FabSwingers.com forum: Mens post

By *reenleavesCouple
40 weeks ago

North Wales

I feel like we make a gut decision on a profile within the first 5 seconds of looking at it. The first things you see are profile photo, username, profile heading and any status.

Get those right and things are easier. A classy body shot for a profile works well. A username that isn't tacky or mundane goes a long way too. A profile heading that neatly sums up your profile.

After all that, a nice range of photos if you like. Clothed, partially clothed and nude all have their place. Try and make them arty, not like a prison mugshot.

Bio wise, keep it concise with enough filling to put across some of your character. It doesn't need to be a dating profile - just enough to say what you're looking for, what experiences you've had and what you have to offer. Some humour can help all this along too. Don't say 'looking for like minded people' if you've not said what kind of mind you have

Donts are pretty much the opposite. If you make your profile all about you cock then people will think you're a cock. If your bio is basically 'up for anything' then that doesn't let people imagine how you'll fit into their scenarios. If your username is something like FlangeHammer2000 then you'll actually be able to hear the sound of fannies slamming shut all across the land.

Of course, even with the perfectly honed profile, you'll still likely to be passed over more often than not