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By *coobys OP   Man
42 weeks ago

north west lancs

Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester


"Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts."

Scoobys didn’t turn up yesterday to our arranged meet and then blocked me when I tried to ask him what happened. He’s such a timewaster.

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By *coobys OP   Man
42 weeks ago

north west lancs


"Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts.

Scoobys didn’t turn up yesterday to our arranged meet and then blocked me when I tried to ask him what happened. He’s such a timewaster."

Wtf you on about my meet was arranged in lancashire. I have never contacted yourself or ever spoken to yourself. Unless you have a different profile for each area of the country pathetic really.

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42 weeks ago


"Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts.

Scoobys didn’t turn up yesterday to our arranged meet and then blocked me when I tried to ask him what happened. He’s such a timewaster.

Wtf you on about my meet was arranged in lancashire. I have never contacted yourself or ever spoken to yourself. Unless you have a different profile for each area of the country pathetic really."

and theres the problem, anyone could badmouth anyone over anything, just out of spite

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
42 weeks ago

Wherever

It’s your words against theirs. How would this work according to your logic? Nobody is there for you to be present at every single arranged meet and judge who is a time waster and who isn’t. Happens all the time, people don’t show up, people change their mind, maybe something put them off. Take it as an experience and move on.

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By *heshire fun couple 123Couple
42 weeks ago

Nantwich

Happy to take the role on of being at every meet....


"It’s your words against theirs. How would this work according to your logic? Nobody is there for you to be present at every single arranged meet and judge who is a time waster and who isn’t. Happens all the time, people don’t show up, people change their mind, maybe something put them off. Take it as an experience and move on. "

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
42 weeks ago

wonderland.

If it was arranged via fab I believe you can report it as a no show..

The couple above were showing why naming and shaming is not allowed x

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By *arley QuimWoman
42 weeks ago

Somewhere

Nobody owes anyone else a shag. I cancelled on a couple a few years ago after they informed me the lady had an 'open sore on her vag'... Thanks, but no thanks

They took the hump with me - but didn't get one

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By *coobys OP   Man
42 weeks ago

north west lancs


"Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts.

Scoobys didn’t turn up yesterday to our arranged meet and then blocked me when I tried to ask him what happened. He’s such a timewaster.

Wtf you on about my meet was arranged in lancashire. I have never contacted yourself or ever spoken to yourself. Unless you have a different profile for each area of the country pathetic really.

and theres the problem, anyone could badmouth anyone over anything, just out of spite"

Think that was the message they were trying to get across to me. You and they are right it's just a crying shame some folk timewaste deliberately.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
42 weeks ago

Wherever


"Happy to take the role on of being at every meet....

It’s your words against theirs. How would this work according to your logic? Nobody is there for you to be present at every single arranged meet and judge who is a time waster and who isn’t. Happens all the time, people don’t show up, people change their mind, maybe something put them off. Take it as an experience and move on. "

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
42 weeks ago

wonderland.


"Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts.

Scoobys didn’t turn up yesterday to our arranged meet and then blocked me when I tried to ask him what happened. He’s such a timewaster.

Wtf you on about my meet was arranged in lancashire. I have never contacted yourself or ever spoken to yourself. Unless you have a different profile for each area of the country pathetic really.

and theres the problem, anyone could badmouth anyone over anything, just out of spite

Think that was the message they were trying to get across to me. You and they are right it's just a crying shame some folk timewaste deliberately."

click on report on the couples profile. There is an option to report for not showing up

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By *WB85Man
42 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It's bizarre!!! Happened to my partner a couple of times now.

It really changes your approach, stops you wanting to send pics and make an effort to talk to people.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester


"Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts.

Scoobys didn’t turn up yesterday to our arranged meet and then blocked me when I tried to ask him what happened. He’s such a timewaster.

Wtf you on about my meet was arranged in lancashire. I have never contacted yourself or ever spoken to yourself. Unless you have a different profile for each area of the country pathetic really."

Do you see the problem with allowing people to publicly name and shame now?

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By *coobys OP   Man
42 weeks ago

north west lancs


"Nobody owes anyone else a shag. I cancelled on a couple a few years ago after they informed me the lady had an 'open sore on her vag'... Thanks, but no thanks

They took the hump with me - but didn't get one "

Your cancelling given the information you received is fully understandable. But you told them you were not turning up. I am absolutely fine on anyone cancelling on me but at least inform me.

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By *coobys OP   Man
42 weeks ago

north west lancs


"Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts.

Scoobys didn’t turn up yesterday to our arranged meet and then blocked me when I tried to ask him what happened. He’s such a timewaster.

