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By *eady_eddy OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

........I'll spank your arse! pm me pls!

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By *rchard thiefMan
over a year ago

accrington-ish

I read it while on a stag do last year........Bet you won't spank mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it after so many people raved about it and it annoyed me on every single page. Holy cow

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I read all 3 of them and spanked my own arse

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By *eady_eddy OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I read it while on a stag do last year........Bet you won't spank mine lol"

never read it, any good?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

No spanks here then! Wouldn't read it after what we have been told about the trilogy. Liberated people that we know seem to not be interested and those with a boring sex life in Vanilladom were all over it! Titillation for the masses that as one BDSM couple told us, you can see was written by someone who doesn't know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved all three of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read it out of sheer curiosity and kept waiting for the filth to start...was sorely disappointed!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Read it out of sheer curiosity and kept waiting for the filth to start...was sorely disappointed!"

Same here...

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"Read it out of sheer curiosity and kept waiting for the filth to start...was sorely disappointed!"

LOL Yep, thats cos it was a love story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them. They were so bad that finishing the trilogy was the biggest sadomasochistic act I undertook all last year.

And I've been about. A bit.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I read it after so many people raved about it and it annoyed me on every single page. Holy cow

Same here! I forced myself to read halfway through and gave it back to the person I borrowed it to because it bored me to tears.

You can literally re-write that book and shorten it to just a few sentences:

"I bit my bottom lip.

Stop biting your bottom lip. I want to bite that bottom lip.

Holy Fuck".

The end.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I read it after so many people raved about it and it annoyed me on every single page. Holy cow

Same here! I forced myself to read halfway through and gave it back to the person I borrowed it to because it bored me to tears.

You can literally re-write that book and shorten it to just a few sentences:

"I bit my bottom lip.

Stop biting your bottom lip. I want to bite that bottom lip.

Holy Fuck".

The end.

*Borrowed it FROM, even. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a very poor story about BDSM which the author clearly has no knowledge of and it is potentially quite damaging to "subs" and "Doms" alike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv read it four times does that mean you will spank me four times

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By *eady_eddy OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the us side my sales of whips,cuffs and jiggle balls went up when people read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now! "

BDSM is nothing like domestic violence. Be careful with your words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a very poor story about BDSM which the author clearly has no knowledge of and it is potentially quite damaging to "subs" and "Doms" alike.

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By *eady_eddy OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"iv read it four times does that mean you will spank me four times

I will punish you as much as you want me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

BDSM is nothing like domestic violence. Be careful with your words"

x1000!!!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I read it after so many people raved about it and it annoyed me on every single page. Holy cow

Same here! I forced myself to read halfway through and gave it back to the person I borrowed it to because it bored me to tears.

You can literally re-write that book and shorten it to just a few sentences:

"I bit my bottom lip.

Stop biting your bottom lip. I want to bite that bottom lip.

Holy Fuck".

The end.

Brilliant summation, well done you! Far better written than the real thing, too.

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By *rchard thiefMan
over a year ago

accrington-ish

"I read it while on a stag do last year........Bet you won't spank mine lol

never read it, any good?"

I was constantly hungover so I didn't really pay much attention to it, but what I do remember is nothing like past experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now! "

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

I'll add to this if crystal doesn't mind - BDSM is all about consent, by giving my submission I give my consent for my Dominant to do what he does. In a domestic violence relationship (which I've been in) the victim doesn't give consent.

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By *eady_eddy OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

With respect, you need to get sense of humour.....and a shorter profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a very poor story about BDSM which the author clearly has no knowledge of and it is potentially quite damaging to "subs" and "Doms" alike.

There has been an explosion of newbies into the BDSM scene because of that book. The ones who don't get it are kicked into touch very quickly and they rarely turn up to a second event. There are some people who 50 Shades has fired an interest and they are researching the scene and it's acted as a platform from which they're growing. They're the intelligent ones who will in time become great Doms or subs and it's great to see friendship groups grow as a result.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

With respect, you need to get sense of humour.....and a shorter profile!"

At what point should people who choose a lifestyle not be able to defend it against those who trivialise and ridicule it?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now! "
Interesting point of view from someone who hasnt read the pile of tripe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

With respect, you need to get sense of humour.....and a shorter profile!"

I'm not sure what our profile has to do with anything? And with respect, you may want to read the forum rules.

