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By *otlad54 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Ive come across my fair share of rude people on here but why are quite a few people against asian men lol

If you are into asian do give me a private message

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you seem to be having a lot of fun on here and that is great.... so for a few who don't meet Asian guys, it appears many do

enjoy, those who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet all but today when I said thanks but no thanks to a guy who was Asian I got the race card thrown at me. I said as polite as I could it wasn't because he was Asian it was because I didn't fancy him he kept going so had to block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See on here I've noticed that some of the Asian men seem to be very shouty about the fact they are Asian men.

Ive had emails where it's either repeated within the email or you click on the profile and it seems to be a 'big deal' for them.

For me, it is not a big deal, however, the fact they seem to make it a big deal, turns me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See on here I've noticed that some of the Asian men seem to be very shouty about the fact they are Asian men.

Ive had emails where it's either repeated within the email or you click on the profile and it seems to be a 'big deal' for them.

For me, it is not a big deal, however, the fact they seem to make it a big deal, turns me off.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Focus on those that do meet Asian guys, rather than questioning preferences? Problem solved.

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By *otlad54 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

These type of men are just rude and good on you for blocking him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. There are many who are rude on here; but they are just a waste of time anyway.

Iv had a lot of abuse. But theres nothing else you can do but laugh at how small their minds are.

But preference is preference. And if they dont prefer asian..the men should just accept that and move on

..considering the OP is asian. You've had a lot of luck lol so whatever it is your doing..keep doing it.

Good luck, and all the best.

...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive come across my fair share of rude people on here but why are quite a few people against asian men lol

If you are into asian do give me a private message "

Now...this is NOT racist...just our experience both swinging and professionally.

We find many Asian men to operate double standards.

We have experienced this at clubs and even in taxi's to and from clubs...

Many treat and consider white women as second rate and sluts to be used.

While they purport to be good Muslims...

They hang around in clubs in groups, never speak, get very pushy and touchy.

We have even had Taxi drivers in Full Beards and Religious garb make extremely suggestive and rude comments. So much so last time we left LC (Sheffield) in a cab we told the driver to stop and let us out as he was being so rude and suggestive.

Yes we did report him!

Now before the PC brigade and mods jump on this post. This is our experience...like it or not.

We are sure there are many Asian men we would enjoy meeting...

But not so far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does everyone straight away think of Asian men being ever Pakistani or Indian men , surely Asian men are also Chineses , Thai and far eastern ethnic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive come across my fair share of rude people on here but why are quite a few people against asian men lol

If you are into asian do give me a private message

Now...this is NOT racist...just our experience both swinging and professionally.

We find many Asian men to operate double standards.

We have experienced this at clubs and even in taxi's to and from clubs...

Many treat and consider white women as second rate and sluts to be used.

While they purport to be good Muslims...

They hang around in clubs in groups, never speak, get very pushy and touchy.

We have even had Taxi drivers in Full Beards and Religious garb make extremely suggestive and rude comments. So much so last time we left LC (Sheffield) in a cab we told the driver to stop and let us out as he was being so rude and suggestive.

Yes we did report him!

Now before the PC brigade and mods jump on this post. This is our experience...like it or not.

We are sure there are many Asian men we would enjoy meeting...

But not so far!

"

That is true. Those are the kind of men who make it difficult for us to arrange meets or get over the stereotypes.

..for the record. White women should not be seen as second rate and as sluts. Everyone should be treated with respect. They are no different to any other women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive come across my fair share of rude people on here but why are quite a few people against asian men lol

If you are into asian do give me a private message "

There does seem to be a certain irony in the fact you mention you have come across your fair share of rude people on this site yet you have just winked us then immediately sent a friend invite without so much as a message to say hello ! Some may class this as the hight of rudeness. Pot kettle and black come to mind.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Ive come across my fair share of rude people on here but why are quite a few people against asian men lol

If you are into asian do give me a private message

There does seem to be a certain irony in the fact you mention you have come across your fair share of rude people on this site yet you have just winked us then immediately sent a friend invite without so much as a message to say hello ! Some may class this as the hight of rudeness. Pot kettle and black come to mind."
really height of rudeness i can think of much worse tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just for the record, I've met a few Asian girls off here and found them to be lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive come across my fair share of rude people on here but why are quite a few people against asian men lol

If you are into asian do give me a private message

There does seem to be a certain irony in the fact you mention you have come across your fair share of rude people on this site yet you have just winked us then immediately sent a friend invite without so much as a message to say hello ! Some may class this as the hight of rudeness. Pot kettle and black come to mind.really height of rudeness i can think of much worse tbh "

Maybe not the rudest thing ever .....but still lacking good manners.

