FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers relationships

By *im66123 OP Man
46 weeks ago

newcastle

After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *helroyCouple
46 weeks ago

Skegness

ours is solid

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

We were rock solid before we even considered swinging. The couples we are friends with in the scene are rock solid too.

You have to have that base to make it a success.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ee And MikeCouple
46 weeks ago

Cannock

As a cuckold couple, Dee has had a couple of intense hotwife/bull relationships over the years but you have to trust each other before you venture into this lifestyle otherwise you should serious consider if it’s the right thing for your relationship.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pankingNorfolkCouple
46 weeks ago

Norwichish

"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"

Most are solid, but just because a couple swing together and that element of life may be e good for them both there are always other parts of a relationship that may not work for a couple.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

30 yrs together , I think we are as solid as it gets . Xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aomilatteCouple
46 weeks ago

Midlands

"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"

The percentage of swinging couples that split up is probably very similar to the percentage of non swinging couples that split up.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Chichester

"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?

The percentage of swinging couples that split up is probably very similar to the percentage of non swinging couples that split up."

Was going to say this

I guess if a persons interest in wanes and the others doesn’t then it becomes an issue

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ee And MikeCouple
46 weeks ago

Cannock

"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?

The percentage of swinging couples that split up is probably very similar to the percentage of non swinging couples that split up."

We probably concur with that !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uffhandymanMan
46 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

I’ve met lots of couple, they’ve all been more solid than many I’ve met away from swinging community!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *weet and SpiceCouple
46 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We only got into this once we both felt our relationship was strong enough. Obviously communication is key, however that is also true for outside the swinging world

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionandlionessmancCouple
46 weeks ago

Manchester

We don’t think they’re any more or less secure than any other relationship. 50% chance of divorce in first marriages raising to 75% in second marriages: and that’s not taking swinging into account.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arried West End CoupleCouple
46 weeks ago

Glasgow

"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"

Ours is solid x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otwifeHusband888Couple
46 weeks ago

Within touching distance

Our relationship is amazing. Sounds so cliche but we are actually best friends too. We can talk about anything to each other. In fact both of have said since being on here or relationship has gotten better and there was absolutely nothing wrong with it before here lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I typically maintain longer-term relationships with my partners. The longest I've been in began ten years ago. I've had 2-5 year long relationships in the meantime. I could not continue them, because partners moved too far to make it practical to see each other on a regular basis (for reference, Manchester is not too far Australia is)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ipstick KissesWoman
46 weeks ago

There and Here

"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"

Perhaps the reason they are exes has nothing to do with the swinging side. Relationships end for all sorts of reasons

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ellhungvweMan
46 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I tend to meet couples and, in my experience, they all say that adding a third to their relationship makes it stronger. The reclaim sex is amazing apparently (I wouldn’t know that part

)

If a couple does split up then I would guess it is just to normal life rather than explicitly due to swinging.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ussraneCouple
46 weeks ago

Romford

"We don’t think they’re any more or less secure than any other relationship. 50% chance of divorce in first marriages raising to 75% in second marriages: and that’s not taking swinging into account. "

Wow ! We would have thought 2nd marriages would last longer if not forever! Well that’s defo the case for us, learn your mistakes first time round so second is so……… much better

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ewsexycplCouple
46 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Highly secure, married 17 years and loving swinging. That said we can take it or leave it, it's just an add on to our sex life!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ee And MikeCouple
46 weeks ago

Cannock

"Highly secure, married 17 years and loving swinging. That said we can take it or leave it, it's just an add on to our sex life!"

That’s probably a really good attitude to have.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

East Sussex

About as secure as non swinging relationships I'd say. Swingers are ordinary people with the same relationship problems and difficulties as anyone else and probably the same break up rate.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *angOnBunnyCouple
46 weeks ago

Ipswich

Ours is rock solid. When we got together we discussed our kinks straight away and decided to get into the lifestyle together. We talk and discuss everything and swinging is not something that will cause issues

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enatton2Couple
46 weeks ago

West Midlands

Since we’ve been swinging and understood each others boundaries, we’ve never been stronger! It’s not a short explanation but we just feel more secure and in tune

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avenvalCouple
46 weeks ago

Leicester

We have been swinging for over 45 years and just celebrated our 40th Wedding anniversary

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ark n kimCouple
46 weeks ago

Durham

Ours is rock solid,together 32 years married 26.its all about good communication.

I would say you have to start out on solid foundations.it will not save your marriage if you are having problems.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
46 weeks ago

somerset

most who say my ex partner are fantasies and made up so to join in ...

most swinging couples and kink couple are solid relationships who swing for the right reasons ie extra fun ..

there are a group of swingers who do it to try and improve or mend the relationships its these that will fail simply because to swing as a couple you need to know each other inside out love each other inside out be mentally together inside out thats why not all couples will ever be cut out for swinging because it will expose any weak links in a relationship ...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arryandhedgehogCouple
46 weeks ago

Thurrock

We met through swinging so it’s always been part of our relationship. We’ve found it’s allowed us to have amazing communication we can discuss anything there’s never any secrets or things we feel off limits and the whole experience strengthens our connection

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
46 weeks ago

Stoke

We're solid, no person in this swinging world will ever come between us, we do this for fun and nothing more.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

We are solid been together 16 swinging for 5

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

We are solid been on this adventure together none of us have ever pressured one another. We just enjoy it for what it is sexy fun xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"

Solid as a rock, definitely not good for long term relationships if your not solid from the start

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urious curvy wifeCouple
46 weeks ago

mansfield

Hubby here were solid, but only really play as a threesome with guys. I’m totally not jealous if another guy fucks her I love it. Not sure if she would be happy for me with another woman. But that’s fine with me, I love her more and more every time I see her fucking another guy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hogun300Man
46 weeks ago

Dundee

"After reading a lot of comments written on here they always say “my ex partner “ I was wondering how secure swinging relationships really are ?"

Why wouldn't they be. Ours is and don't see how it differs to those not on the scene. Kind of ridiculous question really.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *im66123 OP Man
46 weeks ago

newcastle

Anymore thoughts

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread