FabSwingers.com forum: Married yes or no

By *umtongue69 OP Man
40 weeks ago

Featherstone

If the guy is married. Does that bother you

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
40 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Yes.

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By *umalotagainMan
40 weeks ago

a town called malice

Pass the popcorn

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
40 weeks ago

Next Door

Yes, it does. And the same if the female was cheating.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
40 weeks ago

Neath valley.

"Yes, it does. And the same if the female was cheating.

Exactly. Don't matter what sex cheating is cheating full stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"If the guy is married. Does that bother you"

Does their partner know? If yes, male or female thats not accepted for me

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By *alandNitaCouple
40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Yes, it matters if a person is married and their spouse is unaware that they are actively looking to meet and cheat.

Having said that, on the occasions we've had sex with singles at clubs, I didn't ask about their marital status.

Nita

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By *ayne_fungirlWoman
40 weeks ago

MANCHESTER

its not ok behind someone's back but plenty on here are

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
40 weeks ago

Worcester

No, not at all.

What does bother me is if a guy is cheating, otherwise lying to his partner, or breaking the terms of his relationship agreement.

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By *leasinglipznhipsWoman
40 weeks ago

It matters to me

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By *od ThrusterMan
40 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

I don't meet the man of a couple alone anyway so no.

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By *lmost TouchingMan
40 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat.

Male or female, I don’t care what the nature of your other relationships are. I just don’t want drama so be smart about your arrangements.

I find it ridiculous that swingers get precious about people cheating but want to keep their lifestyle private and secret… if everything is aboveboard and your choices are so correct, what is the problem. Hypocrisy

Just let me know what your status is but what you tell or don’t tell others… I don’t care about.

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
40 weeks ago

North Wales

If he is here without permission I certainly wouldn’t want to know

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
40 weeks ago

Merseyside

Anyone married and playing without permission is a no from us

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
40 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"Male or female, I don’t care what the nature of your other relationships are. I just don’t want drama so be smart about your arrangements.

Just let me know what your status is but what you tell or don’t tell others… I don’t care about."

I don't think I'm being a hypocrite or precious because I won't entertain a cheating partner - male or female.

Just one of the standards I have that I won't be involved in potentially hurting anyone.

I don't judge the cheaters but I won't be part of the circus either

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes but not had many openly admit it to me

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
40 weeks ago

wonderland.

The martial status does not bother us , but the consent does. I would only meet a guy who had his partners consent.

Cali

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By *luebell888Woman
40 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Yes it bothers me alot. I only wish to meet single men on Fab

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By *WB85Man
40 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"The martial status does not bother us , but the consent does. I would only meet a guy who had his partners consent.

Cali "

We're exactly the same, we won't play with cheats.

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By *elboy1978Man
40 weeks ago

Jarrow

No it doesn’t bother me if it’s a woman not into men

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"The martial status does not bother us , but the consent does. I would only meet a guy who had his partners consent.

Cali "

Yes that is different if there is consent

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By *ornyplaytimereturnsCouple
40 weeks ago

Dartford

Definitely no no if they are married

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

No don't want someone who is cheating.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
40 weeks ago

Gloucester

Yes. This goes for anyone who’s on here without their partner knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I’ve found it does , rarely find anyone even wishing to chat . But it’s understandable why

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By *rowley616Man
40 weeks ago

Scarborough

Blah blah moral high ground blah blah.

Being married, polyamorous and swingers didn't stop my wife from cheating on me. My divorce cost more than the wedding. Everyone lies to get what they want and most don't worry about the consequences. Judge only if you are morally superior.

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By *parkle1974Woman
40 weeks ago

Leeds

It doesn't bother me that a guy is married, what bothers me is if he is fucking others behind his wife's back.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

No.

As long as his wife is there with him joining in.

Otherwise yes

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Running a big risk if you are married and your on here

Unless you don’t care

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
40 weeks ago

Inverness

We wouldn’t waste our time

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
40 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I didn't think it would but it turns out it does. x

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By *im66123Man
40 weeks ago

newcastle

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By *ora the explorerWoman
40 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Married and the partner gives informed and enthusiastic consent to us? Fantastic.

Married and lying to someone they supposedly care for for the sake of getting their dick wet? Pass.