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By *eady_eddy OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

With respect, you need to get sense of humour.....and a shorter profile!

I'm not sure what our profile has to do with anything? And with respect, you may want to read the forum rules.

This is the last time I shall reply to you.

It is only good manners to read someones profile before replying. I find you referring to forum rules significant as to the person you are. You really do need to lighten up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speed read it on my kindle

Was ok but it took him til book 3 to when mention butt plugs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

With respect, you need to get sense of humour.....and a shorter profile!

I'm not sure what our profile has to do with anything? And with respect, you may want to read the forum rules.

This is the last time I shall reply to you.

It is only good manners to read someones profile before replying. I find you referring to forum rules significant as to the person you are. You really do need to lighten up."

Then you can reply to me...

Forum rules are there to make the forums a happy place for us all. It is not acceptable to comment upon someone's profile in such a manner and quite honestly I think you need to remember that there are some of us on here who choose BDSM as a lifestyle choice and we do become defensive when people ridicule it. Something I will always do as many others will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I know if i read it now it would all seem very tame and corny after the amazing experiences i have had over the past 2 years.

But if i hadnt read the first book while it was still on an online story website before publication...i might still be having sex about 6 times a year with a husband who didnt fancy me and wondering why i was depressed all the time..

it woke me up...or "my inner goddess" up! I'll always be grateful for that.

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By *eady_eddy OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

With respect, you need to get sense of humour.....and a shorter profile!

I'm not sure what our profile has to do with anything? And with respect, you may want to read the forum rules.

This is the last time I shall reply to you.

It is only good manners to read someones profile before replying. I find you referring to forum rules significant as to the person you are. You really do need to lighten up.

Then you can reply to me...

It is the people who make the forums a happier place. No more replies

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"Well I know if i read it now it would all seem very tame and corny after the amazing experiences i have had over the past 2 years.

it woke me up...or "my inner goddess" up! I'll always be grateful for that.

I loved the 'inner goddes' references, I read the books as 'fiction' which is exactly what it was. IM sure it stirred the juices of many women who had no previous idea of BDSM, but I read it with some prior knowledge and recognised it as just a light hearted slightly sexy love story.

Wonder what the film will be like

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

NOT read it....

NEVER going to read it....

Its an updated Mills & Boon for bored housewives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Comparing BDSM to domestic violence just shows how ill informed you are. The fact that that is your viewpoint and yet you offer to spank people in your opening post is am interesting contradiction.

With respect, you need to get sense of humour.....and a shorter profile!

I'm not sure what our profile has to do with anything? And with respect, you may want to read the forum rules.

This is the last time I shall reply to you.

It is only good manners to read someones profile before replying. I find you referring to forum rules significant as to the person you are. You really do need to lighten up.

Then you can reply to me...

It is the people who make the forums a happier place. No more replies"

I will correct you - it is the people who abide by the forum rules who make the forums a happier place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"NOT read it....

NEVER going to read it....

Its an updated Mills & Boon for bored housewives

THATS exactly what it is!! Thats why its sold so well! Because most women in this country are bored housewives who are so busy thinking about what to make for tea,and whether the kids uniforms are ready for tomorrow,that they end up feeling utterly sexless.

I had completely forgotten how much i loved sex...for years.

The book is/was complete escapism but it switched my sex drive back on!!

Sadly my husband didnt read it and wasnt impressed by the new sex mad me..so we split.Sad in some ways,but really I was utterly dead inside,and now feel life isnt just a life sentence of drudgery and monotony.

The author never meant it to be a work of art!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read all 3 of them and spanked my own arse

Haha love it

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"NOT read it....

NEVER going to read it....

Its an updated Mills & Boon for bored housewives

I had completely forgotten how much i loved sex...for years.

The book is/was complete escapism but it switched my sex drive back on!!

The author never meant it to be a work of art!!!

My point exactly!!!!!!

I dont need to read it!!!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

it has broadened the sex life of a lot of people...so it isn't for broadminded people perhaps and certainly not for kinksters..But if peeps get off on it and women can use it to communicate to their partners what they might like - is that really such a bad thing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it has broadened the sex life of a lot of people...so it isn't for broadminded people perhaps and certainly not for kinksters..But if peeps get off on it and women can use it to communicate to their partners what they might like - is that really such a bad thing??"

