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Deviants from the norm

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

West Yorks

What percentage of UK adults are swingers? On here we all seem accepting of deviant behaviour from the norm that includes sharing your partner, secret meets and illicit encounters that we can’t always share with non swingers. Are we all like minded, are some more deviant than others? What makes us naughtier than vanilla people?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

You've got to be joking! Check out any thread on deviant behaviour and see just how blinkered and narrow minded a lot of fab members are.

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

West Yorks


"You've got to be joking! Check out any thread on deviant behaviour and see just how blinkered and narrow minded a lot of fab members are."

Please elaborate here or private message please x

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By *alandNitaCouple
40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"What percentage of UK adults are swingers? On here we all seem accepting of deviant behaviour from the norm that includes sharing your partner, secret meets and illicit encounters that we can’t always share with non swingers. Are we all like minded, are some more deviant than others? What makes us naughtier than vanilla people?"

The first thing to remember about kink, is that everyone has a different opinion of what is "kinky". For some people, sex with the lights on is unthinkable, for others using their partner as a toilet is "just normal".

In general, the average FAB member is looking for fairly "vanilla" sex... just with different or multiple partners.

Cal

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Worcester


"What percentage of UK adults are swingers? On here we all seem accepting of deviant behaviour from the norm that includes sharing your partner, secret meets and illicit encounters that we can’t always share with non swingers. Are we all like minded, are some more deviant than others? What makes us naughtier than vanilla people?"

I think it's very rare to see deviant behaviour on fabs.

Most swinging isn't kinky, it's just non-monogamous.

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

West Yorks

Dont things often go hand in hand?

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By *alandNitaCouple
40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Dont things often go hand in hand?"

not particularly.

When it comes to "kinky", there is often an extra level trust required. Knowing that limits will be understood and respected, that everyone knows that eachother's definition of the kink is, having a safety plan incase something goes wrong, etc... this can be all difficult with strangers and often requires a lot of time, conversation, and experimentation to develop within established relationships.

Cal

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