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"23, that was after having my profile live for maybe a couple of hours? I’ve worked out message filters now. Probably more than some but less than most? An interesting opening message, and a profile with more than ‘fill this in later’ and an inkling of a sense of humour is a good start" Good answer. Profiles are important it’s an opportunity to lay out your stall and make it known what you’re all about. I’ve heard lot’s of guys use copy and pasted opening messages which isn’t popular. | |||
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"I currently have a grand total of 3 " Mate, you have 300% more than me haha | |||
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"6 marked read and then marked as unread pending response from both of us. Maybe 15 others all read and replied too. " From looking at your profile that seems very very low. I’d have expected 100’s | |||
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"28. They’re mostly messages I’ve read, then marked unread so I can remember to reply to them when I’m less busy this week." This seems to be a popular method of message management. | |||
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"Nine, including one unread." That must be a quiet night for you | |||
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"44..." Repping the single guys hitting the numbers! | |||
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"Nine, including one unread. That must be a quiet night for you" It's a pretty normal one! After turning 40 the decline in messages I received was very noticeable. To be honest, I prefer it now that it's quieter. | |||
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"72 still going thru them mainly guys " The ratio on this site is crazy. I’d love to know what the actual numbers of profiles are, men, women, couples, other. | |||
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"Did a bulk delete earlier of 270 something. Currently 19 unread. " Sounds like your inbox is Wyld! | |||
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"Zero.. Zero too " Very surprising | |||
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"44... Repping the single guys hitting the numbers! " Nope. Blocked single guys a long time ago. | |||
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"Nine, including one unread. That must be a quiet night for you It's a pretty normal one! After turning 40 the decline in messages I received was very noticeable. To be honest, I prefer it now that it's quieter." Surprising that it was that apparent. People must operate with strict age filters. They are missing out if you ask me. | |||
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"44... Repping the single guys hitting the numbers! Nope. Blocked single guys a long time ago." No, I meant you’re doing well for all us single guys! | |||
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"259 unread " Same like my scam inbox | |||
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"412 currently " Come on darling read a little bit | |||
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"I know some people are inundated with messages on here, ladies/couples especially. But let’s put some numbers to it, how many unread messages do you have in your inbox right now? And some tips for the rest of us, how to get that inbox rocking. " 18 … I’m trying so hard to tackle it | |||
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"329 right now but lots were automatically deleted....I never clear it tbh or get to read them all....one time I had over 1,500 unread " Img | |||
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"1" It’s was 2 momentarily and now it’s back to, 1 and another added to the blocked list. | |||
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"Zero. Had about 5 messages today all been read and replied too. We don't actually get inundated with messages. Normally a steady flow and that's it. " My Dr says a steady flow is just the ticket at my age. | |||
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"Anyone care to explain how an inbox can be rocking if all the messages are unread? It's a fab myth that all women and couples get hundreds of messages. I also have a couples profile and in 2 years we have had less than 40 messages in total. Proof of unread messages is used as a measuring stick in popularity contests but not really much use to anyone if they aren't all ongoing conversations. Anyone with hundreds of unread messages either wants them or needs them. Those with filters don't concern themselves with how full their little yellow box is. " "It's a fab myth that all women and couples get hundreds of messages." ^^^^^^^ I wouldn't say All women & couples get 100s of messages either....It can depend on the profiles & content so I agree with you there as you have proven when you say all ye got was less than 40 msgs in 2 years.... Omg is that all Seriously? Some women do get 100s though as I'm sure other users here do too of all sexes depending on the profile content. I set my filters too but for now they're off....The amount of msgs we receive obviously depends how much time we're online here & how often we post new pics or update status....I've toned down my profile now so I do get less than before ....But right now I have 428 unread.... | |||
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"I have 0 messages in my inbox" Inbox twins! My inbox is currently sitting at 0 messages Surely someone wants to speak, haha | |||
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"None. All messages read and considered, however briefly " Exactly the same position as us. J x | |||
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