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Wife blindsided by a meet you organised

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By *ndianchocolate OP   Man
39 weeks ago

Pinner

Has anyone ever arranged a meet with a couple or single male or female where the other half didn’t have a clue

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By *hoirCouple
39 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I've had a few of them. Sometimes it is the wife wanting some fun to embarrass her husband or sometimes the husband is being a dickhead and wants me to seduce his wife.

C

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By *enatton2Couple
39 weeks ago

West Midlands

Yeah one of our first mmf meets was exactly that. Ben arranged for his mate to walk in as we played. I should’ve been suspicious when he asked me to pop on a basque, laid me on the bed and started eating my pussy.

I was head back enjoying myself when I heard someone coming up the stairs. Initially I panicked but Ben smiled at me and it dawned on me that he’d planned something. I actually had known the guy for years and got on well with him anyway so we just all dived straight in.

It opened the door to much more fun over the years

Tani

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By *ubyRonCouple
39 weeks ago

Lancashire


"Yeah one of our first mmf meets was exactly that. Ben arranged for his mate to walk in as we played. I should’ve been suspicious when he asked me to pop on a basque, laid me on the bed and started eating my pussy.

I was head back enjoying myself when I heard someone coming up the stairs. Initially I panicked but Ben smiled at me and it dawned on me that he’d planned something. I actually had known the guy for years and got on well with him anyway so we just all dived straight in.

It opened the door to much more fun over the years

Tani "

That sounds so hot but it's such a brave move! could have gone either way I guess.

I think Ruby really wants to fuck one of my friends in a similar situation but not sure his wife would be too pleased LOL

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
39 weeks ago

Bristol

Not as meets but certainly been chatting to couples ahead of going to clubs only to approach them on the night to say hello and realise that one half of the couple had no idea we'd been messaging back and forth. Felt very awkward both times.

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By *orphia2003Woman
39 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I've had a few meets where it's been apparent only one half of the couple knew about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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39 weeks ago

East Sussex

No and if it happened we'd be extremely concerned for the person who didn't know. Who would do that to someone? Who would put the people they were meeting in that position? It's a vile thing to do.

NB I know that some couples are aware that it will be ok but I'm not talking about them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
39 weeks ago

East Sussex

We have had socials where it's clear that one partner wasn't in to it but they've always been aware of the meet

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By *ndianchocolate OP   Man
39 weeks ago

Pinner

I think post is misunderstood, the conversation was about you were part of a sharing lifestyle and there would be instances where the other half would arrange a meet on a night out with the other half knowing

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
39 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

With someone completely new that's a hard no.

Inviting someone we've already played with before and established a mutual attraction and connection to as a surprise guest, that doesn't seem too bad.

But personally, I'd hate it either way. I don't like surprises or having to adjust my mindset without notice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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39 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I think post is misunderstood, the conversation was about you were part of a sharing lifestyle and there would be instances where the other half would arrange a meet on a night out with the other half knowing"

'blindsided' means to surprise someone with harmful results.

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By *entleman JayMan
39 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve had a lot of men trying to arrange a massage for the wife when she clearly has no idea about Fab. Asking me to pretend he found me in the “Yellow Pages”. Lol.

I’m never going to do that.

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