FabSwingers.com forum: Women of fab. Do you cum during a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

I heard about the orgasm gap between men and women. Wondering it’s true or not

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
47 weeks ago

Leeds

With a meet probably not unless the Mr does it.

Doesn't mean I enjoy the sex any less though.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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47 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not so far.

I need to know someone really well and be very relaxed. That's unlikely to happen with casual partners

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"With a meet probably not unless the Mr does it.

Doesn't mean I enjoy the sex any less though.

Mrs "

That’s fair and I get it. Not easy with someone new

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"Not so far.

I need to know someone really well and be very relaxed. That's unlikely to happen with casual partners "

I’m sorry to hear that.

That makes sense but it’s a shame though. Have you ever had any meets where the guy was nervous and doesn’t finish?

Also I wanna say thank you. You replied to my other forum question and your answers are always the best

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By *icecouple561Couple
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47 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Not so far.

I need to know someone really well and be very relaxed. That's unlikely to happen with casual partners

I’m sorry to hear that.

That makes sense but it’s a shame though. Have you ever had any meets where the guy was nervous and doesn’t finish?

Also I wanna say thank you. You replied to my other forum question and your answers are always the best

Don't be sorry, I'm not

Yes we've met guys who've been nervous and struggled in various ways either can't get an erection or struggle to achieve an orgasm. We honestly don't mind, it's about the whole experience for us, the erotic encounter and if we all have fun and go home happy it doesn't matter to either of us how that's achieved (legally and consensually of course).

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By *enatton2Couple
47 weeks ago

West Midlands

90% of the times I have. I think the other 10% was when I didn’t really feel a physical connection with them. They were polite, looked nice but just didn’t get my juices flowing, so to speak.

I still enjoyed the meet, just didn’t cum

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
47 weeks ago

Stoke

We both rarely cum during meets, it's about having fun.

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By *lirtwithmeWoman
47 weeks ago

nottingham

Very rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Very rarely "

Why do you think that is ?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
47 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Oh god, this thread is depressing

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Oh god, this thread is depressing

lol I do t get how you can’t ?

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By *arley QuimWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere

Every time. If they can't get me there, I'll do it myself

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"With a meet probably not unless the Mr does it.

Doesn't mean I enjoy the sex any less though.

Mrs "

This

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By *ueens of the SceneWoman
47 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"I heard about the orgasm gap between men and women. Wondering it’s true or not "

It’s absolutely evidenced as true

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By *emonochromeMan
47 weeks ago

Peterborough

I literally would die of embarrassment if they didn’t and be hugely dissatisfied disappointed and other adjectives for me it’s all about making someone cum

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By *exyScientistsCouple
47 weeks ago

Castlebar

So good to see its not just me...thought I was the only person! 25% success rate at the moment but its early days, and I'm very hopeful. Also thoroughly enjoyed the sex anyway...

It's about enjoying the person for me...

Mrs

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By *ntrigued888Woman
47 weeks ago

Beds

I rarely cum with penetration, oral not a problem.

BUT, one of my fwb , never an issue.

I think, actually I know , it's because he's so fucking hot.

I get wet just thinking about it

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By *assyBangBangWoman
47 weeks ago

St Helens

Out of the meets I’ve had, in a club or otherwise, I’ve orgasmed with precisely 3 of those, and with another I actually squirted for the first time but I didn’t orgasm. The rest unfortunately not. I’ve still enjoyed all but one of the meets I’ve had, but I’ve found personally that sometimes the guy hasn’t put the effort in to really help. Penetration alone doesn’t bring me to climax (oh how I wish it did!)…I think I need to pick future meets a little more carefully

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Worcester

Always.

But the orgasm gap is very much a thing that exists.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Worcester

"I literally would die of embarrassment if they didn’t and be hugely dissatisfied disappointed and other adjectives for me it’s all about making someone cum "

It’s a huge turn off when guys have this kind of attitude.

It’s not a competition you can win.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I always give oral before sex to make sure the woman cums befor sex.

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I literally would die of embarrassment if they didn’t and be hugely dissatisfied disappointed and other adjectives for me it’s all about making someone cum "

That would really put me off.

I dry up when the guys main focus is to try to make me cum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"I literally would die of embarrassment if they didn’t and be hugely dissatisfied disappointed and other adjectives for me it’s all about making someone cum

That would really put me off.

I dry up when the guys main focus is to try to make me cum."

