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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello.

Ok so its an hour or two before a hot sexy swinging meet. You are nervous and excited.

Apart from the personal hygiene and grooming things, what little rituals and activities do you do to get ready?

We have tried watching porn but we are normally too preoccupied to enjoy it.

For us this pre-meet excitement is one of the best feelings and we wondered if other people experience this exhilaration.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

For me it the preparation...The preening and then the dressing...If I have taken time to look my best I feel sexy. If I feel sexy then I am...

I do sometimes watch porn to get 'ready' but I am usually so up for it I don't need it..

At other times I do have a little play...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Little plays are good if there is time. We usually are running behind schedule and running round the house in some state of panic trying to find shaving foam and matching knickers etc. Maybe that is our way of coping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usually feel sick and start trying to think of things i can use as an excuse to cancel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i usually feel sick and start trying to think of things i can use as an excuse to cancel lol"

Are you sure your not my wife !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get really wound up, like before an exam used to feel, and then the shall I or shan't I, I think it's just your body preparing you for action

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By *ntelligent Gent.Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I must be dead inside.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blast out s&m by rihanna on the car stereo as I'm driving to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but the primping and preening is the best ritual for me love a nice shower/bath then doin my hair make up n nails before perusing my lingerie and choosing the select item I'm goons feel most sexy in for that meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to meet in clubs. Inevitably our pre-meet ritual includes running late, rushing to get ready, fighting over mirrors, changing our mind over outfits, before finally arguing about a choice of music while driving there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i usually feel sick and start trying to think of things i can use as an excuse to cancel lol

Are you sure your not my wife !!!!!!"

lol i start running all the reasons thro my head on why they wont like me and why its going to be a waste of time meeting

Im ok once i have met and they havnt legged it, its just the build up to them seeing me for the first time i really dread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our first ever meet involved a drive of 150 miles. The transition between wanting to cancel and wanting to have guilt free sex cycled back and forth ever 20 seconds of that whole journey. We laugh about it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i usually feel sick and start trying to think of things i can use as an excuse to cancel lol"

I do the same I suffer from 'stage fright' so bad that I feel like cancelling,but as soon as we meet the other people I am fine. Can't explain why this happens at first meets and it has not dissipated with experience or time. Nervous energy I guess.

MissD

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"i usually feel sick and start trying to think of things i can use as an excuse to cancel lol

Are you sure your not my wife !!!!!!

lol i start running all the reasons thro my head on why they wont like me and why its going to be a waste of time meeting

Im ok once i have met and they havnt legged it, its just the build up to them seeing me for the first time i really dread"

Not just me then...

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

I normally just hope im not going to get my time wasted again.

hate to say it but its getting to the point now where its predictable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get butterflies and a little nervous,smoke way too many fags buy a packet of mints to hide the fact?! Lol It's just like a date.

But then naughty thoughts of what may happen kick in and I'm all good. Love the buzz

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Day before, car is checked for fuel and possible problems, everything I will be wearing laid out and checked, teeth cleaned for 10 min, shoes cleaned and sprayed with deodarant, money counted and checked, showered and shaved at the last possible minute, and, a final check of mobile phone and website to see if meet cancelled.

Then its a matter of getting there on the agreed time and hoping nerves havent got the better of them and they don't turn up.

And all this is for a first meet for coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get butterflies and a little nervous,smoke way too many fags buy a packet of mints to hide the fact?! Lol It's just like a date.

But then naughty thoughts of what may happen kick in and I'm all good. Love the buzz "

Oh thank God, I thought it was only me that did that lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't forget the bit (if you are part of a couple) where you check each other for downstairs grooming.....which isn't as romantic as it could be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring one I know but I must sleep!! Bring as insatiable as I am would be done after 10minutes if I didn't lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hehe true. If we don't get a good 20 hours sleep before a meet we've had it.

Doesn't time fly during a meet? We are always gob smacked when we look at a clock and didiscover its 2am on a meet that began at 8pm.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

If you are having a hot, sexy meet...I assume you have already met them..

So why get nervous?

IF you havent met them before, how do you know its going to get "hot"??

So again, why get nervous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that a shower is always a great start!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" We are always gob smacked when we look at a clock and didiscover its 2am on a meet that began at 8pm."

