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Solo men? Their own worst enemy?

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By *orkshireDrifter OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Just read the moans in the forum here about the lack of replies from solo guys when they contact women or couples (have they any idea of how many messages they receive?)

Then when they are invited they are notorious for not turning up: I was asked by a MF couple recently to organise a group session where she a very attractive woman in her late twenties was to the centre of attention from six much older men. Only one turned up.....

Some friends, an attractive couple with a young family; so any meet required child care and a hotel. Constantly let me down.

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By *otwife_tamerMan
44 weeks ago

Stratford

This is indeed very sad. I had no idea this was the case up until I attended a private party hosted by a couple. There were a good number of men who "confirmed" but never showed up except for lame ass excuses why they couldn't make it. Needless to say these guys were blocked for good. It's really important to understand that may it be men, woman or couples. It takes a lot of time, energy and money to plan out things. Don't confirm to meet with someone if you're not absolutely sure you can make it. Also, communication is paramount in this lifestyle, so TALK if something has come up and there are changes to the plan or whatever the case maybe! Truly sorry from the male population on fab to the amazing ladies and couples out there! Don't give up hope. Plenty of men out there with good etiquettes and manners who respect others time.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
44 weeks ago

Sheffield

You can’t blame others for your own personal experiences.

If you are been let down constantly, maybe change the way you approach others or vet them so to speak.

I think a lot of people rely on fab too much for meeting. There’s plenty of clubs and socials aimed at all different tastes. Get out and meet others in person.

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
44 weeks ago

accrington


"This is indeed very sad. I had no idea this was the case up until I attended a private party hosted by a couple. There were a good number of men who "confirmed" but never showed up except for lame ass excuses why they couldn't make it. Needless to say these guys were blocked for good. It's really important to understand that may it be men, woman or couples. It takes a lot of time, energy and money to plan out things. Don't confirm to meet with someone if you're not absolutely sure you can make it. Also, communication is paramount in this lifestyle, so TALK if something has come up and there are changes to the plan or whatever the case maybe! Truly sorry from the male population on fab to the amazing ladies and couples out there! Don't give up hope. Plenty of men out there with good etiquettes and manners who respect others time."

You just nailed it

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
44 weeks ago

Worcester


"Just read the moans in the forum here about the lack of replies from solo guys when they contact women or couples (have they any idea of how many messages they receive?)

Then when they are invited they are notorious for not turning up: I was asked by a MF couple recently to organise a group session where she a very attractive woman in her late twenties was to the centre of attention from six much older men. Only one turned up.....

Some friends, an attractive couple with a young family; so any meet required child care and a hotel. Constantly let me down.

"

Honestly tho, why would a single bloke trust another single bloke who says he's organising a meet with a woman considerably their junior?

Like, it's just unlikely to actually be any more than a bloke's wank fantasy.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
44 weeks ago

Somewhere near


"Just read the moans in the forum here about the lack of replies from solo guys when they contact women or couples (have they any idea of how many messages they receive?)

Then when they are invited they are notorious for not turning up: I was asked by a MF couple recently to organise a group session where she a very attractive woman in her late twenties was to the centre of attention from six much older men. Only one turned up.....

Some friends, an attractive couple with a young family; so any meet required child care and a hotel. Constantly let me down.

"

I would of been well annoyed . Glad o stick to clubs . There's no let down

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By *oppet22TV/TS
44 weeks ago

huddersfield

Iv had some great meets on here dont ever take it personally if no replys from mail i send as everyone as there owen choice

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Just read the moans in the forum here about the lack of replies from solo guys when they contact women or couples (have they any idea of how many messages they receive?)

Then when they are invited they are notorious for not turning up: I was asked by a MF couple recently to organise a group session where she a very attractive woman in her late twenties was to the centre of attention from six much older men. Only one turned up.....

Some friends, an attractive couple with a young family; so any meet required child care and a hotel. Constantly let me down.

"

There is zero chance I'd ever trust a single man organising a group session on behalf of someone else. They might have been better off going to a club night that caters for that sort of thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
44 weeks ago

East Sussex

Why couldn't the couple arrange it themselves?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
44 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also I think possibly some individual solo men are their own worst enemy but with one exception every single man we've ever met has been polite, respectful and present.

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By *ackformore100Man
44 weeks ago

Tin town


"Just read the moans in the forum here about the lack of replies from solo guys when they contact women or couples (have they any idea of how many messages they receive?)

Then when they are invited they are notorious for not turning up: I was asked by a MF couple recently to organise a group session where she a very attractive woman in her late twenties was to the centre of attention from six much older men. Only one turned up.....

Some friends, an attractive couple with a young family; so any meet required child care and a hotel. Constantly let me down.

Honestly tho, why would a single bloke trust another single bloke who says he's organising a meet with a woman considerably their junior?

Like, it's just unlikely to actually be any more than a bloke's wank fantasy."

But she's young gorgeous hot wet and gagging for all the cock she can get.. Whatever it may be attached to. Honest.

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