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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
34 weeks ago

Jarrow

So I just watched the new Road House film and got me thinking the perception is bouncers get a lot of women falling at their feet, making it very obvious they’re after a bit of fun and something about the outfit gets a lot of women turned on. Also that a lot of guys in the industry are hyper sexual and brag to each other about conquests

Just wondering what your experience as a bouncer or security is, do you find it easy to pick up women while on the job? Might be different if you work in a nightclub compared with supermarket lol. Would be interesting to know how much fun there is in that kind of work with all the kinky stuff you hear about about guys who work in that kind of job having gangbangs with their work buddies and customers

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By *olace50Man
34 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

I worked the doors for a few years and to be honest you’re just tired of d*unk girls that smell of kebab leaning all over you it’s not like you can have a decent conversation, I did work on the security at a fashion show once now that was a different story had some fun with the girls there .

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
34 weeks ago

Jarrow


"I worked the doors for a few years and to be honest you’re just tired of d*unk girls that smell of kebab leaning all over you it’s not like you can have a decent conversation, I did work on the security at a fashion show once now that was a different story had some fun with the girls there . "

Surely you’ve had some good encounters working at clubs?

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By *olace50Man
34 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

Not really threw plenty of people out of the disabled toilet for shagging though

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
33 weeks ago

Jarrow


"Not really threw plenty of people out of the disabled toilet for shagging though "

HHaha

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Guests are not at their most attractive / seductive when you are sober, working, and on alert while they are hammered, smelly, and slurring their words!!

The original Roadhouse was a really good bad movie. The new one is shite in comparison. The CGI is awful and the fight choreography is dire at the end.

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By *iamond couple twoCouple
33 weeks ago

Wakefield

We are both SIA badged and docking pubs events and weddings. Allison gets a lot of offers from women and wonder if it’s the black suit, white blouse and tie that does it ?

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By *owestoft ManMan
33 weeks ago

Lowestoft

The Ex and I never tried bouncers lol but she did get a lot of fun with hotel staff when we stopped in Jamaica many moons ago

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By *liceandandyCouple
33 weeks ago

Brighton


"I worked the doors for a few years and to be honest you’re just tired of d*unk girls that smell of kebab leaning all over you it’s not like you can have a decent conversation, I did work on the security at a fashion show once now that was a different story had some fun with the girls there . "

Haha… that definitely sounds interesting.

We love fashion models ??

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
33 weeks ago

Jarrow


"Guests are not at their most attractive / seductive when you are sober, working, and on alert while they are hammered, smelly, and slurring their words!!

The original Roadhouse was a really good bad movie. The new one is shite in comparison. The CGI is awful and the fight choreography is dire at the end."

Yeah that’s a fair point

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By *ue and robCouple
33 weeks ago

ware

I use to do door work it was great fun then they made you have the SIA license

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By *ife NinjaMan
33 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"We are both SIA badged and docking pubs events and weddings. Allison gets a lot of offers from women and wonder if it’s the black suit, white blouse and tie that does it ?"

Nah. She's just bang tidy

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
33 weeks ago

Jarrow


"I use to do door work it was great fun then they made you have the SIA license "

Why has that affected things ?

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By *uffymayfairCouple
33 weeks ago

vera playa, Almeria

Used to be great back in the 80s when we wore dinner suits bow ties and could have a laugh, things were great in the old days but nowadays everything is far too serious. Ok so we may not have been professional chatting to the women but we had a good time and did the job we were paid to do. I did however work with a guy who was a total slut and would be heading in off with a different woman every night.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
33 weeks ago

manchester

Surely you’d loose your badge if you took a d*unk girl home whist sober? Huge consent issue!

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By *uffymayfairCouple
33 weeks ago

vera playa, Almeria


"Surely you’d loose your badge if you took a d*unk girl home whist sober? Huge consent issue!"