And one of you is wondering when the fk the fun going to start!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a ten min warm up and always put my left sock on first!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally need a reassurance text or call and am normally really nervous.

I had coffee with a shot in it the other morning when i got all jittery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boring one I know but I must sleep!! Bring as insatiable as I am would be done after 10minutes if I didn't lol"

Snooze ya lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boring one I know but I must sleep!! Bring as insatiable as I am would be done after 10minutes if I didn't lol

Snooze ya lose "

Lol need my beauty sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Little plays are good if there is time. We usually are running behind schedule and running round the house in some state of panic trying to find shaving foam and matching knickers etc. Maybe that is our way of coping."

that sounds like us lol ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only need to worry when your pre meet rituals involve cloaks, candles, chanting and sacrificial lambs, goats or chickens !!!

Anything else is fine !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would most probably worry about getting my hair sorted lol get my moustache nicely trimmed (i always fuck it up). Make sure iv got the right shoes with my trousers and nice boxers..

Still awaiting that swinging meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If meeting at mine I get all my toys out ready for use

put my pvc sheet on

Pop a pill

finish tidying up and self preening

Then wait for the knock at the door

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It all depends for me, though I do have excitement/nervousness. I like to feel a good connection before we get together in person, so I can guage how successful it's likely to be.

Rituals - the more time I have available, the more activities will expand to deplete every last second. So the cleansing and beautifying, checking my clothes, and maybe changing into something else. I always have a few moments when I just stay still too, as I am generally a peaceful person, and feel wrong when things are unbalanced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we normally meet at ours so its normally bath shave n moisturize both of us ...normally with a glass wine in bath relax us ... then kids to bed ...

make up hair n nails done ...check.. waterproof sheet on ...check ...sexy underwear..check... condoms..lube ..ti

oys ready ..check then both dressed... more wine n hope they turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Little plays are good if there is time. We usually are running behind schedule and running round the house in some state of panic trying to find shaving foam and matching knickers etc. Maybe that is our way of coping."
sounds like us too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boring one I know but I must sleep!! Bring as insatiable as I am would be done after 10minutes if I didn't lol

Snooze ya lose

Lol need my beauty sleep "

I must need to sleep for a year then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol need my beauty sleep

I must need to sleep for a year then "

Cheeky b@$#"&d lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol need my beauty sleep

I must need to sleep for a year then

Cheeky b@$#"&d lol"

Lol I said I do not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah ok my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah ok my bad "

Want a spank???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I still live with family so it's tricky, firstly picking out what to wear with out getting caught when walking out of the door, wake up in morn, wash hair go to work then home for another shower, do make up while getting questioned where I'm going, more questioning when or if I'm coming home and than more questions of my friend when I go hers after for a shower haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave and get clean both inside and out where possible. Also be aware of what I've eaten and d*unk that day or the previous evening to make things more comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wash and go simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I still live with family so it's tricky, firstly picking out what to wear with out getting caught when walking out of the door, wake up in morn, wash hair go to work then home for another shower, do make up while getting questioned where I'm going, more questioning when or if I'm coming home and than more questions of my friend when I go hers after for a shower haha "

Just come and move in with me

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"You only need to worry when your pre meet rituals involve cloaks, candles, chanting and sacrificial lambs, goats or chickens !!!

Anything else is fine !! "

I should worry about the goats??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go through how I imagine the first part of the conversation will go. A little meditation and listen to chill out music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I still live with family so it's tricky, firstly picking out what to wear with out getting caught when walking out of the door, wake up in morn, wash hair go to work then home for another shower, do make up while getting questioned where I'm going, more questioning when or if I'm coming home and than more questions of my friend when I go hers after for a shower haha

Just come and move in with me "

Why thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I still live with family so it's tricky, firstly picking out what to wear with out getting caught when walking out of the door, wake up in morn, wash hair go to work then home for another shower, do make up while getting questioned where I'm going, more questioning when or if I'm coming home and than more questions of my friend when I go hers after for a shower haha

Just come and move in with me

Why thankyou x"

U don't snore do u or your in the dog bed

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We tried watching porn too but are usually too exited! Our rituals are to check condoms, lube, candles and camera are in the bedroom, ook out a suitable porn DVD for the bedroom TV (group or orgy action), then have a drink and a chat about what we hope happens!

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