FabSwingers.com forum: Too close

By *exyLeeLee OP Woman
over a year ago

leeds

Has anyone has people say they won't meet you as you live to close to them. Like if the are less than a mile they won't meet you. I personally don't see the issue unless your cheating on your partner. I mean it's not like most people wave and shout hiiiii if we saw them in public...I certainly wouldn't unless we give each other permission.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

We seldom meet local either unless it is a lasting arrangement.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Don't meet local keeps things simple x

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By *exyLeeLee OP Woman
over a year ago

leeds

"We seldom meet local either unless it is a lasting arrangement.

So do you do 1 off meets?

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By *exyLeeLee OP Woman
over a year ago

leeds

"Don't meet local keeps things simple x "

What about a club. If you Met them in a club near to you

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By *lackstar00Man
over a year ago

Not to far

Don’t shit where you sleep…

Things don’t always go the way you hopped or planned and the last thing you need is seeing that person everyday!

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By *exyLeeLee OP Woman
over a year ago

leeds

"Don’t shit where you sleep…

Things don’t always go the way you hopped or planned and the last thing you need is seeing that person everyday! "

Surely you just ignore them then... alot of people seem to do that normally ?

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Exact opposite in one instance...

....after exchanging messages here to start, then emails and texts, leading eventually to a phone call, the discovery that we lived on parallel roads - virtually with in sight of each other's houses - led to an immediate "come round for coffee?"...

....less than 10 mins later, I was sat on her sofa with a coffee, and one thing soon led to another, and another - and subsequently to a number of "Want to come round?" encounters when she was feeling horny...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being local dont bother me

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"We seldom meet local either unless it is a lasting arrangement.

So do you do 1 off meets?"

We do. We prefer that to be further afield though.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I block most locals, we wouldn't meet locals, I don't want to be bumping into some random meet while out with the kids.

Mrs

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Dont shit where you eat is my veiw

D x

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I don't arrange to meet anyone close anymore.

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

wirral

I dont mind local as long as they can be discrete, met a guy once and when he turned up he told me his daughter lived in the same street as me.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Has anyone has people say they won't meet you as you live to close to them. Like if the are less than a mile they won't meet you. I personally don't see the issue unless your cheating on your partner. I mean it's not like most people wave and shout hiiiii if we saw them in public...I certainly wouldn't unless we give each other permission."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah have had that a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind local meets

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

I prefer to keep to my local area, hotel or their place. My days of travelling to meets are via public transport are over. If a guy is willing to pick me up and drop me back home then that's different.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

If you wouldn't want to share a Tesco, don't share a bed

It's not so much that they're local, it's more the potential for them to turn out to be a psycho on your doorstep.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We carefully filter the local people we would potentially meet, before disclosing where we are.

Have been lucky to have made some nice friends that are just the next street but are sane and able to realise we don’t need to be in each others pockets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think meeting local is better for single males because you can have some really fun friends close by so it’s not a drama organising a meet, obvs they have to be sane and not clingy but yeah I don’t see a problem in it but can see how it might be for couples or people with family’s

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Even when I do look for anyone new, I prefer not to meet people who live too near. Just my choice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Until you know somebody quite well you have no idea what they're like. For us It's best if there's a distance between you in my opinion.

We did meet a guy at an organised social who turned out to live in the next street. That was fine he was very friendly and chatty

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By *ikingandMaiden2Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

Think it also depends where you live. If your in a big city then it's less likely to get that awkward meet in public.

If your more rural then that public meeting can happen quite easily. A lot of trust in discretion.

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By *ee69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Local is more convenient for me but just got to respect what other people want , I like to say a discreet hi but only if they happy too

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By *uffhandymanMan
over a year ago

selby

Local is great, means more meets and less time travelling means more time for fucking!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I generally avoid very local. I like a simple life

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

To be completely honest I don’t have a problem with meeting local. We are all adults and as far as I am concerned I am 100% discreet what happens behind closed doors stays there

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"To be completely honest I don’t have a problem with meeting local. We are all adults and as far as I am concerned I am 100% discreet what happens behind closed doors stays there "

You might be, but not everyone is.

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

It’s up to the individual really if they say sorry your to close then that’s fine by me

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By *our TV fantasyTV/TS
over a year ago

Waterloo, Liverpool

Yes, a guy lived nearer to the pub at the end of my road than I do so have it a miss and blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet people that are local as I have found the further away a person is the less likely they are to turn up.

Also it means they can be more available.

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