FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for first time clubbing

By *elshnewbies69 OP Couple
48 weeks ago

cardiff

We are looking to go to a club in May and are looking for advice/reviews on what's it like and what to expect? All replies welcome thank you

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By *00 Percent CheekyMan
48 weeks ago

Swindon

Just go in relaxed with no expectations explore the venue wherever you decide to go most people are friendly and will have a chat. Take your time and engage

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
48 weeks ago

Bristol

Do you have a particular club in mind?

If not it very much depends on what you are looking for from a club. We didn't do our research before trying our first club and picked the wrong one for us. Put us off at the time.

Look at whether it's couples only or single men as well and decide what you are comfortable with for your first visit. For us it was a couples and single ladies only night to start but now we do ones where there's limited numbers of single men.

Another thing is whether it's dress down or not and if they are having a theme/particular kink night. Fancy dress can be a great icebreaker and when we started going to clubs again it wasn't a dress down one as we were too nervous for that but we've been to Chams a few times now and actually find it easier. Everyone is stripped down to lingerie/towels from the get go rather than people ranging from fully clothed to naked. It's helped massively with my confidence as well to the point where we went to Swindon recently, which isn't dress down, and I was one of the first to get down to lingerie as I just didn't care anymore.

Sorry for the long post. Hope some of it helps. B

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By *cLovin2Man
48 weeks ago

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"We are looking to go to a club in May and are looking for advice/reviews on what's it like and what to expect? All replies welcome thank you"

The first time I went, it took me like a month to get over the shock of seeing a room full of people just at it. It was like my teenage fantasy come true finally and I was in shock about it. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

As above.

Go in with no preconceptions or plans, relax chat and enjoy.

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By *elshnewbies69 OP Couple
48 weeks ago

cardiff

Thank you for the heads up, we're really easy going and chilled out lol, just don't want to be put off by people being too forward and give us a bad experience

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By *indMasterUKMan
48 weeks ago

All over England

"Thank you for the heads up, we're really easy going and chilled out lol, just don't want to be put off by people being too forward and give us a bad experience

I suggest going to Chameleons in Darlaston during the week as your first club visit. Its quiet compared to weekends and as it has jacuzzis, a steam room and sauna you can always chill out first, get chatting and see how things pan out. As it's quiet you won't be pestered by single men. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Thank you for the heads up, we're really easy going and chilled out lol, just don't want to be put off by people being too forward and give us a bad experience

We can second this. Go the for opening and you'll have the place to yourself barring the regulars who wont bug you.

It is a dress down club though so keep that in mind

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