Wtf you on about my meet was arranged in lancashire. I have never contacted yourself or ever spoken to yourself. Unless you have a different profile for each area of the country pathetic really.

Do you see the problem with allowing people to publicly name and shame now?"

Yeah I do and take your views on board hence the reason why I was asking for people's thoughts thanks.

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By *arley QuimWoman
42 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Nobody owes anyone else a shag. I cancelled on a couple a few years ago after they informed me the lady had an 'open sore on her vag'... Thanks, but no thanks

They took the hump with me - but didn't get one

Your cancelling given the information you received is fully understandable. But you told them you were not turning up. I am absolutely fine on anyone cancelling on me but at least inform me."

You missed the first part -

Nobody owes anyone else a shag

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By *coobys OP   Man
42 weeks ago

north west lancs

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
42 weeks ago

wonderland.


"Should there be something where timewasters can be named and shamed.

One couple all yesterday were up for meeting arranged the spot as it was to be outside fun. Surprise surprise they did not show, so today I asked why they did not show and why no apology and now they have blocked me.

More annoying than travelling and being let down is they are advertising for an afternoon meet.

Fab should bring in a separate part where you can say what happened to help others who may suffer the same thing.

Would welcome people thoughts.

Scoobys didn’t turn up yesterday to our arranged meet and then blocked me when I tried to ask him what happened. He’s such a timewaster.

Wtf you on about my meet was arranged in lancashire. I have never contacted yourself or ever spoken to yourself. Unless you have a different profile for each area of the country pathetic really.

and theres the problem, anyone could badmouth anyone over anything, just out of spite

Think that was the message they were trying to get across to me. You and they are right it's just a crying shame some folk timewaste deliberately. click on report on the couples profile. There is an option to report for not showing up

Don't think you can do that once they have blocked me."

you can. Click on the profile and you can Still report.

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By *coobys OP   Man
42 weeks ago

north west lancs


"Nobody owes anyone else a shag. I cancelled on a couple a few years ago after they informed me the lady had an 'open sore on her vag'... Thanks, but no thanks

They took the hump with me - but didn't get one

Your cancelling given the information you received is fully understandable. But you told them you were not turning up. I am absolutely fine on anyone cancelling on me but at least inform me.

You missed the first part -

Nobody owes anyone else a shag "

Never at any point did I refer to someone owing someone a shag. For me the no show is fine but at least have the decency to let me know your no longer going.

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By *arley QuimWoman
42 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Nobody owes anyone else a shag. I cancelled on a couple a few years ago after they informed me the lady had an 'open sore on her vag'... Thanks, but no thanks

They took the hump with me - but didn't get one

Your cancelling given the information you received is fully understandable. But you told them you were not turning up. I am absolutely fine on anyone cancelling on me but at least inform me.

You missed the first part -

Nobody owes anyone else a shag

Never at any point did I refer to someone owing someone a shag. For me the no show is fine but at least have the decency to let me know your no longer going."

How did you vet them? Are they well verified, had you spoken to both of them on the phone? Had you met for a social previously? Do you know these Internet randomers well? And to avoid wasting your own time were you pretty much 99% sure they would turn up?

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By *rill PhilMan
42 weeks ago

Crediton

Every woman I agree to go on a meet with doesn't show up.

Of course that may be because, find the only one who actually agrees to the meet.

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By *coobys OP   Man
42 weeks ago

north west lancs


"Nobody owes anyone else a shag. I cancelled on a couple a few years ago after they informed me the lady had an 'open sore on her vag'... Thanks, but no thanks

They took the hump with me - but didn't get one

Your cancelling given the information you received is fully understandable. But you told them you were not turning up. I am absolutely fine on anyone cancelling on me but at least inform me.

You missed the first part -

Nobody owes anyone else a shag

Never at any point did I refer to someone owing someone a shag. For me the no show is fine but at least have the decency to let me know your no longer going.

How did you vet them? Are they well verified, had you spoken to both of them on the phone? Had you met for a social previously? Do you know these Internet randomers well? And to avoid wasting your own time were you pretty much 99% sure they would turn up? "

I only went off the verifications lessons to be learnt for future thanks.

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By *issmorganWoman
42 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Sorry this happened op, please report them to admin as they're probably doing it to others.

Naming and shaming would be open to abuse from those who got turned down or didn't like a member, so I don't think it should be implemented.

One bit of advice I'd give is, don't travel too far to meet someone you've not met before. I also like a public social first meet, so I can see that they're real and turn up.

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