That’s why some women fake it. You can’t force it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"Always.

But the orgasm gap is very much a thing that exists."

It’s shame tbh.

Men just think that dick size is everything but I read that barely any women cum from that alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"We both rarely cum during meets, it's about having fun. "

Interesting how you both rarely don’t

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By *omKsubSMan
47 weeks ago

Newton

My meets always orgasm... some more than others, others a LOT more.

But then there is a lot of build up and pre meet tasks involved so it's not really a 'standard' meet.

The orgasm gap does exist, but this one is heavily skewed to the ladies benefit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"Not so far.

I need to know someone really well and be very relaxed. That's unlikely to happen with casual partners

I’m sorry to hear that.

That makes sense but it’s a shame though. Have you ever had any meets where the guy was nervous and doesn’t finish?

Also I wanna say thank you. You replied to my other forum question and your answers are always the best

Don't be sorry, I'm not

I’m glad you have such a positive outlook. There’s such a pressure to perform and orgasm but it’s not always the case. That’s very true. You guys are really awesome

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By *ricksydemonMan
47 weeks ago

llandudno

I'm here waiting for the generic belter that comes on and says I can make any woman Cum / Squirt / gush (delete as applicable)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"My meets always orgasm... some more than others, others a LOT more.

But then there is a lot of build up and pre meet tasks involved so it's not really a 'standard' meet.

The orgasm gap does exist, but this one is heavily skewed to the ladies benefit."

Like what kind of thing pre meet tasks?

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I'm here waiting for the generic belter that comes on and says I can make any woman Cum / Squirt / gush (delete as applicable)"

Generic belter

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By *iseekingbiCouple
47 weeks ago

N ireland and West Midlands

"Always.

But the orgasm gap is very much a thing that exists."

Is the orgasm gap near Watford Gap?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Big talkers usually disappoint

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By *ricksydemonMan
47 weeks ago

llandudno

"I'm here waiting for the generic belter that comes on and says I can make any woman Cum / Squirt / gush (delete as applicable)

Generic belter

I'm sure as a couple / woman you've come across them. The types who start with fancy a shag or similar. And a willy pic

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I'm here waiting for the generic belter that comes on and says I can make any woman Cum / Squirt / gush (delete as applicable)

Generic belter

I'm sure as a couple / woman you've come across them. The types who start with fancy a shag or similar. And a willy pic "

You are spot on, there are plenty of them and they are guaranteed to disappoint

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
47 weeks ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I don't always cum at a meet. Bit always enjoy my meets.

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By *CLM87Woman
47 weeks ago

Derbyshire

I don't think I've ever had a meet where I haven't cum... guess I've been lucky

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By *omKsubSMan
47 weeks ago

Newton

"My meets always orgasm... some more than others, others a LOT more.

But then there is a lot of build up and pre meet tasks involved so it's not really a 'standard' meet.

The orgasm gap does exist, but this one is heavily skewed to the ladies benefit.

Like what kind of thing pre meet tasks? "

I am a full control Dom. So there will be a list of pre agreed tasks that could include dressing a particular way, contact tasks, edging or play... it depends a lot on the talk we have and what gets her in the right frame of mind.

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
47 weeks ago

Coalville

Most times yes.

They sort it orally before penetration.

But I cum fairly easily on top from penetration alone. That’s my go to.

Only a handful got me there through them being in control of pace during penetration. But a Clit rub normally sorts it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"I don't always cum at a meet. Bit always enjoy my meets."

I did mention guys too in a reply. That’s my worry not finishing but that’s okay. Not your fault. Nerves and new people. Not easy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"I don't think I've ever had a meet where I haven't cum... guess I've been lucky"

Wow really? I guess you are really lucky compared to the replies I’ve gotten here. Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"Most times yes.

They sort it orally before penetration.

But I cum fairly easily on top from penetration alone. That’s my go to.

Only a handful got me there through them being in control of pace during penetration. But a Clit rub normally sorts it!

That’s good to hear. I heard it’s rare for women to cum from penetration alone. You’re one for the lucky few who can

At least you know what works for you.

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By *CLM87Woman
47 weeks ago

Derbyshire

"I don't think I've ever had a meet where I haven't cum... guess I've been lucky

Wow really? I guess you are really lucky compared to the replies I’ve gotten here. Congratulations "

Yep... definitely lucky

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
47 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

some of the fabbers we have met have brought me to orgasm, sometimes, yes.

not all by penetrative sex, maybe with fingers, tongue or toys... but it has happened, for sure.

