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By *ordlad OP   Man
28 weeks ago

wrexham

Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ...

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By *unlovin72Man
28 weeks ago

BARNSLEY

Because the ladies are outnumbered by men on here and have more choice.

But there is always someone out there for everyone just be yourself and polite

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By *RcoupleCouple
28 weeks ago

Manchester

Probably a fat cock unfortunately

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By *mber SkiesWoman
28 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

BBM - Big Beautiful Man

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By *im_1878Man
28 weeks ago

Formby

I haven’t found too many women on here say no because I am fat. It’s more a case of keeping them interested and offering something others can’t, due to men-women ratio on here

Last account did have one lady tell me to stop eating pies and go the gym. But such a comment says more about her.

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By *bxanfCouple
28 weeks ago

Freddy Fazbear's Pizzeria, Stourbridge

BHM, Big Handsome Man.

We love fat blokes personally, alot of folks we know do.

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By *riel13Woman
28 weeks ago

Northampton

It's probably not your size that is putting people off... I don't choose sexual partners by body size... It's not a massive deal to me

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

BBB - Big Burly Bear

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
28 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't see any dislike towards larger blokes on here.

Mrs

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By *aximus2589Man
28 weeks ago

st.helens

I can't even get a message back don't know where I'm going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Do you think it could be common perceptions such as penis length being shortened due to the excess weight and stamina issues in bedroom? Not sure how true this could be?

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By *mber SkiesWoman
28 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish


"Do you think it could be common perceptions such as penis length being shortened due to the excess weight and stamina issues in bedroom? Not sure how true this could be?"
oh hello I admired you from a far last time you were here (your lush)

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By *issmorganWoman
28 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Why are you thinking it's due to your size op?.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
28 weeks ago

Leeds


"BBB - Big Burly Bear "

Beer bellied brother ?

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"Do you think it could be common perceptions such as penis length being shortened due to the excess weight and stamina issues in bedroom? Not sure how true this could be? oh hello I admired you from a far last time you were here (your lush) "

Why thank you those boobs do you familiar

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By *mber SkiesWoman
28 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish


"Do you think it could be common perceptions such as penis length being shortened due to the excess weight and stamina issues in bedroom? Not sure how true this could be? oh hello I admired you from a far last time you were here (your lush)

Why thank you those boobs do you familiar "

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Hench+ ?

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By *ackformore100Man
28 weeks ago

Tin town


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ..."

We don't have a pussy

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By *hromosexualsCouple
28 weeks ago

Near Abercynon

I (the Mr and also a fatbloke) think it's probably a bigger deal to us than it is to potential partners.

Sure, some women will only be interested in gym fit guys and that's fine, but I think a lot of women don't have body shape as their top consideration.

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
28 weeks ago

Cheltenham

BBC (Big, Burly Chap)

Oh, that term has already been taken

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By *imisugarWoman
28 weeks ago

Rugby


"I haven’t found too many women on here say no because I am fat. It’s more a case of keeping them interested and offering something others can’t, due to men-women ratio on here

Last account did have one lady tell me to stop eating pies and go the gym. But such a comment says more about her. "

So true, that's a really unpleasant thing to write to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"I haven’t found too many women on here say no because I am fat. It’s more a case of keeping them interested and offering something others can’t, due to men-women ratio on here

Last account did have one lady tell me to stop eating pies and go the gym. But such a comment says more about her. "

I for one hope you carried in eating pie because let's be honest, what is life without pie

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"I haven’t found too many women on here say no because I am fat. It’s more a case of keeping them interested and offering something others can’t, due to men-women ratio on here

Last account did have one lady tell me to stop eating pies and go the gym. But such a comment says more about her.

"

What a nasty bit of work she was

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By *itegreensWoman
28 weeks ago

southampton

I don’t think it matters as much as people think

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By *r SproutMan
28 weeks ago

the middle somewhere

I don’t think that’s strictly true

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Ive never been judgemental of how ppl look or their body shape as I'm no adonis and due to medication i take ive put weight on . However i was scrolling through profiles last year and found a lady who was seeking the same as me i thought id message her she was bigger than me in body shape but that never put me off . However the message i received back was rather nasty and put me off i wont quote word for word but said she couldnt be with someone so fat . Pot and kettle sprung to mind

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By *im_1878Man
28 weeks ago

Formby


"I haven’t found too many women on here say no because I am fat. It’s more a case of keeping them interested and offering something others can’t, due to men-women ratio on here

Last account did have one lady tell me to stop eating pies and go the gym. But such a comment says more about her.

I for one hope you carried in eating pie because let's be honest, what is life without pie "

I have indeed. And since then have also discovered the Wigan kebab (if you haven’t, I suggest you find out)

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Some of us like a big guy, my ex was 27 stone

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By *andsomeunitMan
28 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'll be honest. I'm a big bloke (BHM). I don't think that were not admired, I just think that were not everyone's cup of tea. But I'd rather be someone's shot of gin, then everyone's cup of tea.

A big thing also, you've gotta be happy in yourself. If you portray that and confidence, you'll find you actually are desirable. That's how I did it.

Also the ration of men to woman on here is like 15/1, so it's going to be a bit of a struggle to get noticed.

