FabSwingers.com forum: Shudder!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im tall for a woman and always wear heels so like tall men, it says that on my profile so the guys KNOW I prefer tall men, some guys message saying they will get stilts or built up shoes, one just messaged to say he would bring a saw and chop me down to size!!!!!!

Good God!! Doesn't he know how scary that sounds to a single fem??

Block!!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Im tall for a woman and always wear heels so like tall men, it says that on my profile so the guys KNOW I prefer tall men, some guys message saying they will get stilts or built up shoes, one just messaged to say he would bring a saw and chop me down to size!!!!!!

Good God!! Doesn't he know how scary that sounds to a single fem??

Block!!!"
It was probably said tongue in cheek!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Your not that tall....Jeez how short was he???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your not that tall....Jeez how short was he???

I was just thinking that, looked at her profile and expect to see she was 6ft or something lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good God!! Doesn't he know how scary that sounds to a single fem??

Block!!!It was probably said tongue in cheek!"

not always someones sense of humour tho..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol he was 5.9 but Im 6ft in heels

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Good God!! Doesn't he know how scary that sounds to a single fem??

Block!!!It was probably said tongue in cheek!

not always someones sense of humour tho.. "
No.... i predict by the end of this thread several people will have a serial killer who collects feet as trophies on the lose on fabswingers....not like anybody sensationalises owt on here eh?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Will admit I do like em tall.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good God!! Doesn't he know how scary that sounds to a single fem??

Block!!!"

Maybe he meant 'hacksaw' and was gonna murder your Jimmy Choo's!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had a psycho stalker from here and people actually had to pull him off me in a pub when we were drinking coffee and I said no I wouldnt play. He stalked me for a few months.

The last I heard he had been committed

So now ANYTHING out of the norm has me thinking the worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5.4 AND a 1/4 here and i love tall rubenesque women but seems they all like tall guys lol

any one got a set of steps

fully understand the op's predicament though hard to justify why the saw commentfrom the guy xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Good God!! Doesn't he know how scary that sounds to a single fem??

Block!!!It was probably said tongue in cheek!"

It came across tongue in cheek to me too!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Her profile states they be 6 foot at least...

Id block them for taking no notice of that

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I had a psycho stalker from here and people actually had to pull him off me in a pub when we were drinking coffee and I said no I wouldnt play. He stalked me for a few months.

The last I heard he had been committed

So now ANYTHING out of the norm has me thinking the worst."

But in all fairness the guy sending the message wouldnt have known that.

Im a single female and it wouldnt have scared me in the slightest. Might have thought it was a crap message though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness, I hope he was joking!

Maybe report to Admin, though, just in case he wasn't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good idea Sunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the one who mentioned stilts.

was he called Oscar?

You may have had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it Paul Daniels ?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Was it Paul Daniels ?"

Thought he did thumbs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was it Paul Daniels ?

Thought he did thumbs?"

Yeah but being a magician, had he cut her down to size, he could have put her back together again afterwards

It's never done Debbie McGee any harm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5.9 n tall or short doesn't bother me if it doesn't bother them as long as our personalities click n were both attracted to each other what difference does it really make?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Was it Paul Daniels ?

Thought he did thumbs?

Yeah but being a magician, had he cut her down to size, he could have put her back together again afterwards

It's never done Debbie McGee any harm

Ahhhh I see your logic there...

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I agree it was probably tongue in cheek and supposed to be funny although it was a pretty naff comment and he was taking a bit of a gamble using it... A gamble that ultimately didn't pay off as you didn't appreciate his kind of humour. Block and move on.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Good God!! Doesn't he know how scary that sounds to a single fem??

Block!!!"

HERES JOHNNNY !!!!!

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

"I'm 5.9 n tall or short doesn't bother me if it doesn't bother them as long as our personalities click n were both attracted to each other what difference does it really make? "

Because sexually, height can be a bigger turn on for some women than cock size. It's a preference, respect it. X

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

Good God!! Doesn't he know how scary that sounds to a single fem??

Block!!!

HERES JOHNNNY !!!!!

