FabSwingers.com forum: Worst response to a rejection?

By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

What's the worst response you've got to a no thanks or an ignore?

I bet you've all had some good ones, I just had a guy call me racist because I didn't respond to his random message saying "meet now?" and one picture on his profile, you can't make it up...

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
39 weeks ago

Within touching distance

Been called arrogant and up our own arse lol also called fake and told my wife was horrible anyway haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Been called arrogant and up our own arse lol also called fake and told my wife was horrible anyway haha "

Haha jesus you'd think people would get used to being turned down on here after a while but clearly not

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
39 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Got called a fucking lanky bald retard and a little fat buck teeth saggy tits after basically being told we were the sexiest couple he'd seen on here

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I was told I look like a man

Mrs x

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By *nj6969Couple
39 weeks ago

Grimsby

Been called names and told up own arse. Even after told we wouldn't meet but we're polite even shared a few pics.

Then when asked again we said like we said not meeting and he just was horrible. Lesson learnt.

Been blocked becuase a guy said he could take rejection and we had broken him.

Yet we are always 100% honest within first few messages what we will or won't do xxx

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By *raigxMan
39 weeks ago

Northampton

Very abusive! From being attracted at first suddenly I was a right ugly pig who should die etc (to put it mildly)

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By *herryEatersCouple
39 weeks ago

East Cheshire

"What's the worst response you've got to a no thanks or an ignore?

I bet you've all had some good ones, I just had a guy call me racist because I didn't respond to his random message saying "meet now?" and one picture on his profile, you can't make it up..."

Yup, had to persuade a couple to send their face pics first then understood why they didn't want to

. We politely told them they were not for us but hoped they had a great time. Yet they reacted unpleasantly and demanded our face pics !?!?. We tried to remain polite but they carried on so we blocked them. End of story you'd think.... NO. They created another profile and attacked us from that one too

. Thank god blocking that one was enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

- told that's what the fat ones always say

- told I was a time waster and not serious about meeting as I would not meet them in 5 mins.

Block button is strong

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By *issmorganWoman
39 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

One bloke who took offence to me saying no, called me frigid.

I've been told I'm a time waster for deleting a message, not sure how that works or how I could be any clearer.

The worst one was after I deleted a meet now message, he said he was going to find me and fuck me bare.

Spitting out the dummy is quite frequent on here, so if I say no now, I block to save any potential abuse.

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By *ink vixenCouple
39 weeks ago

Medway

After rejecting politely a guy that said she was an angel he came back telling her she needed a muzzle and her husband obviously couldn’t satisfy her.

When blocked he set up and other profile to continue his paddy and another till we blocked all new profiles.

Actually saw him in a club a few weeks later and he couldn’t get out the door fast enough when he saw us!

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By *rispyDuckMan
39 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I’ve had a few throw tantrums to a no thanks haha

the latest messaged:

“I want your big cock inside me”

And I politely replied: ‘a very tempting offer but I will have to pass thanks’ remember they messaged me 1st! I hadn’t even looked at their profile

and I got this reply:

“Well fuck you then, you think you’re something special but you not all that. Plenty more guys much fitter here” hahahaha.

I just laughed. My dad thought me “if you argue with an idiot, bystanders can’t tell the difference”

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
39 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Sadly had some very nasty guys get very rude and aggressive towards us . Once I say not my type they insult me or get horrible towards hubby. Doesn't happen very often as most guys here happy to have chat and politely accept it when I say not for me . Xx

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By *hesubtlegentMan
39 weeks ago

surrey

Had a woman that looked about 10 years older than me tell me I was old enough to be her dad after I’d asked her not to call me daddy in reply to the first message she sent saying do you want to play with me daddy. That phrase puts a bit of sick in my mouth so politely declined and she came back with that charmer then blocked me. From looks of others insults on this thread, I got off lightly.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

This is why I do not respond because no matter how polite and soft you can be some cannot take rejection. I still get abuse for not responding though.

