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By *arnayguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Does the idea of not going all the way put you off? Most of the time I think about sex I would love a good fuck, but there are times when I can be in the mood for less.

Some days I really like the idea of having a really fantastic snog, I love kissing. Maybe that is just because it is ages since I have done it, but the thought of it really appeals. Other days I could quite happily just masturbate a woman or give her oral. There is something about the 'less is more' idea I think, in the way you can leave things until later and don't have to go all out the first time.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I agree..some days a 'play' is all I want and at others a full on session is required

My issues is that as a choosy single female I may only be in the mood for a play but feel I should take advantage of a situation as I don't know when it may arise again..

Problem of not having it 'on tap'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i just like a kiss and cuddle and just feeling the warmth of skin on skin but most times i'm just too horny so a good shag is in order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found a good kiss leads to more

But no I don't think it puts people off just depends on what the other person/people are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever 'go all the way' with meets offline.

I like to hold a little something back for the really special people that I meet on a semi-occasional basis as opposed to just the 1 offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I'm kissing.. If its with a good friend of mine who kisses me till I'm purring, it always ends in sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys ive met so far dont mind a cuddle for a little while but then they just want to get down to it, which is good when it happens but do wish sometimes could just chill on sofa watching a film with a coffee. I miss all that. Havent had that at home for years, is why im on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always found a good kiss leads to more

But no I don't think it puts people off just depends on what the other person/people are looking for. "

Same here, an amazing sexy kiss well I'm yours, but the kiss as to be amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love 'playing' and rarely have sex on a first meet! There's something more intimate about kissing and touching and oral, for me.

K xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love 'playing' and rarely have sex on a first meet! There's something more intimate about kissing and touching and oral, for me."

Same here

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

Great post OP. I am interested in the replies because i state on my profile mainly looking for 'soft' with couples...love lots of kissing, flirting and all the foreplay but seem to be struggling the general reaction from couples has so far been...so you don't want to fuck her then?

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall


"Great post OP. I am interested in the replies because i state on my profile mainly looking for 'soft' with couples...love lots of kissing, flirting and all the foreplay but seem to be struggling the general reaction from couples has so far been...so you don't want to fuck her then? "

answering this can be problematic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few regular meets where we just watch tv have a laugh etc..sorta why i dont class myself as bedknotcher(in its negative terminology)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys ive met so far dont mind a cuddle for a little while but then they just want to get down to it, which is good when it happens but do wish sometimes could just chill on sofa watching a film with a coffee. I miss all that. Havent had that at home for years, is why im on here"

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Does the idea of not going all the way put you off? Most of the time I think about sex I would love a good fuck, but there are times when I can be in the mood for less.

Some days I really like the idea of having a really fantastic snog, I love kissing. Maybe that is just because it is ages since I have done it, but the thought of it really appeals. Other days I could quite happily just masturbate a woman or give her oral. There is something about the 'less is more' idea I think, in the way you can leave things until later and don't have to go all out the first time."

It would put me off. If it's not full sex then it's not worth it to me. I can see the appeal for others - but it's not my thing.

I had one guy who did this. Just wanted to wank over me whilst I played with toys. I had been very specific about what I wanted prior to the meet so was more than unhappy that he tried to basically use me for a glorified wank. He was asked to leave. Didn't even touch my pussy at all! It was a bizarre meet, to say the least - won't go in to further details but I think he was probably attached and met this way so he could convince himself he wasn't being unfaithful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always found a good kiss leads to more

But no I don't think it puts people off just depends on what the other person/people are looking for.

Same here, an amazing sexy kiss well I'm yours, but the kiss as to be amazing "

Only one way to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't not go all the way when playing!!! That's the whole point.

If I want a snuggle and a cuddle then I stay home with hubby.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I agree..some days a 'play' is all I want and at others a full on session is required

My issues is that as a choosy single female I may only be in the mood for a play but feel I should take advantage of a situation as I don't know when it may arise again..

Problem of not having it 'on tap'..."

I know that feeling xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I love 'playing' and rarely have sex on a first meet! There's something more intimate about kissing and touching and oral, for me.

