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By *unguy_40. OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Barnoldswick

Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect

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By *naswingdressWoman
43 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's as safe as any other online messaging. There are good people, bad people, and psychopaths, but they're not right in front of you.

You'll get exactly nowhere without her being involved in the profile, though. As you have a single male profile, people will doubt if your wife exists or knows what you're up to.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Central

Are people anywhere safe to meet? We take due diligence and mitigate the risks. You'll realize that lots of people have group meets, so you'll need to work out how you can make them happen as well as limiting risks.

Clubs are one of the easiest, as there's security. Users are known too.

Supervising sex helps to control sex too, such as for behavior and condoms.

It's great to have social meets beforehand too. You check compatibility and reliability.

Biggest problem for gangbangs is that 80% don't turn up.

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By *naswingdressWoman
43 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Are people anywhere safe to meet? We take due diligence and mitigate the risks. You'll realize that lots of people have group meets, so you'll need to work out how you can make them happen as well as limiting risks.

Clubs are one of the easiest, as there's security. Users are known too.

Supervising sex helps to control sex too, such as for behavior and condoms.

It's great to have social meets beforehand too. You check compatibility and reliability.

Biggest problem for gangbangs is that 80% don't turn up. "

Yup. Invite ten if you want two.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
43 weeks ago

Worcester

Might meet a murderer.

But you might also get hit by a bus tomorrow.

You take your chances.

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By *ullyMan
43 weeks ago

Near Clacton

Best meet a few guys individually until you can get to trust them then arrange it that way.

No way would I recommend just arranging a few total strangers at once!

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By *amieLDN22Man
42 weeks ago

London

I've organised a few over the last year or so for couples and singles to varying success. I just use guys I've met at clubs and now consider friends.

From my experience biggest problem is getting people to show up, hence why I work with a small group of trusted guys now. Also having linked up with other groups I saw no safety issues whatsoever. The female and her partner were respected at all times. We even had single women and no problems.

Again, main issue is the no shows and cancellations. I suggest you focus on those well verified and been comfortable within group setting. Better yet, find an established group. Good luck.

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

No

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By *neeyedwillieMan
42 weeks ago

Darlington

No safer or worse than any other site I guess.

HOWEVER.....

I wouldn't do it. I'd use a decent club.

My reasons are:

1) Been invited 2 a couple of gangbangs through Fab (not my wife's thing..she's all about the women) and I was the only guy to show. Not trying to tar all single people with the same brush but as someone who has hosted social events and partys over the years, singles (both genders) tend to be the least likely to show. Never an issue at clubs.

2) On the right nights, you can invite whichever fellas catch your other half's eye. Maybe have some social time before hand and chat.

3) Most importantly, good clubs look after their members and the members play nicely/follow the rules. I know our local club is top.notch in this. Both the staff and the regular patrons (Club F if anyone is wondering).

It's your call but for anything that requires lots of people....clubs the way to go (at least if you're sociable).

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"No safer or worse than any other site I guess.

HOWEVER.....

I wouldn't do it. I'd use a decent club.

My reasons are:

1) Been invited 2 a couple of gangbangs through Fab (not my wife's thing..she's all about the women) and I was the only guy to show. Not trying to tar all single people with the same brush but as someone who has hosted social events and partys over the years, singles (both genders) tend to be the least likely to show. Never an issue at clubs.

2) On the right nights, you can invite whichever fellas catch your other half's eye. Maybe have some social time before hand and chat.

3) Most importantly, good clubs look after their members and the members play nicely/follow the rules. I know our local club is top.notch in this. Both the staff and the regular patrons (Club F if anyone is wondering).

It's your call but for anything that requires lots of people....clubs the way to go (at least if you're sociable).

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This is absolutely the way. I have heard of clubs helping with these things as well. Tokens were given out by the woman and a time arranged. Then at the arranged time a room was kept free and only people with tokens were allowed to go in.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Yes

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By *allySlinkyWoman
42 weeks ago

Leeds


"Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect "

How has your wife got on with her meets on here so far ?

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By *ellhungvweMan
42 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Always good to start the morning with a bit of sweeping generalisation OP.

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By *outhleedschap86Man
42 weeks ago

leeds

Iv organised a fair few now, last one i did, 3 guys showed up and about 20 showed interest. Its much easier in a club, most have big orgy playrooms now, so its easier for people to join in.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
42 weeks ago

manchester


"Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect "

Single male profile

Yawn

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By *ornycougaWoman
42 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

There are a number of profiles on here that regularly organise gangbangs with a large stable of stallions They are well verified, reliable and as they often know one another, the vibe is great too. That would be my first port of call tho you may need to join a queue!