The abuse includes being called racist, arrogant, pretentious, nothing special anyway, be grateful you getting attention due to your age etc

If I am ignored or get a no thanks it goes over my head and I move on. Not everyone is for everyone, big red flag when people get abusive as rejected

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By *parkle1974Woman
39 weeks ago

Leeds

I've gone from "Fuck you are so hot" to "it would've been a sympathy fuck as no-one would want to fuck you anyway" after politely saying no thanks

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By *lutty_FetgeekWoman
39 weeks ago

Wallasey

Told I'm a man and a fake profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

oh there’s a few, most of them telling us how we’re the best profile here and then after saying we’re not around for a meet that we’re ugly anyway, but just had this message, someone asked to meet and i said we weren’t available so i received this..

‘lol I remember when I had your Mr begging me on Snapchat to fuck him! Anthony right? lol

Got me to send him shit loads of vids and pics and you blocked me on my old account. It’s sad really. Oh and make sure he deletes all my pics and vids from his phone. Pretty sure you weren’t even aware we spoke since me and him were arranging a bi mmf with you. Shame really cause I would’ve fucked you senseless. You’re so fucking hot and I would’ve loved to shoot a load into all of your holes’

Which is a strange one, because Mr barely comes on here, I run the account, we’ve never gave snapchats out, his name isn’t anthony, and mr is very much straight

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By *endalshaggersCouple
39 weeks ago

Kendal

We had a great one last night.

Male half of a couple wanted to meet me "one on one". No hubby involved, and his wife "currently isn't meeting".

When I told him no, he'd clearly gone to our profile, read the line about us having fun with friends and went "oh so you'll happily fuck your friend but you want fuck me? You fat sl*g

Well, no, I won't fuck a random bloke who lives 100 miles away who I've never met before after half a dozen messages. And the irony of him calling me fat. He'll need butter to get out the bath.

C xoxo

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By *aomilatteCouple
39 weeks ago

Midlands

We seem to be fortunate that we've never had an abusive message. Though we never send a polite "no thanks" message as many don't seem to take them well, we simply don't respond.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
39 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Up myself ugly whore after he told me I was gorgeous, had no pics up or bio at the time

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By *eeper ThanMan
39 weeks ago

Dartford

Wow !!!!!!! Reading this thread made my jaw drop that nothing short of actual abuse !!

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
39 weeks ago

Inverness

Not really had much abuse but a couple people have accused us of being fake before.

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By *ed MartinMan
39 weeks ago

Shefford

Never had this problem…

I don’t get propositioned, so I don’t need to reject anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Worst/funniest was a rejected person saying “Timewaster. I’ll tell your mum you’re on here”.

No idea who it was

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By *rystal cannonMan
39 weeks ago

alfreton

needed to go to specsavers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

currently having someone abuse us at the moment! making profile after profile after keep getting banned from abusing us, fab is so fun sometimes right??

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Days of abuse and multiple accounts made just to slag us off in there status updates. Got quite a few meets of the back of it tbh haha

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"currently having someone abuse us at the moment! making profile after profile after keep getting banned from abusing us, fab is so fun sometimes right??"

That person must be completely unhinged

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By *WB85Man
39 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We once had a message from a couple who were for several reasons, not what were looking for (if only they could read a profile!!)

We politely replied, and just said were looking for different things.

Only to get a reply moments later agreeing saying they're after a more classy couple.

It's such a shame that rejection really brings out the worst on people.

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By *dventuresofLandSCouple
39 weeks ago

Lincoln

We've had a single guy approach the Hubby at work and be very funny with him. He messaged around 5 times which we responded too them all with a polite decline.

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By *ieandteaseMan
39 weeks ago

Wiltshire

"I was told I look like a man

Mrs x"

You see, I never get that

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By *ieandteaseMan
39 weeks ago

Wiltshire

"I was told I look like a man

Mrs x"

You see, I never get that

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By *ee And MikeCouple
39 weeks ago

Cannock

We always try and be friendly when rejecting someone as we have the mantra ‘treat people how you want to be treated yourself’.