I think when its put into the hands of "dim doms" yes it is a bad thing. That can cause damage which can be irreparable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a bad thing in that it has got people talking more openly about sex, but I think some of the stuff that hints at BDSM type stuff should have either been researched better or just left out of the book as it has created a bit of a false impression of the scene for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No that is not a bad thing. but, and it's a huge fucking but there is a serious misrepresentation of the dynamics of a sub/dom relationship portrayed in the book as the norm and some pretty dangerous ideas, i seriously hope to god that no one has ever read it and thought cable ties were a good idea.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Surely people who know and understand BDSM aren't that bothered of this false impression?

I know I'm not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read it most boring book read more books out there that have turned me on, and most of my friends the same zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"The author never meant it to be a work of art!!!

I am sure the author would be very upset to know you think that! I also write, although not sexual or sexy novels and I can tell you, All authors think of his or her work as a work of art! Whatever our chosen genre, it is a labour of love and believe me, all of mine are "works of art"!

The very act of sending a manuscript off for assessment is like sending a child off to the town for the first time on their own.. Nerve-wracked and fraught is how I would describe it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I listened to the audiobook. couldn't be arsed to read it. Didn't get aroused at all. Did have a good laugh tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read them. They were so bad that finishing the trilogy was the biggest sadomasochistic act I undertook all last year.

And I've been about. A bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely people who know and understand BDSM aren't that bothered of this false impression?

I know I'm not.."

I think we have a responsibility to be bothered about it because it could mean that people are injured either mentally or physically.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Surely people who know and understand BDSM aren't that bothered of this false impression?

I know I'm not..

I think we have a responsibility to be bothered about it because it could mean that people are injured either mentally or physically. "

if someone reads or sees something that might injure them and they go ahead and do it, that isn't our responsibility surely? as consenting educated adults they make their own decisions?

she doesn't go into knife or needle play or the likes in the books it is all pretty tame stuff in the grand scheme of things..people have been experimenting with ropes and blindfolds for years and will continue to do so....whether they choose to progress is their choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now! "

Working for a feminist organisation, I have to say that feminist activists are questioning if the book is indeed akin to domestic abuse...there is much debate available on the subject on the web.

However, being a Domme and having an understanding of BDSM, I would say there is no way that domestic abuse and BDSM are similar in any way, shape of form!

Again 'Fifty Shades of Shit' has done no favours to the world of BDSM!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely people who know and understand BDSM aren't that bothered of this false impression?

I know I'm not..

I think we have a responsibility to be bothered about it because it could mean that people are injured either mentally or physically. "

yeah think the concerns are more that someone could get hurt from taking too literally from the book...like with the previously mentioned cable ties. Plus there are some men who may take from it that to be a Dom you basically have to stalk a girl into submission...if I were Ana I'd have filed for a restraining order long before any kink could take place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i seriously hope to god that no one has ever read it and thought cable ties were a good idea.

Shit...knew thats where it all went wrong!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Its funny, from what I understand about the book it is akin to domestic violence and women find it erotic. I'm in for a load of shit now!

Working for a feminist organisation, I have to say that feminist activists are questioning if the book is indeed akin to domestic abuse...there is much debate available on the subject on the web.

However, being a Domme and having an understanding of BDSM, I would say there is no way that domestic abuse and BDSM are similar in any way, shape of form!

Again 'Fifty Shades of Shit' has done no favours to the world of BDSM!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely people who know and understand BDSM aren't that bothered of this false impression?

I know I'm not..

I think we have a responsibility to be bothered about it because it could mean that people are injured either mentally or physically.

The cable ties are something that really struck a cord with me. They are dangerous and cut into the skin and are also used in wartime torture and detention.

The BIG thing that the book fails to tell is that the real power is with the sub. You don't learn this in 50 shades and I think that could be the most dangerous lesson not taught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically as I skimmed a lot of it, no I didn't as the first few pages put me off completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"read it most boring book read more books out there that have turned me on, and most of my friends the same zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz"

Same here and the writing style was absolutely dire akin to someone who was bored and thought, I know I will write a book even though I have absolutely no experience whatsover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The books were just fluff..

They titivated a lot of bored housewives..

The world of D/s and bdsm is not as easy to get in to as some might think and wanna be.s are ed out very quickly.

