FabSwingers.com forum: fab the ultimate feel good remedy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i ve seen a few people on here (mainly girls but they are more active on the forum) talk about confidence, or mental illnesses/depression issues, yet they are happy to get up close and personal with virtual strangers, via revealling pics, flirting on the forums/via messages and/or via meets...i myself dabbled in that world (and decided to curb it down but that s a whole other thread) so i get the excitement that goes with this game...

i wonder if sex is not the answer to all the problems though, gives you escapism, fun, the good endorphins excercise gives you, makes you feel good about yourself...what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not use sex as a way of avoiding problems in my life because when the dust settles they are still there.I am the type of person who cannot have sex when there are things that need dealing with because i cannot get into it fully.

But i will agree after a good session i am on a high for quite a long time sometimes into the next day.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If you believe what you read, some may benefit more seeking a professional help rather than a swinging fix.

but that is only my opinion and in the grand scheme, not that important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I have often wondered the same thing. Sites such as this- and the many messages that women will get from men- can be a great confidence boost. Yet also a confidence killer.

For some it can be good... for others, not so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadn't had sex before fabs for 2years. Perhaps I needed to grow with confidence ESP with men so fabs seemed like a perfect solution, but no I don't think it a good idea to run away from depression into the arms of a new sexual partner as like said before also a confidence killer ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

a confidence killer? how so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When u get knock backs etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god i joined this site knowing exactly what i wanted from it. SEX, 100% adult fun.

Not wanting a relationship or a string of one offs, FAB has given me the way to enjoy my sexual desires without having to commit to any one person..

Has nothing to do with mental health or needing a void filled. Like i said, it's about pure adulterous lustful fun!!

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