K xxx"

I love lots of foreplay too and sometimes it's the all and everything, depends.....

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Does the idea of not going all the way put you off? Most of the time I think about sex I would love a good fuck, but there are times when I can be in the mood for less.

Some days I really like the idea of having a really fantastic snog, I love kissing. Maybe that is just because it is ages since I have done it, but the thought of it really appeals. Other days I could quite happily just masturbate a woman or give her oral. There is something about the 'less is more' idea I think, in the way you can leave things until later and don't have to go all out the first time."

Kissing, hugging, just touching, carressing each other is so sensual, sometimes that is all I want and need. Not going all the way does not put me off. It has to be reciprocal and as long as my partner and myself are on the same wavelength and want the same experience then both will feel satisfied.

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By *arnayguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I do mean a reciprocal mood, not forcing it and letting someone down like DB8Queen suffered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely go all the way to full sex on meets. It's normally only gangbang session that I will except for certain people

I've never had an issue with guys not being happy. To be honest I've had bigger issues with them wanting to kiss me and I don't kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet I had where we didn't end up having full sex I ended up going home very frustrated and having to get the toys out! He made me cum plenty but I just didn't get the satisfaction out of it as all the playing and kissing got me ready for action and he was done by then!

Maybe I'd be ok with that with an actual partner where I knew I'd prob get a shag the next night but not when having to arrange meets around everything else in life and maybe having to wait a week or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do mean a reciprocal mood, not forcing it and letting someone down like DB8Queen suffered. "

Reciprocal mood is good. I dont like being forced, I never have been will add. Still would like to find someone just to sit or lie with cuddle, kiss, chat, more kissing, maybe a bit of foreplay, but that could lead to trouble

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"Reciprocal mood is good. I dont like being forced, I never have been will add. Still would like to find someone just to sit or lie with cuddle, kiss, chat, more kissing, maybe a bit of foreplay, but that could lead to trouble"

I must be lucky coz I've found just the right guy to provide just this. Sometimes we will just go out for a drink, have a chat then at the end of the night have a good old snog in the car, with promises of more for the next time we meet (usually at Chams). It's so nice for this to be about more than just the sex

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Great thread ... Loving the opinions ... Food for thought .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess i'm lucky too, some of the guys that i see regular, i can meet and have mind blowing great sex, but then sometimes we just meet, watch dvds, enjoy each others company, have a fumble or two with lots of snoggin... Works both ways for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess i'm lucky too, some of the guys that i see regular, i can meet and have mind blowing great sex, but then sometimes we just meet, watch dvds, enjoy each others company, have a fumble or two with lots of snoggin... Works both ways for me! "

did u just say u'll take it both ways?...am in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess i'm lucky too, some of the guys that i see regular, i can meet and have mind blowing great sex, but then sometimes we just meet, watch dvds, enjoy each others company, have a fumble or two with lots of snoggin... Works both ways for me!

did u just say u'll take it both ways?...am in!"

I take it 3 ways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess i'm lucky too, some of the guys that i see regular, i can meet and have mind blowing great sex, but then sometimes we just meet, watch dvds, enjoy each others company, have a fumble or two with lots of snoggin... Works both ways for me!

did u just say u'll take it both ways?...am in!

I take it 3 ways! "

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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

This IS a swinging site, right? Just for a while I thought I'd been re-directed to a lonely hearts page..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This IS a swinging site, right? Just for a while I thought I'd been re-directed to a lonely hearts page.."

I love ur arse

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By *arnayguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I'm not really on about cuddles or just spending time with someone. Not that there's anything wrong with it, I like that too at times.

I mean more contact, more sexual without going all the way. Enjoying an intimate act like kissing and savouring the intimacy and sensation of that act, but leaving more for another time, or just capturing a moment and enjoying that one sensation - just kissing, or just masturbating. A bit like a woman in underwear can be even more appealing than a naked one by simply keeping a little back.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I miss sexual contact that doesn't end in sex.

Like when you were teenagers, and you could lie on a sofa for ages just snogging, and be satisfied by that.

Seems that once you get past about 17, every snog ends in sex of some kind.

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