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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or do others like to socialise with whoever it is they meet? I prefer to meet those who i may see regularly where laughs are always guaranteed and stay in contact too.

I do accept that there are times when a quick meet is necessary and you just want to fulfill a fantasy. I know this is a swinging site..but its not all about about a wham bam thank you ma'am/sir is it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We like to socialise, we thoroughly enjoy a meal or a drink with people that we can talk to openly and where I can flirt with a guy without being thought to be the whore of Babylon. Of course it isn't for everyone but we love it.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We do both we have one offs ,and we have met a few guys more than once,just depends how we feel when available for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet is important; it is the deciding factor on meeting again, just because you exchange messages with someone, doesn't mean that you will be attracted to them. One off's can become long term

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..think the body language would say it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the social side of Fab xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think socialising is a big part of it its nice getting to know people and how they started out rather than just trying to get my dick wet as quick as possible.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If its a one on one meet I do prefer a drink and chat. The more we get on, the more I will be pleased to meet again.

GBs however.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive got to be honest im not really on here looking for friends, I have those, tho I do like to get on with who im having sex with, so the first meet is always for a drink and a chat and if we get on I like to play first night, im not into just meeting for a social then arranging play another time, I see no point in that at all, if I meet a guy and spend a couple of hours chatting flirting, we both like each other and know we want to play I want him now not in 3 weeks when we're both free again, after the first meet if we meet again I feel no need to go for a drink again, we both already know we want each other so id sooner just get straight down to business, this is a sex site and that's what I use it for, if I just want to go out for a drink and a laugh I have friends for that if I want sex I come on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive got to be honest im not really on here looking for friends, I have those, tho I do like to get on with who im having sex with, so the first meet is always for a drink and a chat and if we get on I like to play first night, im not into just meeting for a social then arranging play another time, I see no point in that at all, if I meet a guy and spend a couple of hours chatting flirting, we both like each other and know we want to play I want him now not in 3 weeks when we're both free again, after the first meet if we meet again I feel no need to go for a drink again, we both already know we want each other so id sooner just get straight down to business, this is a sex site and that's what I use it for, if I just want to go out for a drink and a laugh I have friends for that if I want sex I come on here "

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By *unwmidscplCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

love the social side its so nice ,drinks laughs then maybe fun which is a bonus lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet socially first as most of the above and always insist on a social. I wouldn't just meet for fun without that initial attraction and of course the flirting. I would rather have regular meets than one offs so they do end up being friends. Meeting up after having a drink at there's or out before the fun makes it feel better than just a quick fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive got to be honest im not really on here looking for friends, I have those, tho I do like to get on with who im having sex with, so the first meet is always for a drink and a chat and if we get on I like to play first night, im not into just meeting for a social then arranging play another time, I see no point in that at all, if I meet a guy and spend a couple of hours chatting flirting, we both like each other and know we want to play I want him now not in 3 weeks when we're both free again, after the first meet if we meet again I feel no need to go for a drink again, we both already know we want each other so id sooner just get straight down to business, this is a sex site and that's what I use it for, if I just want to go out for a drink and a laugh I have friends for that if I want sex I come on here "

I have to admit that this was my stance originally when we first began swinging as a couple but that was mainly when we met single men and I was very happy with either one offs or guys who came and went-so to speak...and it still happens occasionally but we have made some amazing friends here that have crossed over into "real" life...the problem with that is that sometimes you go a bit beyond a purely swinging relationship because the dynamics have shifted, which is a shame when you're hugely sexually compatible with a couple...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not at all interested in meeting socially.

I don't want to make friends here, i am just here for sex.

We meet at Chams so we will chat a bit while in the jacuzzi etc but its all about the sex and not social stuff.

The emails etc before the meet will have established if the person is what we are looking for in general.

I'm not keen on socialising with anyone other than hubby and close family anyway as i find chitchat boring lol

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