FabSwingers.com forum: ENM relationships

By *ecretSearcher OP Man
44 weeks ago

Reading

Do they work?

Are women interested in them?

Is it as hard as finding a unicorn?

So the story. I'm married, have been for best part of 2 decades and happily so. MrsB is Bi and we play together in clubs, but trying to find a 3rd outside of a club is hard. So we decided to try out meeting separately.

I know being a single male profile on here is hard enough, is adding the ENM part making it even harder.

And a question for the women, how can I make the situation obvious and convince you there is no cat fishing going on.

And finally, any profile advice will be gratefully received.

Cheers, MrB.

By *issmorganWoman
44 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I'm half a couple & we both have permission to meet separately.

We cross reference our single profiles on our joint one and vice versa.

If someone wants to meet my partner alone, they can contact me on my profile. Or in the past we've set up a joint chat so they can speak to me and confirm I'm happy with it all.

I don't know if that may help you, then they can see your joint profile or your wife's account upfront.

By *ottodot123Couple
44 weeks ago

Gillingham

I would link to your couples profile at the least. Helps with the authenticity.

By *ecretSearcher OP Man
44 weeks ago

Reading

Thanks both. I had linked the couples profile as a friend, but forgotten to show friends in the profile (facepalm)

I guess then it's just fab as normal and try and find IRL meets.