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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't one. I absolutely love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mess!! Have more waterproof sheets than most old people's homes!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's bloody messy !!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Sleeping in a wet bed.

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By *elfish...Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Sleeping in a wet bed. "

Hairdryer! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we love it but the wet sheets are annoying.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

John Lewis do very good waterproof mattress protectors. They are terry Towelling on one side and go on snug like a fitted sheet. I always have one on my bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a guys point of _iew, leaving his bed wet and going home to a nice dry one, guess I should have told him I might make a mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a guys point of _iew, leaving his bed wet and going home to a nice dry one, guess I should have told him I might make a mess "

i get what u mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a guys point of _iew, leaving his bed wet and going home to a nice dry one, guess I should have told him I might make a mess "

Some things are so worth the hassel! So long as the lady says she squirts he can take precautions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mess,

The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'

The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?

Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.

The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?"

My all-wool Indian rug cost a flippin fortune to get cleaned thanks to one particular lady on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being so dehydrated you almost pass out!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Stained mattresses if not advised

Messy playrooms in clubs if they don't clear up after themselves

The pedestal some are placed on or place themselves on if they can.

I don't think it is anything special to be honest, I don't mind it and it is always good to see people enjoy themselves.... just not on my furniture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I experienced it my partner was on top. She didn't tell. Me she squirted and I honestly thought I'd peed! I was mortified lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being so dehydrated you almost pass out!!

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Once I hit 4 in a row, I have to stop as incredibly draining

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By *ass-ErectCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

Seen as I tend to cum when I squirt (I know a lot of people I have spoken to say you can't normally cum and squirt at the same time) not only is it wobbly leg syndrome trying to stand but also intense cum headaches...

Liara. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleeping in the wet patch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The smell of sex in the whole bedroom the day after;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with View.

I don't squirt or gush. I dislike men thinking that all women should or want to and thereby try and start roughly fingering to make them do it. Its producing an army of men who are losing sex skills I would say.

I don't accommodate but I cringe at the thought of going into someones home and doing this over their furniture.

Again the club playroom thing. I sat on the corner of a bed once at Chams and got the lace on the bottom of my babydoll wet because someone had just put on a show and had squirted everywhere. Strangely the morning after when I went to put my washing on, that babydoll smelt of urine. Clean up after yourselves in clubs.

The attitude on here that all women who don't squirt secretly want to.

The misconception that squirting is orgasm.

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

as above.. i can't help but think that it must be the same feeling as being pissed on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Headaches and dehydration. After my last big session I had a headache for three days.

No more squirting!!!

Well.... maybe a teeny drop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?"

It's messy, the last Woman I made squirt, came so much we had to change the bedding & turn the mattress over before continuing.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"The mess!! Have more waterproof sheets than most old people's homes!! Lol "

slight tangent but same question..at what point do you put the waterproof sheet ON the bed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mess!! Have more waterproof sheets than most old people's homes!! Lol

slight tangent but same question..at what point do you put the waterproof sheet ON the bed..."

When I know I'm meeting before he arrives! Won't play in the living room anymore either! Lol x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"The mess,

The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'

The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?

Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.

The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off "

Switching off, especially with a guy who says he can make any woman gush

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By *hobos46Man
over a year ago

Royston

Getting squirted in the eye! It stung like a bugger!

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"John Lewis do very good waterproof mattress protectors. They are terry Towelling on one side and go on snug like a fitted sheet. I always have one on my bed."

Got mine on ebay, loads cheaper than John Lewis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bad wrist the next morning lol

But well worth it

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Getting squirted in the eye! It stung like a bugger!

"

Now perhaps you can appreciate how we feel when some errant cum hits ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?"

NONE WHAT SO EVER!!!! X

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By *quirtymanMan
over a year ago

redditch

There is no downside to a good quirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly drowning ??

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

all the guys who use their fingers and think their good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wet bedding...so glad I invested in a pvc sheet...

Also stings if you get it in you eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman not knowing what happened and bolting out of the bedroom thinking she pissed herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?"

All the men who are utterly obsessed with it and won't believe me when I say I don't so get very short shrift when they're hammering away down there in order to prove me wrong...boring, painful and ultimately futile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

running a small business here, squirticlicious its called..we btl it.Need new porn material for the girls

always room for extra women, nat min wage ph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wet bedding...so glad I invested in a pvc sheet...

