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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never held a swingers party before so any tips or advice would be cool thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stock up on mini cheddars and dips

Also, lube and wet wipes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a nice mix of people all ages .. And not cl icky ......... its bad when you have people groups together who know each others and others feel left out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont forget that big fruit bowl for all the car keys...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Label which rooms are play rooms and any out of bounds

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By *unwmidscplCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

when we have hosted a party we invited people we had been speaking with but not had chance to meet ,also we had some newbies attend , we don't charge any fees. we did provide some drinks and mixers and had nibbles and some hot food, we just used the party as a chance to meet others within a no pressure atmosphere, we had probably 14 couples here both times we had a party,some played some just used it as a way to meet and make friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

invite people who are friendly and quite chatty, plenty condoms too just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, porn on tv, 'private' room in which people cant come in and watch, room in which others can join in or watch, food, drinks, all ages, mix of genders rather then too many guys, mix of single individuals rather then too many couples. All equals good party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite those you know and trust not just anyone off here

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By *eekenderzCouple
over a year ago

London

I've had quite a few parties and find it works best when you get people together who have similar expectations and wants. Try as much as possible to match preferred ages/interests and be prepared to circulate the guest list ahead of the event so that people are less nervous about getting a nasty surprise of who is attending. We often start a WhatsApp group chat a few days before so that guests can get chatting and exchange pics, and get a bit saucy with each other.

Your biggest challenge is to make sure people don't drop out at the last minute. It seems that normal good manners and RSVP rules don't always apply for sex parties....dont over-reach and aim for appr 8 - 10 couples (more can be a bit of a challenge unless you have staff and a mansion - and don't forget to have fun yourself in the middle of all the hectic hosting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you have loads of lager...spirits etc

and tell your guests to bring a bottle

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