But a message to all the bigger chaps and BHM's .... You are desired, there's nothing wrong with you, your presence brings joy to many individuals and just been you is more then enough.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
28 weeks ago

manchester


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ..."

Increased male abdominal girth can often lead to the penis becoming buried!

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By *atcherwankerMan
28 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ...

Increased male abdominal girth can often lead to the penis becoming buried!"

"Stealth penis". We chunkers are the de-badged golf GTI of Fabswingers.

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By *andsomeunitMan
28 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ...

Increased male abdominal girth can often lead to the penis becoming buried!

"Stealth penis". We chunkers are the de-badged golf GTI of Fabswingers."

Absolute quality... stealth penis

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ...

Increased male abdominal girth can often lead to the penis becoming buried!"

the extra padding gives the trust of the penis more force

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
28 weeks ago

manchester


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ...

Increased male abdominal girth can often lead to the penis becoming buried! the extra padding gives the trust of the penis more force "

Factually untrue!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ...

Increased male abdominal girth can often lead to the penis becoming buried! the extra padding gives the trust of the penis more force it was a joke some ppl need to lighten up

Factually untrue!"

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
28 weeks ago

manchester


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ...

Increased male abdominal girth can often lead to the penis becoming buried! the extra padding gives the trust of the penis more force it was a joke some ppl need to lighten up

Factually untrue!"

If you need to explain a joke, it wasn’t funny

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ...

Increased male abdominal girth can often lead to the penis becoming buried! the extra padding gives the trust of the penis more force it was a joke some ppl need to lighten up

Factually untrue!

If you need to explain a joke, it wasn’t funny "

says more about you than me

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By *hucky12Man
22 weeks ago

accrington

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By *ackformore100Man
22 weeks ago

Tin town


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ..."

Reminds me of that famous Peter crouch quote.

Single and frustrated

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By *arry WindsorMan
22 weeks ago

Heaton Park Manchester


"I haven’t found too many women on here say no because I am fat. It’s more a case of keeping them interested and offering something others can’t, due to men-women ratio on here

Last account did have one lady tell me to stop eating pies and go the gym. But such a comment says more about her.

I for one hope you carried in eating pie because let's be honest, what is life without pie

I have indeed. And since then have also discovered the Wigan kebab (if you haven’t, I suggest you find out) "

Pie in a barm!

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By *ullsfan77Man
22 weeks ago

Torquay

I think it is to do with the ratio of men to women on this and every other sites. Unfortunately, when you look like I do, you will always be at the back of a very lengthy queue.

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By *bxanfCouple
22 weeks ago

Freddy Fazbear's Pizzeria, Stourbridge


"I think it is to do with the ratio of men to women on this and every other sites. Unfortunately, when you look like I do, you will always be at the back of a very lengthy queue."

We actively look for bigger people but we find that big men don't want anything to do with a BBW.

So it goes both ways.

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By *ames250122Man
22 weeks ago

Worcester


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ..."

Undateable lol

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By *r John WickMan
22 weeks ago

The Continental

Interesting to see how it’s perceived that being a big man is holding them back.

I’ve been on and off fab for donkeys years, and even as the fat bloke that I know and accept that I am, I’ve yet to find myself bereft of opportunity to meet ladies or couples here.

Using your size as the sole excuse for lack of ‘success’ seems a cop out to me. It’s only one facet of you as a person.

You’ll be pleasantly surprised at what a change of outlook can achieve.

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By *ullsfan77Man
22 weeks ago

Torquay

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By *ife NinjaMan
22 weeks ago

Dunfermline

It's reserved energy. Still get lucky every now and again

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Herts


"Interesting to see how it’s perceived that being a big man is holding them back.

I’ve been on and off fab for donkeys years, and even as the fat bloke that I know and accept that I am, I’ve yet to find myself bereft of opportunity to meet ladies or couples here.

Using your size as the sole excuse for lack of ‘success’ seems a cop out to me. It’s only one facet of you as a person.

You’ll be pleasantly surprised at what a change of outlook can achieve. "

Ain’t skinny ain’t struggling on here

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By *ullsfan77Man
22 weeks ago

Torquay


"I think it is to do with the ratio of men to women on this and every other sites. Unfortunately, when you look like I do, you will always be at the back of a very lengthy queue.

We actively look for bigger people but we find that big men don't want anything to do with a BBW.

So it goes both ways."

I wish there were more open minded and genuine people on this site like yourselves.

I prefer curvy/BBW but the real clincher for me is a happy and charismatic personality and a great smile!

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By *hucky12Man
21 weeks ago

accrington

Bbm

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By *oober698Man
21 weeks ago

Lincoln

Love this.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
21 weeks ago

Always on the move

BHM I was told once.

Big Handsome Man.

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By *bxanfCouple
21 weeks ago

Freddy Fazbear's Pizzeria, Stourbridge


"BHM I was told once.

Big Handsome Man."

Yeah BHM is the dude version of BBW.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
21 weeks ago

West Midlands


"Why is it us fat blokes get a rough deal..what's male version of a BBW lol ..."

I used to be a fat bloke until I turned into a fat girl, I get a lot more attention than I used to do!

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