Just for the ladies though, with swinging you need to be careful with the alternative world you need to be twice as careful, enjoy its a serious roller coaster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read it or do I feel the need to either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine laminated for repeated arse wiping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read 50 shades trilogy very quickly first time. Then read it more slowly, taking it all in. Knew doms/subs existed but had no idea how serious the play was involved in that situation. Was/am still bit ignorant of it all, I was going to say it did turn me on and made me think a bit about the fun could be had, as I was seeing someone at the time who was dominant but was willing to take it at my own pace, unfortunately, we stopped seeing each other so never found out if I was willing to go a bit further, but Im happy to say he has got back in touch so who knows? We are meeting up on tuesday night for a few hours, to get back on track and have some fun. Id read them again but have lent them out but she hasnt read them think she forgot she had them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are trying to over analyse it. It is fiction, not an instruction manual......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it, I enjoyed it. I enjoyed the power games and relationship rather than the physical side of bdsm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when its put into the hands of "dim doms" yes it is a bad thing. That can cause damage which can be irreparable. "

I've found an increase in the amount of men finding it okay to slap my arse in a club simply because I am a sub. This book has a lot to answer for in the lifestyle. But I am bloody good at kicking wannabe dominants to the kerb

as to being like domestic violence. It is nothing like it. Some do hide behind the title of dominant when all they are is women beating bullies. But they are not dominants. But sadly do exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was originally titled 'The Ladybird Guide to Mildly Abusive Relationships'

It has about as much in common with a D/s lifestyle as my left testicle has with the Vatican church.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read it out of sheer curiosity and kept waiting for the filth to start...was sorely disappointed!"
totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people are trying to over analyse it. It is fiction, not an instruction manual......"
I found it very repetitive and poorly written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people are trying to over analyse it. It is fiction, not an instruction manual......I found it very repetitive and poorly written

see, that is a valid literary criticism!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I think people are trying to over analyse it. It is fiction, not an instruction manual......I found it very repetitive and poorly written

see, that is a valid literary criticism!"

Couldn't agree more. I gave up after page 10. It read like the worst Mills and Boon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was originally titled 'The Ladybird Guide to Mildly Abusive Relationships'

It has about as much in common with a D/s lifestyle as my left testicle has with the Vatican church. "

What about you right testicle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever your personal view of the book is, positive or negative. It's effect on the vanilla world is quite remarkable. It's been sold by the millions globally and here we are discussing its merits once again. Personally , we read it becauce of all the hype, but we found it very repetitive and borring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was originally titled 'The Ladybird Guide to Mildly Abusive Relationships'

It has about as much in common with a D/s lifestyle as my left testicle has with the Vatican church.

What about you right testicle?"

'Doctor Ken' is not available for comment!

I know what you're asking yourself and the answer is yes. I have a nick name for my penis. Its called the Octagon, but I also nick named my testes - my left one is James Westfall and my right one is Doctor Kenneth Noisewater.

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over a year ago

"I read it while on a stag do last year........Bet you won't spank mine lol

never read it, any good?"

No, like most fiction,very disappointing & bloody boring, the women seem to like it though.

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over a year ago

The book should be took as that of a love story. Mrs read it just to see what all the hype was about, very disappointed indeed.

With us being on the Bdsm scene we have seen many a new couple or single, wanna be dom,/subs.

We believe its for the good even if its just opened a few minds,

As someone said, the wannabe's soon leave the scene after the shock lol

and them that stay are welcomed into the learning,

I believe most of the bdsm porn as more to do with damage on the scene than this silly book could ever have.

The amount of guys that believe bdsm is tieing some women up and all the men sexually abusing her or other such like scenarios is amazing.

We vet all potential single and couple who wish to attend our bdsm do,s as to there mind set, and if we beleive they have a decent mind set then we,ll allow them to attend.

The amount of people who,s gone quiet on us once we tell them about the Impact play, eletro play, needle and wax play plus the many other stuff us fetishist and bdsmer's do

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over a year ago

"It was originally titled 'The Ladybird Guide to Mildly Abusive Relationships'

It has about as much in common with a D/s lifestyle as my left testicle has with the Vatican church.

What about you right testicle?

'Doctor Ken' is not available for comment!

Thank you for getting back to me on this matter. It was (and is) very important to me.

I can confirm that I will be able to sleep easy tonight knowing this new information.

Give the Octagon a rub from me.

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