FabSwingers.com forum: Gold Diggers of 2013

By *ldestswingerintown OP Man
over a year ago

Lancaster

There's a woman in this area has put a couple of profiles up asking (quote) "I AM looking to be wined and dined and bought gifts" I replied and she asked me what I would get her in the way of gifts. What do people think about this? - is it a quite legitimate type of relationship, ie Sugar Daddy and girl, or is it exploitative and verging on prostitution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it fills a niche for 2 differing parties but think prostitution is too strong a term for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her choice and she's been straight up about. Pass it by if its not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will see this as prostitution/exploitation. Whilst others will see it as a sugar daddy type of thing where BOTH parties agree up front what is allowable! But if it bothers you that much, just block and move on!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I dont see it as either to be honest,bit cheeky maybe but if someone was buying me a gift id be chuffed but definatlely would never expect or ask for one

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By *ldestswingerintown OP Man
over a year ago

Lancaster

no, it doesn't bother me, I'm just curious as to how it fits into the concept of swinging. I certainly wouldn't take on that kind of relationship myself - i'm much too mean!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

too often a person and their money is too easily parted, least they are up front..

many are not and people learn a hard way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your first gift to her should be membership to sugar-daddy.com.

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By *H.coupleCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

it all depends on how the "gift" was perceived.

if it was arranged that the gift would be given at a meal or a social meeting then whatever floats your boat. However, if it was aagreed that the gift will be given in exchange for sexual favours then imo thats prostitution and should be reported

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"no, it doesn't bother me, I'm just curious as to how it fits into the concept of swinging. I certainly wouldn't take on that kind of relationship myself - i'm much too mean!"

Interesting you use the word "relationship", it's not is it. Someone can ask for what they want to get a meet. "Do one sweetheart!" may make them reconsider.

Either way you have the right to refuse and ignore!

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Does this not break the site rules?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Does this not break the site rules?

Yes.

To the OP...report the profile as it is against site rules

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Does this not break the site rules?

I think being asked for money does, but expecting a gift and a meal are probably different.

Cheeky, but certainly not illegal.

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