FabSwingers.com forum: Can you spot other swingers ?

By *andDebs OP Couple
40 weeks ago

Chester

Does anyone think when you’re in a packed pub or meeting lots of people in a meeting room “I bet there swingers” etc, do it quite a lot now ?

We’ve been asked by other swingers without them knowing randomly if we are! Does it stand out haha

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By *uncouple153Couple
40 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Have seen other couples sitting in a pub. A few times they have been on the FAB app scrolling away.

Perhaps we need a badge or a wristband we can pull out x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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40 weeks ago

East Sussex

No but they seem to be able to spot us

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By *ittymcgeeCouple
40 weeks ago

Stevenage

Always wondered this. Statistically someone in your circle or who you know will be right? So we’re always guessing who it might be lol

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By *ouple2playCouple
40 weeks ago

Solihull

I wouldn’t say we could, but have! We were in a local bar (on a rare night with no kids), saw another couple…something about them, loving but with wandering eyes as well - made us check fab and…very proud of ourselves lol

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By *idlandiaMan
40 weeks ago

Birmingham

Not noticed swingers, but people cheating or entertaining a lady they have paid are fairly easy to spot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I think one way to solve this issue is for everyone on fab (as a community) to agree collectively (perhaps as a poll through a cheeky picture on a profile) to a specific unique design on a bracelet which would be the notifier of a swinger in public. As long as people start to use them and share the meaning with other swingers, it should start to make traction.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I got approached once and shot my pants lol but I was quite a bit younger, now I look round and think I would like them to be swingers

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By *oxy jWoman
40 weeks ago

somerset

people have tried for years to have a ''sign'' and failed for good reason real swingers dont want there private lives pestered by what would be mainly men ...cant think of anything more yuk if im honest ...you can 100% believe none of those that approach would be remotely hot

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By *icecouple561Couple
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40 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I think one way to solve this issue is for everyone on fab (as a community) to agree collectively (perhaps as a poll through a cheeky picture on a profile) to a specific unique design on a bracelet which would be the notifier of a swinger in public. As long as people start to use them and share the meaning with other swingers, it should start to make traction."

Then one of the red tops would get hold of it and every chance would be using it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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40 weeks ago

East Sussex

The easiest thing to do is turn on who's near.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

But I thought that swingers doggers etc were dirty pervs till I realised how great it is and that there’s a community and normal people do it so I was wrong to stereo type everyone

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
40 weeks ago

Leeds

I like to look on who's near and play spot who the cock belongs to.

But in all seriousness no, people wouldn't look at us & think swingers, if anyone approached me outside of fab I'd not be impressed.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"people have tried for years to have a ''sign'' and failed for good reason real swingers dont want there private lives pestered by what would be mainly men ...cant think of anything more yuk if im honest ...you can 100% believe none of those that approach would be remotely hot"

That's a fair point Foxy. I'm probably not the only one that thought, it may be helpful for swingers to have some kind of universal signal to know each other by. But yea, I totally understand the point you made about possible unwanted attention.

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By *GentlemanMan
40 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"Does anyone think when you’re in a packed pub or meeting lots of people in a meeting room “I bet there swingers” etc, do it quite a lot now ?

We’ve been asked by other swingers without them knowing randomly if we are! Does it stand out haha "

It’ll be the frequency of energy that’s generated by the individuals and others ability to tune into it, consciously or even subconsciously?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Does anyone think when you’re in a packed pub or meeting lots of people in a meeting room “I bet there swingers” etc, do it quite a lot now ?

We’ve been asked by other swingers without them knowing randomly if we are! Does it stand out haha

It’ll be the frequency of energy that’s generated by the individuals and others ability to tune into it, consciously or even subconsciously? "

This is an interesting point.

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By *oxy jWoman
40 weeks ago

somerset

we have had people well couples guess and not only here in the uk been aproached in spain a few times on vanilla holiday and germany & holland where people are genuinely more open .... gay and bi women seem to have a knack too so giving off a hint that your naughty must be a thing..

and lets be honest a night out even as a couple it dont take a great deal to let a guy know your interested ....

people i work with think im a prude lol only because i have to behave in a professional manner at all times and im their boss ....

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By *herrybakewellCouple
40 weeks ago

Staffordshire

When in a swingers club, yes I can spot other swingers.

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By *ony MannMan
40 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I was with my partner looking for company on the app and noticed 'with 1/4 mile. Yes we worked out who it was. She was the one one her phone.

We had a chat and......

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Does anyone think when you’re in a packed pub or meeting lots of people in a meeting room “I bet there swingers” etc, do it quite a lot now ?