Also stings if you get it in you eye"

now u must know how pinkeye feels to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with View.

I don't squirt or gush. I dislike men thinking that all women should or want to and thereby try and start roughly fingering to make them do it. Its producing an army of men who are losing sex skills I would say.

I don't accommodate but I cringe at the thought of going into someones home and doing this over their furniture.

Again the club playroom thing. I sat on the corner of a bed once at Chams and got the lace on the bottom of my babydoll wet because someone had just put on a show and had squirted everywhere. Strangely the morning after when I went to put my washing on, that babydoll smelt of urine. Clean up after yourselves in clubs.

The attitude on here that all women who don't squirt secretly want to.

The misconception that squirting is orgasm.

"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?

All the men who are utterly obsessed with it and won't believe me when I say I don't so get very short shrift when they're hammering away down there in order to prove me wrong...boring, painful and ultimately futile...

"

Yep! Supposedly all they want is your pleasure......on their terms.

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By *eaverfeverCouple
over a year ago

nr Manchester


"The mess,

The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'

The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?

Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.

The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off "

I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with View.

I don't squirt or gush. I dislike men thinking that all women should or want to and thereby try and start roughly fingering to make them do it. Its producing an army of men who are losing sex skills I would say.

I don't accommodate but I cringe at the thought of going into someones home and doing this over their furniture.

Again the club playroom thing. I sat on the corner of a bed once at Chams and got the lace on the bottom of my babydoll wet because someone had just put on a show and had squirted everywhere. Strangely the morning after when I went to put my washing on, that babydoll smelt of urine. Clean up after yourselves in clubs.

The attitude on here that all women who don't squirt secretly want to.

The misconception that squirting is orgasm. "

Some women do. Some don't. Wouldn't life be boring if everyone did the same??

I used to have a FWB who LOVED to be fisted to 3 inches above my wrist. Had orgasm after orgasm. But not once did she squirt or gush. Did I enjoy it any less because of that? Course not.

Recreational Sex is like anything else, over time. There are fads and fashions which come and go. Squirting is just the de rigeur 'thing' at the moment. Couple of years time, it'll be something else... just enjoy it all... Is all good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mess,

The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'

The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?

Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.

The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off

I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing??? "

I never have either I'm so missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I didn't, it's only something that started happening recently when I got myself some glass toys, I flippin hate it, I wish I knew how to switch it back off again, but I can't control it.

So for me the downside, is doing it in the first place and the mess lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The mess,

The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'

The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?

Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.

The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off

I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing???

I never have either I'm so missing out "

Are you? I've never been fisted something else that the enjoyment police seem to think we should all be trying out and loving, buy far from feeling I'm missing out I feel quite glad that I don't need to accommodate some guy up to his elbow who isn't my gynaecologist.

All power to those that enjoy these things but all power too to those that manage to enjoy sex without them.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mess,

The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'

The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?

Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.

The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off

I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing???

I never have either I'm so missing out

Are you? I've never been fisted something else that the enjoyment police seem to think we should all be trying out and loving, buy far from feeling I'm missing out I feel quite glad that I don't need to accommodate some guy up to his elbow who isn't my gynaecologist.

All power to those that enjoy these things but all power too to those that manage to enjoy sex without them."

Never been fisted either and neither do I want to either thought terrifies me. Pain isn't for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mess,

The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'

The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?

Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.

The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.

"

Why do you let him if you don't want him to do it?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.

Why do you let him if you don't want him to do it?"

Sorry, wrote that badly. Its most guys who do it, and they don't do it for long after I've told them to knock it off! I just find it wearing that nearly every guy does it, especially as they are more likely to make me want to wee than squirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.

"

TOWELS?????!?..I have my tongue ffs lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.

TOWELS?????!?..I have my tongue ffs lol"

LOL I'll bear that in mind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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Why do you let him if you don't want him to do it?

Sorry, wrote that badly. Its most guys who do it, and they don't do it for long after I've told them to knock it off! I just find it wearing that nearly every guy does it, especially as they are more likely to make me want to wee than squirt. "

I understand. I also now realise why I have had to ask a couple if guys to be more gentle recently.

Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Why do you let him if you don't want him to do it?