Love that scene and film....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I can't believe anyone would think that was a scary message....an attempt at humour that wasn't maybe but not scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god sometimes I do feel a little sorry for the guys on here.

Ok yeah he was a chancer, knew he wasn't 6ft but tried to make a little joke. Lots of guys message women when they are out of their criteria, that is an everyday occurence on here. What I do is just ignore the message or sometimes guys are just cheeky chaps and I have to laugh at their message.

I seriously cannot believe that anyone would take what was reported to be a serious threat of violence. And to suggest reporting to admin, that is just laughable.

If OP you are frightened for your safety because you had a stalker that had to be pulled off you, then your resilience to continue swinging and meeting guys is more surprising to me than receiving that message would be.

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

"I can't believe anyone would think that was a scary message....an attempt at humour that wasn't maybe but not scary

What is and isn't scary differs from person to person, dependent upon their life experience. Personally I don't think that jokes that involve talk of violence to a women are ever acceptable. How is that funny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We received a message from a man saying he'd like to add a little colour to our cheeks.

I have a colour phobia so I reported him to the police. They said the boys in blue would look into it - well that just set me right off

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I can't believe anyone would think that was a scary message....an attempt at humour that wasn't maybe but not scary

I do believe I said in my post "an attempt at humour that wasn't" I am guessing you missed that bit though.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"We received a message from a man saying he'd like to add a little colour to our cheeks.

I have a colour phobia so I reported him to the police. They said the boys in blue would look into it - well that just set me right off

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

"I can't believe anyone would think that was a scary message....an attempt at humour that wasn't maybe but not scary

I do believe I said in my post "an attempt at humour that wasn't" I am guessing you missed that bit though."

No, I saw it and agree that it was probably meant to be "an attempt at humour".

The point that I was (badly!) trying to put across was that I don't think it's right to make jokes about physically hurting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen many posts from very popular single guys on this forum who have made comments about sharpening their axes.

Has anyone seriously interpreted that as anything other than the guys being friendly and jokey and fun?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I really do think it was more an attempt at bantering that went wrong, but obviously just my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I just checked out her profile expecting like 6ft plus...5ft 7!!!! Is that really considered tall for a lady?

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

On the subject of saws.....

I had a message from a guy on another site who wanted me to meet him, dress up as a magicians assistant, then climb in a box so he could pretend to saw me in half.....

Funnily enough I declined that one lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I can't believe anyone would think that was a scary message....an attempt at humour that wasn't maybe but not scary

I do believe I said in my post "an attempt at humour that wasn't" I am guessing you missed that bit though.

No, I saw it and agree that it was probably meant to be "an attempt at humour".

The point that I was (badly!) trying to put across was that I don't think it's right to make jokes about physically hurting people.

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So "i wanna bang your back doors in" needs to be reported to the police as an attempted burglary or at least anti social behaviour ?

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

"I really do think it was more an attempt at bantering that went wrong, but obviously just my view.

I agree with you there.....and it would be also be the kind of joke that i would laugh at with some close male friends (them knowing that I haven't ever had a physical threat made against me, understanding my position regarding women in society... )

It's about context.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"On the subject of saws.....

I had a message from a guy on another site who wanted me to meet him, dress up as a magicians assistant, then climb in a box so he could pretend to saw me in half.....

Funnily enough I declined that one lol"

Then his profile disappeared in a puff of smoke...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the subject of saws.....

I had a message from a guy on another site who wanted me to meet him, dress up as a magicians assistant, then climb in a box so he could pretend to saw me in half.....

Funnily enough I declined that one lol

Then his profile disappeared in a puff of smoke..."

Thankfully not before he pulled a rabbit out of his hat.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Was it Paul Daniels ?"
LOL

He is a Diddy fella brings his rabbits into our vet clinic

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By *aggiebabeWoman
over a year ago

redditch

"Sorry I just checked out her profile expecting like 6ft plus...5ft 7!!!! Is that really considered tall for a lady?"

No I'm 5ft 10 in heels over 6ft. Who cares!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if ever i get arrested for something i want rugbydoesmfm to be my barrister , she/he always argues the point well and precise , mmmm ok enough creeping /ass licking

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