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Writing 1st Dm to someone

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By *rNaughty22 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Doncaster

I read all the time on peoples profile and on the forums that us guys should make an effort with writing DMs to people.

I can put a lot of effort into my messages at time and for some couples who read it and then just

to delete it. Surley if someone makes and effort even if its a clear no of which i have no issues with, surely same respect should be returned.

Argh lol. So hard Work at times.

Would love any advice regarding 1st contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

In all honesty mate there’s nothing you can do about it other than move on to someone else. People don’t read or reply to messages for a variety of reasons and it’s not worth dwelling on it.

I would also say that if it’s starting to feel like work perhaps take a break from sending out messages and go back to it if and when you want to.

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By *orny IrishMan
43 weeks ago

Rural Wiltshire

Sending a message does not guarantee a response and to think if you put a lot of effort into a message should ensure a response is missing a point.

You roll the dice and if you are lucky you get a reply. Never assume you are getting a reply and the. You will not be disappointed.

Just my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I know it can be disheartening, especially if you put in the work in the message, but at the end of it nobody is owed a reply.

Take it on the chin and move onto the next. Single females and couples are bombarded with messages and it is just pot luck.

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By *rNaughty22 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Doncaster

You all make valid points ta .

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
43 weeks ago

doncaster

The fact that we have you on block says you don’t put to much into it as we only block the weirdos with awful first messages so god knows what you sent us

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By *rNaughty22 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Doncaster


"The fact that we have you on block says you don’t put to much into it as we only block the weirdos with awful first messages so god knows what you sent us "

Not particularly talking about about you. I've generalised my personal experience. If people are not interested thats cool. I have no issues with that at all.

I've had people chat away with me for hours before, just to be randomly be block.. nothing quite as queer as folk lol.

I've written bareley little before and people have replyed. Its just very difficult trying to work what each individual i contact likes or dislikes etc, its a pure guessing game.

No one wants to push a good look person away..but say the wrong and block.

My block list is huge. If people are not interested then I block them. It saves me messaging again later on and annoying anyone.

Also had to unblock a lady before and now we've met up now, going on for nearly 2yrs.

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