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By *teve321Man
42 weeks ago

Waltham cross

Go to a club, and you won't have to worry about no shows....most clubs have regulars

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By *angbangcouple6969Man
42 weeks ago

Walsall

We have had several big gangbangs with guys from here and other sites. Very safe but if unsure, go to a swingers club and our the staff know that she is a greedy girl. Most can then allow in more single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Yes we have arranged a few. Going to one tomorrow funnily enough

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By *anted by NightMan
42 weeks ago

Shangri-La

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect "

Why the eff is it ALWAYS single M profiles that start with this BS?

"My wife (I really mean me) as a desire (mine again) to get ploughed by 200 cocks. Please message me and tell me what you'd like to do to her (so I can have a quick tug of my cashew sized willy).

Just watch a bongo movie mate! There's loads on t'internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Harsh

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By *lthomasMan
42 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

A couples profile & then post a meet if what you’re looking for.

That’s your starting point, and you can wiggle the contenders down from there, by looking at how long they’ve been on any verifications they have, and then messaging them and seeing if they can hold a conversation

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By *oxy jWoman
42 weeks ago

somerset

the problem with gangbang are unless you organise them yourself you end up allowing those you would normally not go for touch you and thats a total turn off .. go to club and tell me that you fancy all the guys ?? its rare i fancy one or two let along the whole club ..

ive had quite a few over the years and whiles they are a pain to organise its the only way ill let a group of guys near me ie knowing i at least fancy then i guess with knowing so many guys cause of how long on the scene getting guys is easy ish timimg is the biggest issue but once sorted its great ..

id never let a guy organise a gangbang for me i need trust and you dont get that with people you dont know..

safety well thats 100% down to you you discuss the rules you apply them and be firm about it you need your partner to be your eyes as some guys will take the piss ....

as with everything swinging consent is everything make sure they all know that no matter where or how you gang bang ..

im lucky hubs is always my eyes and stands for no shit so for some of use its easier just because of how long we have been on this scene ... get it right and you'll have a blast

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By *amesnplanesMan
42 weeks ago

Banbridge

The suggestion to go to a club is the very best suggestion.

Further, I'd suggest a Friday night at Chameleons... You'll have no problems realising the fantasy.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
42 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect

Why the eff is it ALWAYS single M profiles that start with this BS?

"My wife (I really mean me) as a desire (mine again) to get ploughed by 200 cocks. Please message me and tell me what you'd like to do to her (so I can have a quick tug of my cashew sized willy).

Just watch a bongo movie mate! There's loads on t'internet. "

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By *ee And MikeCouple
42 weeks ago

Cannock


"the problem with gangbang are unless you organise them yourself you end up allowing those you would normally not go for touch you and thats a total turn off .. go to club and tell me that you fancy all the guys ?? its rare i fancy one or two let along the whole club ..

ive had quite a few over the years and whiles they are a pain to organise its the only way ill let a group of guys near me ie knowing i at least fancy then i guess with knowing so many guys cause of how long on the scene getting guys is easy ish timimg is the biggest issue but once sorted its great ..

id never let a guy organise a gangbang for me i need trust and you dont get that with people you dont know..

safety well thats 100% down to you you discuss the rules you apply them and be firm about it you need your partner to be your eyes as some guys will take the piss ....

as with everything swinging consent is everything make sure they all know that no matter where or how you gang bang ..

im lucky hubs is always my eyes and stands for no shit so for some of use its easier just because of how long we have been on this scene ... get it right and you'll have a blast"

As a cuck who has organised a few multiple cock meets for my wife I’d say your observations and comments are ‘spot on’ !

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By *atentHeelsCouple
42 weeks ago

Salford

Go to a club!!! Safest and easiest way

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By *m3232Man
42 weeks ago

maidenhead

If you have 3/4 regular guys you already meet ask them as that’s a very good way to have a safe enjoyable time.

If not then a club will be best.

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By *andb13Couple
42 weeks ago

Bradford

Read verifications.. they are usually quite accurate.

Why do you have a single male profile if you are looking for meets for you and your wife?

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By *enleywoodsCouple
42 weeks ago

Stourbridge / Oxford

Another vote for using a club (gently!). No need to seek out guys, it's a safe environment, the guys have already turned up and do actually exist.

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