If a meet doesn't result in me cumming, it's not to say it's been a bad meet. We don't measure pleasure that way, theres more to a meet than what we get out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

She has. Not all from penetration either.

One time some expert impact play made her squirt.

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
47 weeks ago

Coalville

"Most times yes.

They sort it orally before penetration.

But I cum fairly easily on top from penetration alone. That’s my go to.

Only a handful got me there through them being in control of pace during penetration. But a Clit rub normally sorts it!

That’s good to hear. I heard it’s rare for women to cum from penetration alone. You’re one for the lucky few who can

At least you know what works for you. "

The first time it happened I was pretty mind blown.

It’s normally when foreplay has me so wound up everywhere is more than ready x

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By *ewhere2022xCouple
47 weeks ago

bromley

Maybe just maybe but defo in the reclaim sex after lots

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By *iss DevilWoman
47 weeks ago

Bedford

I am lucky, I can cum quite easily and usually get 10+ orgasms on a meet. I am currently only meeting people who know me well and know how to press my buttons though, not interested in meeting anyone new unless in a club, by chance.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
47 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

I don’t always cum during a meet. Sometimes that’s by choice. If I’m getting close but I’m enjoying what I’m doing at the time I’ll change the pace so I can keep going, unfortunately though sometimes when I do that it kind of stops me getting there again.

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By *NMMaleMan
47 weeks ago

Bewdley

I love seeing and helping others cum if I cum too it’s a bonus.

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I love seeing and helping others cum if I cum too it’s a bonus."

You’re a modern day hero

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
47 weeks ago

wonderland.

"With a meet probably not unless the Mr does it.

Doesn't mean I enjoy the sex any less though.

Mrs "
probably the same for me but not always. Had a meet with a few .. one a lovely couple and omg.. yes lots.

However I've found playing with Mr watching me or watching Mr make another lady cum.... oh yes..that makes me

Cali

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
47 weeks ago

Barnsley

Mrs doesn’t orgasm on meets or with others in clubs. It’s a deliberate choice for her.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
47 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Mrs doesn’t orgasm on meets or with others in clubs. It’s a deliberate choice for her. "

I don't choose not to. Its just for me the situation arising that I can do so is very unlikely. However I certainly wouldn't stop myself if it were going to happen. But we all like different things

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By *oolhandlukeMan
47 weeks ago

Leics/Northants

I get this, and it's not the focus for some, but I bet the guys you meet definitely cum! You're hot!

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
47 weeks ago

Bristol

Mrs is quite difficult to send over the edge, even for me sometimes.

Rarely from penetration, and usually with oral and toys, and even then it sometimes just cannot happen. She enjoys meets anyway, and gets pleasure from the play.

Often, if we are meeting we have to politely let people know it might not happen, or I will need to take over in the end and put her in the best position/use a specific technique to try and do it.

I know it frustrates her sometimes, but if she's struggling and starting to cramp up from tensing etc the last thing we want is someone persisting because of their ego...

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
47 weeks ago

near you...

I cum quite easily and we always bring toys so yes. Whether it's a nice orgasm or an earth shattering one is something else...

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
47 weeks ago

Gloucester

It’s very rare either of us cum during a meet unless it’s with each other. Still really enjoy having lots of fun with others though.

Kink (mrs)

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
47 weeks ago

Fareham

No one has never not cum with me. Literally a walking orgasmatron.

Sits back and watches his inbox fill up

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
47 weeks ago

Fareham

"I love seeing and helping others cum if I cum too it’s a bonus.

You’re a modern day hero

Not all heros where capes...hopefully condoms though

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
47 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Honestly, no...I regret to say that I have faked it in the past with meets but I think I just can't relax enough and they don't quite know which buttons to push with me.

I have promised myself I am going to stop faking it and just be honest. It doesn't mean I enjoy the sex any less but Hubby is the only one who can actually make me cum.

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By *sWyldWoman
47 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Its never the main focus for me. I can enjoy sex without an orgasm, and I can also enjoy meeting without it leading to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

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By *rispyDuckMan
47 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

If they don’t cum I give them a refund or cupcake hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I rarely cum with penetration, oral not a problem.

BUT, one of my fwb , never an issue.

I think, actually I know , it's because he's so fucking hot.

I get wet just thinking about it

same for me thought I was alone although not many men seem interested in playing this way

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