As I imagine most people on here will know, erections aren't a binary state. I would guess most of us, unless you have a specific kink, would prefer mini-me to be completely awake and flexing for the duration.
Obviously in certain settings that's not always the easiest thing to achieve, and of course there's no shame in needing a minute, and it can be very frustrating in those moments when, surrounded by naked women inviting you to do all manner of interesting things with them, the man downstairs decides it's time for a little nap.
So, unless you're one of those fortunate dudes who's always ready to go, what are your secrets for keeping up?
Personally other than a little blue pill (which isn't foolproof by any means), I find being well-rested, not hungry, and hydrated (but not too hydrated) is a good start, but I've also found that not drinking alcohol, caffeine or anything carbonated helps a lot. Recreational drugs are also a no-no for me. Crucially I don't like the cold at all and I'm at my best at temperatures just below "sauna".
Psychologically I find that recognising what's gonna work for you is a good thing too. I prefer slower and more intimate encounters with lots of touching, kissing and foreplay. I find that if there's a situation where I'm likely to run into performance issues I step back, rather than trying and failing and then getting in my head about it.
I would also say that all the women I've met have been excellent and very patient with understanding and managing the issue.
But I'm very interested to know, from both guys and gals, what works for you to keep it working? |
. It’s expensive though as have to get it privately unless you have ED issues and go via your GP 