I certainly would never have taken a d*unk girl home, besides, I didn't wanna spend the next day cleaning vomit out of the car

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

The novelty was great when I first started on the doors back in the day, lots of opportunities over the weeks and months that followed, but the novelty most definitely wears off once you’ve been doing the job for a while..fighting, pissed punters, same old thing and just wanting to get through the night without a fight and go home in one piece to the solitude of your own place then..lol

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
33 weeks ago

Jarrow


"Used to be great back in the 80s when we wore dinner suits bow ties and could have a laugh, things were great in the old days but nowadays everything is far too serious. Ok so we may not have been professional chatting to the women but we had a good time and did the job we were paid to do. I did however work with a guy who was a total slut and would be heading in off with a different woman every night. "

That’s how some of them still are seem to get loads of offers haha

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I’ve been with a few bouncers after a night out in Leeds. As recently as last month.

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
32 weeks ago

Jarrow


"I’ve been with a few bouncers after a night out in Leeds. As recently as last month."
how was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"I’ve been with a few bouncers after a night out in Leeds. As recently as last month. how was it?"

Great. Always horny and a bit kinky - I noticed the guys have been with seem to get off on their own size and authority

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
32 weeks ago

Jarrow


"I’ve been with a few bouncers after a night out in Leeds. As recently as last month. how was it?

Great. Always horny and a bit kinky - I noticed the guys have been with seem to get off on their own size and authority "

Mmmm where can I find them? Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Used to do personal security after leaving the army and you got lots of attention but they were usually just obnoxiously d*unk loud and just trying to show off not a turn on at all

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By *ilver_foxxx69Man
32 weeks ago

Falkirk

I’ve worked pubs, clubs and events. Yeah you can get a lot of attention and not all of it welcomed. I’ve been propositioned and groped more times than I can count.

Had women that weren’t for taking no as an answer.

Doing the job came first but there’s always been the opportunity for fun.

A lot of women treat you like part of the night out.

I’ve had more than few nights of fun following a shift.

It also doesn’t hurt spending your nights surrounded by good looking women dressed up for a night out.

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By *obshortMan
32 weeks ago

Cork

Worked the door for 30 odd years. Yes if you want it, it's there for the taking. Meet up with a lady on here who I had first meet while working security. Nothing happened back then. But since we have reconnected. It's been unbelievable.

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By *rNightMan
32 weeks ago

Coventry

Security of a different kind but when me and my other half had a couples account on here we had a message off a guy who was overnight security on a building site. We arranged to meet with him and we all played in his little cabin. We tried to get him to take us further inside the site but he wouldn’t, we wanted to christen it lol

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
32 weeks ago

SW Scotland

First few shifts is fun and flirty then the novelty wears off once you’ve been dealing with d*unk, loud and often aggressive people for six hours I just wanted to get to bed

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
31 weeks ago

Jarrow


"First few shifts is fun and flirty then the novelty wears off once you’ve been dealing with d*unk, loud and often aggressive people for six hours I just wanted to get to bed "
fair enough x

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
26 weeks ago

Jarrow


"Worked the door for 30 odd years. Yes if you want it, it's there for the taking. Meet up with a lady on here who I had first meet while working security. Nothing happened back then. But since we have reconnected. It's been unbelievable. "

If it’s there on a plate take it lol ?

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
22 weeks ago

Jarrow

Would like to hear more perspectives

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
14 weeks ago

Jarrow

Any insight from people in that line of work ?

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By *ondonlad_88Man
14 weeks ago

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I work in private security as a contractor and its all planning and logistics... its not exciting at all and nobody has a clue I'm actually doing a job most of the time.

As for women... I wish!

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
14 weeks ago

Jarrow

Surprised thought in your line of work you’d get loads of offers

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By *ondonlad_88Man
14 weeks ago

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"Surprised thought in your line of work you’d get loads of offers "

I'm just another guy wearing a suit.. should just blend in.

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
13 weeks ago

Jarrow

Bump

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By *ro.blow OP   TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Jarrow

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Ive been a bouncer for 29 years I was easier back on the day when I was in my late teens to mid 20s. Now I'm almost 50 I tend to get chatted up by guys(no offence but not my jam) or women old enough to be my grand kids(again not my thing)

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By *orphia2003Woman
6 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

As a SIA licenced door supervisor, I never have any trouble picking up women or men. Usually off the floor when they are pissed though.

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