FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging/Dating?

By *unner6969 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bicester

I sit somewhere between Swinging and Dating sites and so use apps across that spectrum.

My primary driver is real meets with genuine people and sexual fun and frolics, not chat, pics, porn, or titillation.

I work away from home in different locations, typically for 3-6 months, sometimes longer. I stay in hotels Mon-Fri (some say ‘no hotel meets’ but it is where I live!).

I like to see the same person/couple over and again, rather than have multiple partners or one-night stands. I build relationships, even though they stay NSA.

Typically, I then go elsewhere and have to start again. Good job the money is good because the sex life is pants.

Where do you sit on the swinging-dating see-saw? Do you use apps of each type? What best suits your needs?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Married and play as a hotwife with his concent I'm here for sex however a date before sex is always good and adds to the Chemistry

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
44 weeks ago

Sheffield

I just use fab and clubs. Would rather find someone with the same interests into clubs like myself. Dating apps are dire x

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I see them as different. Unlikely to date anyone from fab unless a very special person.

Dating apps are however dire at least on here people are open about what they are looking for

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By *ractorlad3800Man
44 weeks ago

derbyshire

For me it’s finding the people with the same sex drive and interests in the bedroom which I find dating apps don’t , like already been said person off her would have to be very special and the chemistry for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I'm here to date as I know what I want in a relationship and that would not be found on any dating app however 'alternative'.

Being here is not that much better but at least people are more open about what they are seeking; sometimes!

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By *tagmeupMan
44 weeks ago

wirral

Yes , swiping sites are useless if like me you are none vanilla

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By *CLM87Woman
44 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Been on dating sites before and they are seriously dire.

Fab isn't perfect, but at least you get some sort of idea and also gets the awkward, I'm a swinger chat out of the way.

Had some guy who I had matched with on tinder a year ago, randomly telegram me the other day, saying hey, Looking gorgeous, I want to bend you over and fuck you. I went back with not the way to go about it and he said well everyone is on tinder just for sex... my last reply was I'd use a different site if I wanted that and blocked him.

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By *ucklingMan
44 weeks ago

Sleaford

I am also here to try to find a lady that I can date on a regular basis too. As long as you are both after the same thing it's all good.

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By *ruffle888Woman
42 weeks ago

under the council skies...

Looking for long term.. had fab relationship in past till he ghosted me!

I know you can have both...

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By *aked_magicMan
42 weeks ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

Im in the same boat but not sure where i sit at the minute. Im out of the country nine months a year and in hotels a lot of that time. Just come out of a relationship and not looking for another so i guess im just after sex lol but seriously i too would love something a bit more regular but its hard when youre always on the move

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"I sit somewhere between Swinging and Dating sites and so use apps across that spectrum.

My primary driver is real meets with genuine people and sexual fun and frolics, not chat, pics, porn, or titillation.

I work away from home in different locations, typically for 3-6 months, sometimes longer. I stay in hotels Mon-Fri (some say ‘no hotel meets’ but it is where I live!).

I like to see the same person/couple over and again, rather than have multiple partners or one-night stands. I build relationships, even though they stay NSA.

Typically, I then go elsewhere and have to start again. Good job the money is good because the sex life is pants.

Where do you sit on the swinging-dating see-saw? Do you use apps of each type? What best suits your needs?"

Also this as quick meets don't suit me

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"I'm here to date as I know what I want in a relationship and that would not be found on any dating app however 'alternative'.

Being here is not that much better but at least people are more open about what they are seeking; sometimes!"

I fully agree with this and im on the exact same page. At least off here you know off the bat they have a high sex drive and their sexual interests. Nothing worse than using traditional apps and realising someone you have invested time in has little to no sex drive

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By *ucklingMan
42 weeks ago

Sleaford

"I'm here to date as I know what I want in a relationship and that would not be found on any dating app however 'alternative'.

Being here is not that much better but at least people are more open about what they are seeking; sometimes!

100% this! Been there, not much fun dating a lady with no sex drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Yep i can echo what a lot of people have already said. I am also on dating sites and they are awful. I have a very high sex drive so i need the full package. Hence why i feel fab is the best place for it. Ive had some amazing relationships off fab in the past and hope i can find another to enjoy my future with x

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