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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It shocks me amounts of couples wanting you to go bareback on the wife's it's not for me at all my health is more important.

But many are even attending bareback gangbangs it's madness the sex lottery is a dangerous game

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"It shocks me amounts of couples wanting you to go bareback on the wife's it's not for me at all my health is more important.

But many are even attending bareback gangbangs it's madness the sex lottery is a dangerous game "
Whilst i agree with you, for some its a risk as adults they are willing to take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they believe that STIs are easily treated and the big one, AIDS, is going to miss them.

USA studies show that 6% to 10% of the female population under 30 have Chlamydia. Above that it drops to 2% to 3%. So statistically I guess they don't think they are going to catch it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they believe that STIs are easily treated and the big one, AIDS, is going to miss them.

USA studies show that 6% to 10% of the female population under 30 have Chlamydia. Above that it drops to 2% to 3%. So statistically I guess they don't think they are going to catch it. "

No I think it comes down to choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No I think it comes down to choice. "

Exactly. Don't judge. Why even bother commenting on it? So they like bareback. At least they are honest and therefore the people who choose to play with them can make an informed decision and a calculated risk.

Much better than someone who says "Safe sex always" and then makes an "exception" just for you because they don't normally do it bare, when actually they make the same "exception" for everyone because they are so scared ot saying they enjoy bareback for fear of judgement.

I like bareback sex. A lot. If I use condoms, I have to remove body jewellery first. I would rather have good foreplay without sex than sex with a condom if I am completely honest. But I wouldn't judge anyone else for their choice.

I am careful with who I play with, don't play bare with everyone, and take responsibility for my health with regular checks (which, to date, have always come back clean aide from once when I had a none specific urinary infection which may, or may not, have been sexually transmitted but simply meant I had to drink lots of water and it cleared very quickly) and establish a basic level of trust with those I choose to play without rubber with. The sans condom part is actually quite a big part of the fantasy for some, especially cuckold and hotwife couples and some greedy girls (and actually, some of the guys who play with greedy girls).

Judging folk and starting threads about how "shocking" it is only make people who play the way THEY WANT to play feel alienated and cast aside. Some people only want black cock, I don't see any threads popping up about how shocking that choice is. Some only want BBW's - no skinny people moaning about how outrageous that is. Some people like S&M, pain, blood play, water sports... Where are all the people moaning about that one and the associated risks? Nowhere. So do yourself a favour and leave folk alone for their personal choice, apply your own filters and just get on with it and stop alienating folk for their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to put this into a different context. I am into Motorsport. I compete. I compete in a 50 year old car with no roll cage, for those who know a little about this sort of stuff I use a forced induction draw-through carb setup with no intercooler, totally standard suspension and brakes. It's risky. FUCKING risky and FUCKING dangerous. One day the whole thing could well go bang in a very big way. The people that watch know the risks. The people that compete know the risks. They are far higher than bareback sex and the consequences far worse. I do it because I love it. I love the adrenaline, the excitement, the competitive aspect, I love it all. I never get anyone lecturing me, nor banging onto the world in general, about it. Those that aren't into it don't bother commenting. They just go and do something else, like visiting an owl sanctuary or doing some knitting. I don't bash them for what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People engage in risky behaviours all the time... It is their informed choice. Smokers know they risk cancer, fatties know they risk diabetes and heart disease. It is the same with unprotected sex, I would never do any of the above risky activities but that is MY choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't engage in bareback and would steer clear of anyone who had it on their profile but that's my preference and my choice

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


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Judging folk and starting threads about how "shocking" it is only make people who play the way THEY WANT to play feel alienated and cast aside. Some people only want black cock, I don't see any threads popping up about how shocking that choice is. Some only want BBW's - no skinny people moaning about how outrageous that is. Some people like S&M, pain, blood play, water sports... Where are all the people moaning about that one and the associated risks? Nowhere. So do yourself a favour and leave folk alone for their personal choice, apply your own filters and just get on with it and stop alienating folk for their preferences.

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hmmm, there have been many many threads re BBC, BBW , watersports, S&M etc etc and those issues have been debated and argued over and over again.

EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion, even the OP.

Its interesting to read the other side of it and how other people feel, but I dont think its fair to suggest people should not voice their individual opinions.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Iv noticed on a few profiles, older couples, he had vasectomy and she sterilized......They want BB....

Are these people really THAT ignorant????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Judging folk and starting threads about how "shocking" it is only make people who play the way THEY WANT to play feel alienated and cast aside. Some people only want black cock, I don't see any threads popping up about how shocking that choice is. Some only want BBW's - no skinny people moaning about how outrageous that is. Some people like S&M, pain, blood play, water sports... Where are all the people moaning about that one and the associated risks? Nowhere. So do yourself a favour and leave folk alone for their personal choice, apply your own filters and just get on with it and stop alienating folk for their preferences.

hmmm, there have been many many threads re BBC, BBW , watersports, S&M etc etc and those issues have been debated and argued over and over again.

EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion, even the OP.

Its interesting to read the other side of it and how other people feel, but I dont think its fair to suggest people should not voice their individual opinions.

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Yes but my point was no one seems to judge for those choices... But you are of course right, voice your oppinions, but to start a thread bashing those that engage in it, that's not voicing an oppinion that's just being judgemental. In my "oppinion" lol!

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