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By *otlad54 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Whats the wink system for lol?

Im on my iPhone and accidentally clicked invite as friend rather than send a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive come across my fair share of rude people on here but why are quite a few people against asian men lol

If you are into asian do give me a private message

Now...this is NOT racist...just our experience both swinging and professionally.

We find many Asian men to operate double standards.

We have experienced this at clubs and even in taxi's to and from clubs...

Many treat and consider white women as second rate and sluts to be used.

While they purport to be good Muslims...

They hang around in clubs in groups, never speak, get very pushy and touchy.

We have even had Taxi drivers in Full Beards and Religious garb make extremely suggestive and rude comments. So much so last time we left LC (Sheffield) in a cab we told the driver to stop and let us out as he was being so rude and suggestive.

Yes we did report him!

Now before the PC brigade and mods jump on this post. This is our experience...like it or not.

We are sure there are many Asian men we would enjoy meeting...

But not so far!

"

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does everyone straight away think of Asian men being ever Pakistani or Indian men , surely Asian men are also Chineses , Thai and far eastern ethnic"

They are orientals..

In america they refer to asians as chinese etc.. We don't in the uk any more than we call the pavement a sidewalk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no longer meet Asians because they have unfortunately been my least exciting meets and quite a lot we extremely inexperienced so felt more like their teacher than lover, maybe I have just been unlucky but it has put me completely off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just stumbled across this chat as I don't normally come on this part of the site and being of Asian origin I feel compelled to comment.

I am perhaps going to surprise a lot if you by agreeing on the point about many of Asian origin being rude and pushy. I think perhaps more the latter than the former but for those on the receiving end it's similar.

I don't hide my origin but am at pains to play it down from a personality point of _iew as to me "no" means "no" and I respect all boundaries. We also need to accept attraction factors, if someone is simply not attracted to Asian, Black, Chinese etc etc then there is simply nothing that can change that and it is certainly not racist. I have always been attracted to whites and have had many rebuffs due to lack of racial attraction which I simply accept. Thankfully nowadays there is a much greater willingness to have inter racial dating and sexual encounters so the climate has changed. So live and let live. That's what we are all here for.

Have fun everyone and if anyone out there is interested in a polite, refined, respectable Asian, message me

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By *igerstyle2k2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Again, the minority have ruined it for the rest of us.

We're not all the same, there are those of us who are respectful and know what we are doing.

It is annoying to see 'no asians' on profiles, I seem to be seeing it more and more, especially if I like the profile.

Surely a few bad meets shouldn't mean not meeting anyone from that race again? Would it still be the same case if you had a few bad meets and they were white, would you never meet white people again? Just a thought.

The majority of us a nice respectful guys. Although some seem to be from not so 'active' areas of the country.

Peace and Love, happy swinging!

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By *paindyCouple
over a year ago

Bath


"Focus on those that do meet Asian guys, rather than questioning preferences? Problem solved."

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ive come across my fair share of rude people on here but why are quite a few people against asian men lol

If you are into asian do give me a private message

Now...this is NOT racist...just our experience both swinging and professionally.

We find many Asian men to operate double standards.

We have experienced this at clubs and even in taxi's to and from clubs...

Many treat and consider white women as second rate and sluts to be used.

While they purport to be good Muslims...

They hang around in clubs in groups, never speak, get very pushy and touchy.

We have even had Taxi drivers in Full Beards and Religious garb make extremely suggestive and rude comments. So much so last time we left LC (Sheffield) in a cab we told the driver to stop and let us out as he was being so rude and suggestive.

Yes we did report him!

Now before the PC brigade and mods jump on this post. This is our experience...like it or not.

We are sure there are many Asian men we would enjoy meeting...

But not so far!

"

Sadly, have to predominantly agree although we have interacted with Asian men that are not like that. However, a great many are. Rio's Spa in London was the worst location for an exhibition of, presumably, culturally/religious based misogyny towards 'white' women.

We think any culture or religion that sees women as possessions or lower than men will influence the behaviour of the men concerned. And this exhibits itself in the worst ways possible.

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