FabSwingers.com forum: 1st time going to a club as a young single guy

By *ongandharder OP Man
42 weeks ago

Rotherham

So I have been thinking for a while i would try out a local club Sheffield/Rotherham area but going as a single guy seems a bit daunting

Any advice/info etc

By *inkedKuntsCouple
42 weeks ago

Sheffield

First thing, sadly no clubs around here anymore. Leed's is probably the nearest.

I started going clubs solo at about 23 years old, and its same whether your young or old. Be respectful, be polite, and don't be afraid to strike up a conversation, oh and don't wank in dark corners lol. People are generally friendly and even if there's to be no play you will still have a lovely evening talking to like minded people.

Also, sorry to say this but would say your not in the 'that young' section anymore lol no offence! but at 28 you'll be just fine, yes you'll still be too young for some but that's just life.

By *ife NinjaMan
42 weeks ago

Dunfermline

First off, you'll have to go to Leeds.

Secondly, go with no expectations. Talk to people and don't stand in a corner wanking. Be courteous and polite.

Thirdly, relax and be yourself. And no means no

By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Basically do everything you'd normally do in a normal social setting... only if you pull, your one night stand awkwardly has a bunch of randoms standing in a circle around you judging...

By *ongandharder OP Man
42 weeks ago

Rotherham

Thanks for the info / advice

By *amesnplanesMan
42 weeks ago

Banbridge

If you're going to Leeds, there's two clubs to look for.

I suggest you call the clubs and tell them straight you're looking to join, and what night do they recommend.

If you don't want to call, be aware it will be awkward if your membership to the club is declined. A nice message followed by a phone call is the best way forward.