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Couple meet but one straight lady

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By *NV14INV OP   Couple
48 weeks ago

Inverness

Hi,

How does a couple meet really work out when 1 lady is dead straight but wants to involve both men? How do you go about not making either lady feeling left out if one’s getting attention from both men. It may be a simple answer or a common situation but we don’t know how it would work. Is it just part of the night that attention moves between both ladies separately and if not, how can the all four be together at the same time without the woman interacting?

Sorry if it’s a daft question.

C&V

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By *r and Mrs CACACouple
48 weeks ago

congleton


"Hi,

How does a couple meet really work out when 1 lady is dead straight but wants to involve both men? How do you go about not making either lady feeling left out if one’s getting attention from both men. It may be a simple answer or a common situation but we don’t know how it would work. Is it just part of the night that attention moves between both ladies separately and if not, how can the all four be together at the same time without the woman interacting?

Sorry if it’s a daft question.

C&V"

I mean I guess it depends on the lady in question she may or may not like watching over being totally involved. Also I’ve found people do more in heat of moment then go. Wow I did it. Not knowing they liked something before or being too scared. Short of outlining what you all want from meet I dunno what to say x

Charlotte x

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By *rpeggioCouple
48 weeks ago

Baughurst

Not a daft question. You answered yourself, yes. Attention can switch from the two men from one woman to the other, so one just waits and watches.

Also there's combinations: one woman is fucked by one man while sucking the other, who can be fingering and kissing the other woman. Then women swap.

Both couples on cow girl next to each other, so men can still reach across to fondle and use fingers on the other woman.

Is this the kind of ideas you were asking about or did I got your question wrong?

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By *iss DevilWoman
48 weeks ago

Bedford

I can see a few options:

1) each lady takes turn watching the other lady being pleasured by two guys. After agreed time, they swap.

2) the lady that is not being pleasured can stroke the guys bottoms, can wank them inside the either lady, guide them into the other lady. Or, if one of the guys want to and the lady is willing, she can peg the guy at the same time as he is pleasuring the other lady

3) the guys take turns fingering, licking or playing with boobs of one lady while fucking the other? Or the lady can sit on the face of one of the guys while he's fucking the other one?

I guess you could probably find more variations depending on what all want and what kind of kinks they are into. Discuss beforehand with the couple you're meeting and I'm sure you could find some common ground.

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By *vening SongCouple
48 weeks ago

diss

Didn't realise I was bi until a dinner party with friends she turned my head in more than a few ways lol ?? c xx

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By *NV14INV OP   Couple
48 weeks ago

Inverness

Thanks. Great answers so far and very informative for us both.

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By *issmorganWoman
48 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It would depend on what the other lady wants too and is into.

As suggested above you might find a woman who just wants to watch, but that's rare I think.

If you're wanting both men to play with you and have the attention, would a 3 sum maybe not be better?.

I guess the lady could be touching /sucking one of the men, but it may feel a bit one sided for her.

I'm straight and when we meet couples we just swap partners, so we all play.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex

We used to just swap partners. To be honest we stopped meeting couples if the woman was bi. It caused too many problems

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By *jr9876Man
48 weeks ago

Ipswich

Or the women can take it in turns to suggest something that both men will do to the other woman.

Blindfolded doggy style and play guess the cock.

Swap back and forth between cocks after each 'in-out' suck.

Plenty of opportunities for 2 on 1 fun for a few minutes before the next suggestion and the women swap over.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex

We tend to have more threesomes although we're open to straight couples.

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By *NV14INV OP   Couple
48 weeks ago

Inverness


"We tend to have more threesomes although we're open to straight couples."

It seems hard to find a single male though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex


"We tend to have more threesomes although we're open to straight couples.

It seems hard to find a single male though. "

We find it difficult to find couples. I guess it depends what you're looking for

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
48 weeks ago

Northampton

Agree rules and boundaries beforehand and don’t overcomplicate it.

If a 4way ended with someone being excluded the whole time / yeah this is a problem, but any other combination is fine if everyone agreed beforehand.

We’ve had every combination apart from MM - I’ll borrow your term of ‘I’m dead straight’!

We’ve been with a couple that only wanted to touch Mrs WW, we still had loads of fun as a 4 on the bed, me only with my partner and the other 3 together.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Straight couple swap. Just swap partners. We done this many times.

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
48 weeks ago

Liverpool

Mrs is straight and we’ve never found this to be an issue when meeting other couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"We used to just swap partners. To be honest we stopped meeting couples if the woman was bi. It caused too many problems"

do you find it harder to find meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"We tend to have more threesomes although we're open to straight couples.

It seems hard to find a single male though.

We find it difficult to find couples. I guess it depends what you're looking for "

were having the same problem

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
48 weeks ago

Liverpool


"We tend to have more threesomes although we're open to straight couples.

It seems hard to find a single male though. "

We get tonnes of offers from single guys but find it a lot more difficult to find couples

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By *d4funtimesMan
48 weeks ago

Cambridge


"Hi,

How does a couple meet really work out when 1 lady is dead straight but wants to involve both men? How do you go about not making either lady feeling left out if one’s getting attention from both men. It may be a simple answer or a common situation but we don’t know how it would work. Is it just part of the night that attention moves between both ladies separately and if not, how can the all four be together at the same time without the woman interacting?

Sorry if it’s a daft question.

C&V"

Up to you to define the limits and to talk about it beforehand.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Hi,

How does a couple meet really work out when 1 lady is dead straight but wants to involve both men? How do you go about not making either lady feeling left out if one’s getting attention from both men. It may be a simple answer or a common situation but we don’t know how it would work. Is it just part of the night that attention moves between both ladies separately and if not, how can the all four be together at the same time without the woman interacting?

Sorry if it’s a daft question.

C&V

Up to you to define the limits and to talk about it beforehand. "

That just about sums up the whole of swinging.

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