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say you are curious, but only you can decide on whether it's curiosity or something you would like to take further

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, that's kinda what I was thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend, just do whatever feels comfortable to you and don't worry about labels like "bi" or "bi-curious". People are too afraid of being labelled as a this or a that, to really let go and enjoy themselves fully sometimes.

I am a bi male. It was, just like you, something I was curious about and decided to try and then I found out that I enjoyed it.

So, I say, if it's a side of your sexuality that you wish to explore....go for it! Trust me, you will love it! Jim xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMHO I'd say you're definitely open to broadening your horizons & would be cool enough to be curious rather than Bi. Once you've tried it then you'll have a better idea if its something you'd be willing to try again.

I've explored Bi MFMs with MF Cpls & enjoyed pleasuring the F & appreciated the fact that she's been enjoying things we've done, however my main attraction is still rooted with guys. I don't think that makes me Bi but still consider myself Gay. Likewise if you try & like a MFM with guys you might not consider yourself Bi but still predominantly Str8.

Ultimately it doesn't matter what others consider you to be but what you are comfortable with yourself.

Explore & enjoy is what I'd suggest & if you don't enjoy then no harm done so long as you're at ease with the folk you play with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say you are curious, but only you can decide on whether it's curiosity or something you would like to take further"

It's not even a case of wanting to try it,... More a question of would I or wouldn't I if asked to in the heat of the moment....... Option 1, crack on n deal with whatever comes next.

Option 2, back off n be left wondering what it may have been like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking your cum back from a womans mouth is nothing to do with being bi..its just cum play with a woman...If you think about playing with a guys cock/ass then your bi curious, once you have tried it and liked it you are bi..but just enjoy what ever happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it "

totally agree

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it

totally agree "

Yep agree try it and if you like it, try it again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback guys.

I guess I'm trying to please the people looking at the profile rather than the person in it... Lol,

The opportunity hasn't & may never come up yet so I guess until it does, I'm not fooling any1.

Time will tell its own story..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it "

Exactly...

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By *st timers 2012Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it "

Defo- try it , and if its good- do it again !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do call it if you do not scream if a man sucks you but you do not suck him back? Appart from Selfish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it

totally agree "

3rded.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What do call it if you do not scream if a man sucks you but you do not suck him back? Appart from Selfish? "

Boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it

totally agree "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If you do, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you actively FANCY a man, and get turned on by the man himself, then you are bi. If however you are like me and don't find men attractive to the eye, but are hugely turned on by the thought and act of sex with them, then I would say you are trysexual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it "

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it "

Absolutely spot on

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

I see a lot of straight guys who have that itch, they see me as a half way house between male and female, somebody not as scary as another male.

Many guys tell me they have been bi-curious and thought about it for years but have never done anything about it. I try to give people that opportunity to try something new. If you don't like it then you don't do it again, but at least you know. Never regret in life what you've done, only what you haven't done.

Jenny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you actively FANCY a man, and get turned on by the man himself, then you are bi. If however you are like me and don't find men attractive to the eye, but are hugely turned on by the thought and act of sex with them, then I would say you are trysexual!"

Heat of the moment 'trysexual' i'm liking that phrase!

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone


"If you actively FANCY a man, and get turned on by the man himself, then you are bi. If however you are like me and don't find men attractive to the eye, but are hugely turned on by the thought and act of sex with them, then I would say you are trysexual!

Heat of the moment 'trysexual' i'm liking that phrase!"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'd say if your just thinking about it, your curious. If you try it and go back for more, you ain't curious anymore, . "

^^^ This

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

I like the 'trysexual' , Mrs W is Bi and I'm getting into the idea of pushing my bi bounderies, (had one and ahalf dabbles ) lol . 1st time in Xtasia when a single guy told mrs W to suck my cock while he was kissing her, and at a meet with a couple he asked if he could taste my cock and I reciprocated later, It was a 'go with the flo moment' felt odd afterwards , would never rule it out in future if it felt right lol

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I like the 'trysexual' , Mrs W is Bi and I'm getting into the idea of pushing my bi bounderies, (had one and ahalf dabbles ) lol . 1st time in Xtasia when a single guy told mrs W to suck my cock while he was kissing her, and at a meet with a couple he asked if he could taste my cock and I reciprocated later, It was a 'go with the flo moment' felt odd afterwards , would never rule it out in future if it felt right lol "

Umm one of our fantasies too, one day may be with the right experimential couple

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

All this talk about "Dont worry about labels, do what you like".....

YET, so many threads about straight guys claiming to being Bi and vice versa....

Make up your minds!!!!

Fact is, if you dont "Label" yourself....everyone complains

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"All this talk about "Dont worry about labels, do what you like".....

YET, so many threads about straight guys claiming to being Bi and vice versa....

Make up your minds!!!!

Fact is, if you dont "Label" yourself....everyone complains "

Wouldnt label him as bi as havent tried yet, just experimenting and enjoying carefree erotic fun, seeing what is a turn on and not. Who knows we both might like it or perhaps not do anything for us, but until you try you will not know when or if he is bi and at what level

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"All this talk about "Dont worry about labels, do what you like".....

YET, so many threads about straight guys claiming to being Bi and vice versa....

Make up your minds!!!!

Fact is, if you dont "Label" yourself....everyone complains

Wouldnt label him as bi as havent tried yet, just experimenting and enjoying carefree erotic fun, seeing what is a turn on and not. Who knows we both might like it or perhaps not do anything for us, but until you try you will not know when or if he is bi and at what level"

You missed the point of my post...

I wouldnt suggest anyone change to bi/bi curious if they just thinking about and not yet sure about trying things out...

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"All this talk about "Dont worry about labels, do what you like".....

YET, so many threads about straight guys claiming to being Bi and vice versa....

Make up your minds!!!!

Fact is, if you dont "Label" yourself....everyone complains

Wouldnt label him as bi as havent tried yet, just experimenting and enjoying carefree erotic fun, seeing what is a turn on and not. Who knows we both might like it or perhaps not do anything for us, but until you try you will not know when or if he is bi and at what level

You missed the point of my post...

I wouldnt suggest anyone change to bi/bi curious if they just thinking about and not yet sure about trying things out..."

Agree if we do get to experiment and both enjoy it then sure it would be approipiate to change the profile....watch this space who knows xx

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By *ethRyanCouple
over a year ago

Preston


"who cares what its classed as, if it feels good do it

totally agree "

Yep... always wondered about the need to label ourselves if the situation works and is fun why not!

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