We’ve been asked by other swingers without them knowing randomly if we are! Does it stand out haha "

Only if your zip is undone

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"When in a swingers club, yes I can spot other swingers.

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"we have had people well couples guess and not only here in the uk been aproached in spain a few times on vanilla holiday and germany & holland where people are genuinely more open .... gay and bi women seem to have a knack too so giving off a hint that your naughty must be a thing..

and lets be honest a night out even as a couple it dont take a great deal to let a guy know your interested ....

people i work with think im a prude lol only because i have to behave in a professional manner at all times and im their boss .... "

Some

Of them have deffo thought about fucking you though lol

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By *eally_RosieWoman
40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I can often spot people, but mostly because I’m pretty easily recognisable, and I clock them looking and discussing x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I can often spot people, but mostly because I’m pretty easily recognisable, and I clock them looking and discussing x"

Different for a guy if I was looking over and they wasn’t swingers might end in bother, but if a woman was looking over and paying as much attention to the other woman it would t be an issue I do t think

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By *ick1111Man
40 weeks ago

Near Spalding

Watching this thread closely

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By *ony MannMan
39 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Should fab sell ties, or broaches?

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By *as1373Couple
39 weeks ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

There are some unofficial signs we are aware of including wearing anklets, toe rings, a black ring or sometimes the wedding band on right hand.

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By *angtidy42Couple
39 weeks ago

Redditch

We do check to see who's near. And then look to see if we can make out who it could be.

If we are chatting we drop the word FAB into the conversation and look to see if we get a reaction or response, normally it's the gentleman of the couple who gives it away.

Then when the ladies are away things are said, if they are.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
39 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We often try but not sure we ever have been right

never been approached, well only by some people we had met at a club previously, so that doesn't count.

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
39 weeks ago

North East leicestershire

Never knowing spotted any fellow fabbers or been spotted. X

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By *orgive us our GinsCouple
39 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

Often look at people in public places...pubs etc...wondering...do they/don't they!

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

As someone who went to a social and people thought I’d accidentally walked in and no one had picked up on it for the first HOUR

I’d say spotting a swinger is occasionally difficult

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By *entleman JayMan
39 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’d say from my experience, it’s the ones you least expect, who would turn out to be Fabbers.

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
39 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I think you can sense if someone has a particularly potent sexual energy about them but that does not necessarily make them swingers.

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By *eronikapaulCouple
39 weeks ago

Reading

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I’d say spotting a swinger is occasionally difficult

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We went to a social last year. Our first time there and we thought we might be a little early, so got a drink and sat at a tall table near the bar of the big pub. After a while we clocked a smart looking couple at a similar table 5 yds away who were chatting, but looking around fairly regularly.

Dead certs we thought, so the best looking (bravest) of us strolled casually over. "Excuse me asking but are you in town for the show?" I ventured,slightly vaguely.

"No" they replied. "We're locals here to watch the swingers...It's quite entertaining and you should stay and watch, but they don't usually show up for another hour or so...".

Hmmm

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By *lueLotusWoman
39 weeks ago

the wilderness

I think we should devise an eyebrow waggle

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By *ML49Man
39 weeks ago

Burnley

"Always wondered this. Statistically someone in your circle or who you know will be right? So we’re always guessing who it might be lol "

Easy guess as it's you

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By *helroyCouple
39 weeks ago

Skegness

we just use who near me

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By *ootyfruityCouple
39 weeks ago

andover

We love people watching and guessing who the swingers are

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
39 weeks ago

Norwichish

"Always wondered this. Statistically someone in your circle or who you know will be right? So we’re always guessing who it might be lol "

Surely it’s you?

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
39 weeks ago

Norwichish

If we are staying at a hotel before going to a club, it’s fairly easy to spot the couples probably heading in same direction. Not necessarily because of what they are wearing.

Breakfast the next morning can be fun thinking about who you saw where in what position

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

There are people in our local that are but not a lot is said..& hubby has said that there is a married couple in the gym that definitely play..

Mrs..

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By *azmar62Couple
39 weeks ago

Hinckley

We’re people watcher’s when we go out and many times we’ve spotted the people we actually know who are on fab. We don’t dive into a frenzy when we see them, but we do give a polite nod.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
39 weeks ago

andover

"We’re people watcher’s when we go out and many times we’ve spotted the people we actually know who are on fab. We don’t dive into a frenzy when we see them, but we do give a polite nod. "

Love this

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
39 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Only after they've come over to chat us up xx

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By *JandCMCouple
39 weeks ago

cardiff

We have never had anyone spot us, or say anything n the wife quite often wears a t shirt with a picture of a Fab ice cream on it.

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