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Do you realey mind??

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By *oofy OP   Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

How many times have you heard the lady of a couple say "I dont mind"!!

Do you like your tits sucked?

"I dont mind"

Do you like open mouth kissing?

"I dont mind"

Do you enjoy swinging?

"I dont mind"!

And so on!, so you get the impression she is only doing it for her other half, she is not realey enjoying it. I would much rather her say, "i dont like that", or "Its the only time he takes me out", so she goes along with his idea's. Is this because she doesnt want to upset her hubby, or she just does as she is told, or knows that when they get home he will give her hell, in one way or another!!!

I look forward to others point of view, especialy the ladies view!

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By *itboyslim2Man
over a year ago

stevenage

Really ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"How many times have you heard the lady of a couple say "I dont mind"!!

Do you like your tits sucked?

"I dont mind"

Do you like open mouth kissing?

"I dont mind"

Do you enjoy swinging?

"I dont mind"!

And so on!, so you get the impression she is only doing it for her other half, she is not realey enjoying it. I would much rather her say, "i dont like that", or "Its the only time he takes me out", so she goes along with his idea's. Is this because she doesnt want to upset her hubby, or she just does as she is told, or knows that when they get home he will give her hell, in one way or another!!!

I look forward to others point of view, especialy the ladies view! "
Maybe its just that she doesnt actually mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times have you heard the lady of a couple say "I dont mind"!!

Do you like your tits sucked?

"I dont mind"

Do you like open mouth kissing?

"I dont mind"

Do you enjoy swinging?

"I dont mind"!

And so on!, so you get the impression she is only doing it for her other half, she is not realey enjoying it. I would much rather her say, "i dont like that", or "Its the only time he takes me out", so she goes along with his idea's. Is this because she doesnt want to upset her hubby, or she just does as she is told, or knows that when they get home he will give her hell, in one way or another!!!

I look forward to others point of view, especialy the ladies view! "

It was a phrase that really wound me up about my most recent ex gf ... Think it was just that though 'a turn of phrase' but it seems to convey a lack of interest in my mind.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"How many times have you heard the lady of a couple say "I dont mind"!!

Do you like your tits sucked?

"I dont mind"

Do you like open mouth kissing?

"I dont mind"

Do you enjoy swinging?

"I dont mind"!

And so on!, so you get the impression she is only doing it for her other half, she is not realey enjoying it. I would much rather her say, "i dont like that", or "Its the only time he takes me out", so she goes along with his idea's. Is this because she doesnt want to upset her hubby, or she just does as she is told, or knows that when they get home he will give her hell, in one way or another!!!

I look forward to others point of view, especialy the ladies view! Maybe its just that she doesnt actually mind? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe shes just fed up of being asked the same questions over and over, i can imagine you arent the first to ask. i know i get bored of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's just boring & lacks communication skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your post made me smile as i would think there's lots of couples not just woman men too ....... putting up with things for the other half .I don't meet alot as a couple to play its rear now as nine times out of ten .. not for me and so i will now say . I have been there at clubs just doing it for other half to have fun and it left me cold I hated how it made me feel. So it has to be right to play .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to ask because if you went straight for it and the lady decided it is not what she wanted the ramifications could be serious for the male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone says 'I don't mind' I never come to the conclusion that they are b eing forced into swinging.

Some women aren't comfortable with directing and b eing forthright with what they want. Some want a guy to touch them and use subtlety rather than having a running commentary, a man who is in tune with the woman he's playing with should be able to tell with how her body is responding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says 'I don't mind' I never come to the conclusion that they are b eing forced into swinging.

Some women aren't comfortable with directing and b eing forthright with what they want. Some want a guy to touch them and use subtlety rather than having a running commentary, a man who is in tune with the woman he's playing with should be able to tell with how her body is responding

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Maybe she hasn't got any preferences one way or the other?

Maybe she actually means "I don't mind' as in well usually it's shit but you may make it pleasurable?

Maybe she is 'submissive' (not in the strong sense) and wants to please the person offering the service?

Maybe you shouldn't get hung up on the phrase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ach..whatever

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By *oofy OP   Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

Interesting responces, wide variaty of opinions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

My wife doesn't like Bering asked ,if she likes a bloke she will let him know,she prefers them to make first move,but has been known to make first move,the only time I here do you,mind is if she wants to fuck them again,or if she is away with work she will say do you mind if I have some fun,,I never say no,as if I did she would stop me playing too

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Well if she don't mind, it don't matter!

Mind over matter!

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'd much rather be asked what was OK and what was not than someone just assuming things. Regardless of how many times I've been asked it before. Most of my preferences can be guaged from my profile and veri's so it takes out some of the guesswork work. lol

But all in all I'd still rather someone had the manners to ask if they weren't sure so... I don't mind being asked

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'd much rather be asked what was OK and what was not than someone just assuming things. Regardless of how many times I've been asked it before. Most of my preferences can be guaged from my profile and veri's so it takes out some of the guesswork work. lol

But all in all I'd still rather someone had the manners to ask if they weren't sure so... I don't mind being asked "

Oooooohhhh - nice profile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I don't mind!

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I'd much rather be asked what was OK and what was not than someone just assuming things. Regardless of how many times I've been asked it before. Most of my preferences can be guaged from my profile and veri's so it takes out some of the guesswork work. lol

But all in all I'd still rather someone had the manners to ask if they weren't sure so... I don't mind being asked

Oooooohhhh - nice profile.... "

ditto

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