FabSwingers.com forum: Helpful advice please

By *scarpat OP Man
46 weeks ago

sexy town

Hi all. I really need some fab advice, i got a new partner and shes into being punished. I honestly don't know where to start!

Id like to hear from the recipients point of view on what i can do to impress her.

Thanks in advance, Oscar.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

Please start by talking to her, listening to what she wants and doing those things together.

Garnering advice from strangers off the Internet is not a clever way to please your new gf.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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46 weeks ago

East Sussex

You won't impress her by doing what someone else likes. Ask her.

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By *scarpat OP Man
46 weeks ago

sexy town

"Please start by talking to her, listening to what she wants and doing those things together.

Garnering advice from strangers off the Internet is not a clever way to please your new gf. "

Thank you,ill take your advice. i just want to try and give it my best shot

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
46 weeks ago

Cheshire

I like humiliation play, but with a partner who is fully understanding on what gets me off and what doesn’t.

So I totally agree with the other comments on your thread, what one person on this site recommends maybe quite the opposite of what your partner enjoys.

They’ve opened up to you, so obviously trust you so they’ll be the best person to tell you.

Good luck

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By *scarpat OP Man
46 weeks ago

sexy town

Thank you steph.

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By *unchalMan
46 weeks ago

Dartford

"Hi all. I really need some fab advice, i got a new partner and shes into being punished. I honestly don't know where to start!

Id like to hear from the recipients point of view on what i can do to impress her.

Thanks in advance, Oscar. "

Yeah. This is not going to work out for you. Cut your loses and move on. If you don’t get it, you will never get it. I don’t get it and you sound like you don’t get it. Sorry. Good luck.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
46 weeks ago

Next Door

Think you need to talk to your partner about what she wants herself and what she wants from you.

Her likes and dislikes, boundaries.

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By *reenleavesCouple
46 weeks ago

North Wales

Ask her if there's any literature or porn that has what she likes in. It can be tricky if it's not something you're familiar with and doesn't come naturally. Don't expect to get it right straight away or all the time. Talk to her about how you're doing and if there's anything she'd like you to try. If she just expects you to get it right all the time without giving you any guidance then it's not going to work.

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By *uke OzadeMan
46 weeks ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Tell her she’s grounded and you’ve turned off the wifi

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By *unchalMan
46 weeks ago

Dartford

"Tell her she’s grounded and you’ve turned off the wifi "

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Sit her on the naughty step

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