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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago

Why is it I never seem to get past initial

Message exchanges. Find someone you are compatible with exchange messages - what you into, sexual preferences, location, availability both clearly want to meet and then……nothing. Just what is that all about. Do they lose interest despite saying they are keen, find someone else……

Used to have it on an old profile. Just for fun.

Things that make you go hmmmm…..

Single women profiles with only pics of their boobs and pussy who say ‘No dick pics’. Come on ladies. Double standards.

And someone please define what an exceptional male is and how many ‘monster cocks’ and 8’ plus guys are out there?

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By *aomilatteCouple
39 weeks ago

Midlands

If you're interacting with single women with only pics of boobs and pussy it may not actually be a woman. The percentage of "monster cocks" is less than 5%. Exceptional would be a matter of opinion, it's not a word we would use.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Just a point, but on your profile you demand that others have face pics but you don't show your own face...that makes me move on straight away tbh, which is a shame because you sound like a really nice guy.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
39 weeks ago

Kendal


"Just a point, but on your profile you demand that others have face pics but you don't show your own face...that makes me move on straight away tbh, which is a shame because you sound like a really nice guy."

This! Ar least OP has some photos of himself to be fair to him, it's worse when it's a completely blank profile with 0 pictures whatsoever and they're demanding face photos. Pot kettle black?!?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago


"Just a point, but on your profile you demand that others have face pics but you don't show your own face...that makes me move on straight away tbh, which is a shame because you sound like a really nice guy."

Sorry means face pics to send. Fair one though.

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By *issmorganWoman
39 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, just my thoughts. Not everyone can meet daytimes, which is what you've specified you're after.

Plus not all ladies will be interested in someone who is just in their area for a day/night.

When I am meeting, I'd only meet local men and I take a good while charring, until I'm comfortable with them.

I'm not saying you do this, but many men who travel seem to only message a day or 2 before they'd be near me. I work, I have a life as most of us do, so can't and wouldn't meet fast.

That may be a reason, or if you've spoken a good while in advance of travelling to them, life gets in the way or they find someone closer etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago


"Hi op, just my thoughts. Not everyone can meet daytimes, which is what you've specified you're after.

Plus not all ladies will be interested in someone who is just in their area for a day/night.

When I am meeting, I'd only meet local men and I take a good while charring, until I'm comfortable with them.

I'm not saying you do this, but many men who travel seem to only message a day or 2 before they'd be near me. I work, I have a life as most of us do, so can't and wouldn't meet fast.

That may be a reason, or if you've spoken a good while in advance of travelling to them, life gets in the way or they find someone closer etc. "

Thanks

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By *TinRedCouple
39 weeks ago

Reading

Your whole profile reads as though you see this place as a hook up site. Contrary to belief... Most people here aren't just looking for a quick random fuck. To us, it seems you've joined with the wrong expectations...?

Not saying that's the case, but that's one of the many reasons we wouldn't reply to your message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago


"Your whole profile reads as though you see this place as a hook up site. Contrary to belief... Most people here aren't just looking for a quick random fuck. To us, it seems you've joined with the wrong expectations...?

Not saying that's the case, but that's one of the many reasons we wouldn't reply to your message. "

Fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"Your whole profile reads as though you see this place as a hook up site. Contrary to belief... Most people here aren't just looking for a quick random fuck. To us, it seems you've joined with the wrong expectations...?

Not saying that's the case, but that's one of the many reasons we wouldn't reply to your message. "
I was actually quite disappointed to see this reply as I actually did join this site in the hope of meeting people for a quick fuck.....oh well, you live and learn...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago


"Your whole profile reads as though you see this place as a hook up site. Contrary to belief... Most people here aren't just looking for a quick random fuck. To us, it seems you've joined with the wrong expectations...?

Not saying that's the case, but that's one of the many reasons we wouldn't reply to your message. I was actually quite disappointed to see this reply as I actually did join this site in the hope of meeting people for a quick fuck.....oh well, you live and learn...lol"

Thanks for bringing some reality and humour into it. And there was me thinking it was all about looking for lurve and the man/woman/TV of my dreams who I want to marry.

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