Sorry, wrote that badly. Its most guys who do it, and they don't do it for long after I've told them to knock it off! I just find it wearing that nearly every guy does it, especially as they are more likely to make me want to wee than squirt.

I understand. I also now realise why I have had to ask a couple if guys to be more gentle recently.

Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon."

can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.

can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol"

Of course! I should have included women as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.

can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol

Of course! I should have included women as well. "

especially if they have long or fake fingernails lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.

can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol

Of course! I should have included women as well.

especially if they have long or fake fingernails lol"

Noone with those fake fingernails is coming anywhere near my bits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.

"

yep, sore tummy muscles...feels like a workout without the benefits of a flatter tum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.

can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol

Of course! I should have included women as well.

especially if they have long or fake fingernails lol

Noone with those fake fingernails is coming anywhere near my bits! "

Edwinascissorhands and I wanted a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yep! Supposedly all they want is your pleasure......on their terms.

"

I really like that quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.

can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol

Of course! I should have included women as well.

especially if they have long or fake fingernails lol

Noone with those fake fingernails is coming anywhere near my bits!

Edwinascissorhands and I wanted a meet... "

Lol...she can cut me fringe but that's all she's getting...

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

And no-ones mentioned the smell o stale piss ?? ......

runs and dives into bunker .....

On an honest _iew im with Views earlier post .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love it, such a turn on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mess,

The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'

The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?

Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.

The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off

I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing???

I never have either I'm so missing out

Are you? I've never been fisted something else that the enjoyment police seem to think we should all be trying out and loving, buy far from feeling I'm missing out I feel quite glad that I don't need to accommodate some guy up to his elbow who isn't my gynaecologist.

All power to those that enjoy these things but all power too to those that manage to enjoy sex without them."

I feel exactly the same. There is certainly a trend of guys becoming rougher, are they to blame or the women who are encouraging it. I prefer men who are in tune with a womans body. Can tell from her responses what is good for her and adapt their skills to that. That is what a good lover is, not a man who roughly fingers or pounds away like there's no tomorrow.

I an old fashioned I guess. I like sensual sex, I like being turned on b y touching gently with a slightly firmer touch when my body is ready, lots of foreplay and definitely oral, I will certainly get moist when I'm suitably turned on, and this can seem quite wet but it never enough to squirt out and hit the ceiling. I may dampen a sheet a little, I would never soak it or go through to the mattress and stain it. I like 2 fingers, I do not want a whole hand and arm up there. I'm not competing against Sticky Vicky to see how many items I can get in my muff. I like sex how millions of women before me have enjoyed it, not into all these new sexual inventions that have come from porn films

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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

totally agree

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By *estingBoundariesCouple
over a year ago

Nr Louth

The mess is the best part of it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all win as far as i can see .

Love it

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

Not expecting it especially during oral it still shocks me in a good way though

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

We played with a lady who could squirt but she didn't tell us - we were in a hotel and had to take the bedding off the bed and sleep in her wet patch which wasn't fun at all.

We didn't have any spare towels to put on the bed either and had to sleep on the matress and we just left the bedding on the floor for the cleaners....sorry Premier Inn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many a happy night blow drying bed sheets

and we think it smells like chicken noodles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"many a happy night blow drying bed sheets

and we think it smells like chicken noodles lol"

sheet sniffers..heard it all now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont need to sniff the sheets its normally all over us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"many a happy night blow drying bed sheets

and we think it smells like chicken noodles lol"

mmm chicken noodles

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"And no-ones mentioned the smell o stale piss ?? ......

runs and dives into bunker .....

On an honest _iew im with Views earlier post .....

"

I have MCS (multiple chemical sensitivity) and the smell of urine is horrendous in clubs, especially on beds with rips in, or have cushions on them. Its often the 1st smell I get when I walk into a room.

I dont squirt, I gush but stop myself as it feels like I need to pee. Only once did I let it go further, but my friend agreed to a bit of watersports fun.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"many a happy night blow drying bed sheets

and we think it smells like chicken noodles lol

mmm chicken noodles "

pmsl! chicken noodles!

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London


"John Lewis do very good waterproof mattress protectors. They are terry Towelling on one side and go on snug like a fitted sheet. I always have one on my bed."

Recommended standard equipment,lol.

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