But we’ve had guys call us fake, blocked us and even threatened to report us to the mods if we don’t meet them - there are some strange people on here at times !

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
39 weeks ago

Cornwall/Devon

We have to say that the vast majority of fabsters (men and couples ) we have rejected have been very polite in return and have even thanked us for bothering to reply rather than just ignoring them.

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By *istr3ssWoman
39 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees

I've been called an ugly old hag and why was I even on here, when I declined someone's offer to come over and f*ck me

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
39 weeks ago

south coast IOW

I have been called a fat slag after a range of messages asking me to meet. Many times called a time waster. Also a range of other insults. I had one guy threaten yo tell mt work colleagues and family i was on here and send them pics and he tried to follow me home after a meet but stopped when i threatened to go to the police and blocked. Been contacted via fb by someone who searched my real name when i blocked after chatting and deciding he was not for me. But to be honest its the continuation of ongoing messages after a no that bothers me the most where they try and persuade me , whats the point in that? I do end up blocking the persistent messagers.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Imagine saying no to me. I mean look at me and look at you both. I am lowering myself to give two pigs like you a chance to be with a real alpha male. I have couples for breakfast and get more sex then you can imagine"

Copy pasted from a message in our inbox from a few weeks back.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
39 weeks ago

south coast IOW

"We have to say that the vast majority of fabsters (men and couples ) we have rejected have been very polite in return and have even thanked us for bothering to reply rather than just ignoring them. "

I absolutely agree most are polite. These are just examples of the unpleasant some who were not. Some people seem to take a no very badly unfortunately.

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By *overs4loversCouple
39 weeks ago

Shropshire

There are some absolute weirdos about! We’ve been quite lucky so far, had tiny little tantrums off guys we’ve knocked back but nothing major like some of the above

mind you we block a LOT of people lol.

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By *ot_spicedCouple
39 weeks ago

Queenstown

Quite new to the site, but already been called everything from racist to fat/ugly.

Somehow the Mrs is both a whore, and frigid at the same time (not entirely sure how that works!)

Some very strange, angry and somehow "entitled" people on here lol

Usually the good ones balance that negativity out

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
39 weeks ago

North West

Crying about being knocked back or even just because you didn't get a reply is one of the most pathetic things people can do on here...

Think of it as a lucky escape!

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

""Imagine saying no to me. I mean look at me and look at you both. I am lowering myself to give two pigs like you a chance to be with a real alpha male. I have couples for breakfast and get more sex then you can imagine"

Copy pasted from a message in our inbox from a few weeks back."

That was almost unbearable to read

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By *ecky and justCouple
39 weeks ago

Godalming

Don’t think we’ve ever had any real unpleasantness. We’ve had some pleading and people trying to change our minds.. Something that’ll never work and pleading is not attractive.

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By *rpeggioCouple
39 weeks ago

Baughurst

"Had a woman that looked about 10 years older than me tell me I was old enough to be her dad after I’d asked her not to call me daddy in reply to the first message she sent saying do you want to play with me daddy. That phrase puts a bit of sick in my mouth so politely declined and she came back with that charmer then blocked me. From looks of others insults on this thread, I got off lightly. "

Maybe it was a typo, she meant 'my' rather than 'me' daddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

A bloke threatened to beat me up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Been called fat ... and beneath them ....

Sowm real charmers out there with fragile little egos

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Been called fat ... and beneath them ....

Sowm real charmers out there with fragile little egos"

I would love to be beneath you

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I'm an attention seeker and a time waster apparently.

But usually I'm old and fat and should be grateful. Or I should have more respect for myself and not be here.

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
37 weeks ago

on the move

Usually poorly spelt abuse, often racist and always makes us think of a sort of Donald duck having a social media tantrum.

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By *andPextraCouple
37 weeks ago

North West

Have to say we have never really had an abusive one.

Most people seem to just move on, or maybe we have been lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Been called fat ... and beneath them ....

Sowm real charmers out there with fragile little egos

I would love to be beneath you

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