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Dilemma. Who, how, why

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By *andb13 OP   Couple
46 weeks ago

Bradford

So we are a little different and Mrs doesn't play very often.

But we have tried and tried to find a couple or woman who wants to meet just my man.

It seems this is nearly impossible.

But why?

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By *uncouple153Couple
46 weeks ago

Abergavenny

It maybe as there are so many single guys with a couples profile and the female doesn't actually exist..

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

In my personal experience I’ve found a lot of couples profiles where the man has sneakily been messaging to meet separately so I think a lot of people discount these meets to avoid risk

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By *andb13 OP   Couple
46 weeks ago

Bradford


"It maybe as there are so many single guys with a couples profile and the female doesn't actually exist.. "

Could well be. Once again the idiots that ruin it for the genuine people.

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and my other half meets alone, with my blessing.

He has his own profile, as do I and we cross reference each profile on our couple account.

Maybe you could look at doing that?.

I also speak to anyone who wants to meet my partner to confirm it if they want to.

Either from my own profile or we set up a group chat so everyones involved.

Sadly some men lie and say they have permission, when they don't or as said, some couples are just a man posing as a couple.

so I can understand why people become wary of couples asking for people to just meet the male.

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By *oxy jWoman
46 weeks ago

somerset

ive always found alot of male halfs of couples to be problematic in many ways mainly entailment wise so for that reason i wont meet male halfs of couples and is a major part of why ive filtered out couples on fab ...

the amount of male halfs of swinging couples who dont want there other halfs knowing is quite shocking ...

its rge same in clubs the wirse guy are not the single guy its the male halfs not all but it always seems like them for drama ...

a guy who plays on hios own even if part of a swinging couple by most will be viewed nothing more than just another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Reading your verifications would set alarm bells ringing for me. The last veri where you both met was 4 years ago. Nothing between that one and one from this year saying only you met. This would make me think that you used to be a couple but aren't any longer, and the male half is still posing as a couple.

Others may see this totally different of course, but there a many, many single guys out there without having to bother with male halves of couples.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
46 weeks ago

Sheffield

Basically a single male account then.

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By *andb13 OP   Couple
46 weeks ago

Bradford


"Reading your verifications would set alarm bells ringing for me. The last veri where you both met was 4 years ago. Nothing between that one and one from this year saying only you met. This would make me think that you used to be a couple but aren't any longer, and the male half is still posing as a couple.

Others may see this totally different of course, but there a many, many single guys out there without having to bother with male halves of couples."

The reason he meets, or wants to meet people separately as I don't now get the time and therefore no verifications.

It seems highly unfair that because of a break he gets penalised

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
46 weeks ago

Liverpool


"So we are a little different and Mrs doesn't play very often.

But we have tried and tried to find a couple or woman who wants to meet just my man.

It seems this is nearly impossible.

But why?"

We’d be very interested in that too but have so far been unsuccessful

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"So we are a little different and Mrs doesn't play very often.

But we have tried and tried to find a couple or woman who wants to meet just my man.

It seems this is nearly impossible.

But why?

We’d be very interested in that too but have so far been unsuccessful "

Maybe add some pics of the mr to your profile,as a single woman I've had this request and often I can't see anything of the man on the couples profile, so i'd delete.

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
46 weeks ago

Liverpool


"So we are a little different and Mrs doesn't play very often.

But we have tried and tried to find a couple or woman who wants to meet just my man.

It seems this is nearly impossible.

But why?

We’d be very interested in that too but have so far been unsuccessful

Maybe add some pics of the mr to your profile,as a single woman I've had this request and often I can't see anything of the man on the couples profile, so i'd delete. "

We will definitely do that

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"So we are a little different and Mrs doesn't play very often.

But we have tried and tried to find a couple or woman who wants to meet just my man.

It seems this is nearly impossible.

But why?

We’d be very interested in that too but have so far been unsuccessful

Maybe add some pics of the mr to your profile,as a single woman I've had this request and often I can't see anything of the man on the couples profile, so i'd delete.

We will definitely do that "

Good luck

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds

Almost all your pics are of the person who isn't meeting so that isn't going to help, if it's just the Mr make it clear in the profile & pics or set up a single man's profile.

There's too many single men using couples profiles to get meets that many won't believe it.

Mrs

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
46 weeks ago

Liverpool


"So we are a little different and Mrs doesn't play very often.

But we have tried and tried to find a couple or woman who wants to meet just my man.

It seems this is nearly impossible.

But why?

We’d be very interested in that too but have so far been unsuccessful

Maybe add some pics of the mr to your profile,as a single woman I've had this request and often I can't see anything of the man on the couples profile, so i'd delete.

We will definitely do that

Good luck "

Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

East Sussex

Why not start a single man's profile? Trying to meet people alone from a couple's profile that's pretty heavy on pictures of the woman seems faintly disingenuous.

Also asking for yourself goes a long way.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
46 weeks ago

Bristol

We are by default very suspicious of single profiles offering us couples meets, or couples profiles with singles wanting to meet etc.

Rightly or wrongly, it raises a red flag for us. Unless we had met them before or one of our friends could vouch for them. But even then we'd prefer to stick to having a relationship with the couple than the single.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
46 weeks ago

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Carry on looking for couples but let them know your partner will just be there to watch, Maybe after the first time meeting the couple will be willing to meet the Male on his own

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
46 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Carry on looking for couples but let them know your partner will just be there to watch, Maybe after the first time meeting the couple will be willing to meet the Male on his own "

Great idea

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
46 weeks ago

Worcester


"So we are a little different and Mrs doesn't play very often.

But we have tried and tried to find a couple or woman who wants to meet just my man.

It seems this is nearly impossible.

But why?"

I won’t meet single people on a couples profile.

If they don’t trust each other enough to have singles profile, then I’m not willing to enter their dynamic.

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