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By *hippy57Man
40 weeks ago

Chelmsford

It’s such a difficult one and I know how separated people are to this,going back to my first wife we had our first mmf quite young both 20 at time,we had a mmf with a single friend of mine,worst thing ever done,bragged about it to his mates,tried to get wife to meet him alone without me knowing,a nightmare,we did try again with a married guy,no problem at all very discreet,although he was cheating on his wife at least he was not having a personal affair with another women it was just sex,with my second wife we visited many nudist beaches ,clubs,saunas,parties etc,not just couples but lots of men there,should you ask if they married ?, it is a tough one and every one to there own thoughts

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
40 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Definite no go for us, don't knowingly want to be part of anyone cheating on their wife

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By *aughtyThreesomeCouple
40 weeks ago

Kent

It bothers us

we've turned down some otherwise amazing offers from people because they was cheating, it's definitely not for us

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By *oppet22TV/TS
40 weeks ago

huddersfield

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By *23RouteCouple
40 weeks ago

Huddersfield

No , love it

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

No for us no - we are not here to judge anyone for their reasons for being here

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

chichester

At the saunas I find most men are married tbh

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
40 weeks ago

Leeds

Nope, man or woman cheating is a no for us, this is fun I'm not into hurting others.

If you've that little respect for the one you supposedly love what respect can I some random meet except.

Mrs

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By *iss DevilWoman
40 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't care whether the person is married or not, it's their business and I am not planning on having a relationship with them. However, I am not interested in meeting married or attached people as the logistics of arranging something would be too much of a pain. In a club, I certainly don't ask their marital status.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Not bothered, not our business

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Bristol

Not my problem.

Been had by quite a few married guys.

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By *ee69Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

"Yes, it matters if a person is married and their spouse is unaware that they are actively looking to meet and cheat.

Having said that, on the occasions we've had sex with singles at clubs, I didn't ask about their marital status.

Nita"
exactly so you will pump a married in a club but no in here lol, a find most folk on here attached an lie , at least am honest and still get crucified lol

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By *issmorganWoman
40 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Male or female, I don’t care what the nature of your other relationships are. I just don’t want drama so be smart about your arrangements.

Just let me know what your status is but what you tell or don’t tell others… I don’t care about."

It's slightly different, most couples swingers or not, don't openly discuss their sex lives with family and colleagues etc.

We are all entitled to privacy, whatever a relationship status.

So I don't think it's makes anyone a hypocrite because they choose not to meet someone who is on here behind their husband or wife's back.

Maybe trying to out them may be seen as hypocritical, if you're comparing it to couples wanting discretion.

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By *dswingersCouple
40 weeks ago

chelmsford

if the wife or husband give there blessings no issues but if your cheating ain’t for us i’m afraid x

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By *host63Man
40 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

People are on here for a lot of different reasons and I don't think it's mysplace to judge.

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By *ulie RobertsTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Southampton

"If the guy is married. Does that bother you"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Years ago on an old profile of mine I had been chatting to a women and she invited me over. I asked if she was with someone. She promised she wasn’t which wasn’t an issue to me if she had told me because I would’ve arranged a hotel room. I was young 22 and didn’t think about anything else at the time. So I agree to go to hers we hit it off and get right down to business, in the middle of all the action her husband comes home. She had to hide me in the loft. Stuck up there for an hour. Not cool. What I’m saying is that if you’re playing away from home be upfront and honest and arrange somewhere neutral like a hotel room. I didn’t see her after that as she lied to me. If she had been honest from the start we could’ve come to a much better arrangement

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
40 weeks ago

Lingfield

I do have a bit of a fantasy where I meet an older woman who is still sexually adventurous but her husband has lost all interest. He, and my wife, who also has little interest, are both aware of our friendship and are supportive of it becoming physical. However the four of us remain friends and often go out together.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
40 weeks ago

wonderland.

"People are on here for a lot of different reasons and I don't think it's mysplace to judge. "
I'm not judging. I am just chosing not to meet for fun those that are cheating

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By *ddfellowMan
40 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

non of my buisness

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
40 weeks ago

falkirk

Not at if either the guy or female , its their choice.

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By *tuvyMan
40 weeks ago

bedford

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By *ames250122Man
40 weeks ago

Worcester

"Yes, it does. And the same if the female was cheating.

Exactly. Don't matter what sex cheating is cheating full stop."

Exzonkly! You hit the nail in the head, it’s cheating no matter what. For me I would just rather skip the whole drama and avoid the whole thing regardless of gender as I don’t believe in cheating or being with cheats x

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
40 weeks ago

Bourne lincs

Am sub bi single but I seem to put people off. Maybe it's because am 62 or just 2 kinky for people on here ? Get plenty of looking and fabing x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I'd prefer to know and someone be honest so I can choose whether to play with them or not. Previous profile I said single men only ..... people lied ... one came clean after we'd met a few times .... another came clean after a social and plans to meet to play seems difficult to pin down.

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By *arried BifemWoman
40 weeks ago

somewhere in the midlands

Nope

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