FabSwingers.com forum: Bi playful

By *sinbathwilt1 OP Couple
46 weeks ago

Bath

Interested to see what the reaction is to the term biplayful for the ladies / fems / couples on this site. We are a married couple and Mrs MS loves playing with the ladies but doesn’t consider herself to be ’bi’ in as much as she would never have a FF relationship.She has a lot of experience in this area. We ask as previously we were somewhat scorned for using the term with the suggestion that it was at Mr MS behest. Nothing could be further from the reality as Mrs MS does love to play in the mix of things but loves the attention from a male as well. Thoughts???

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You can be romantically or sexually bi, so I don't think being bisexual means you'd necessarily want a relationship with someone of the same sex.

To me, it means someone who enjoys sex with both genders.

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By *andPextraCouple
46 weeks ago

North West

I class myself as Bi as i enjoy sex with both males and females for different reasons. Most of my relationships have been with men.

In the end the “label” matters not, its only really of any use on here as a search term xx

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I class myself as Bi as i enjoy sex with both males and females for different reasons. Most of my relationships have been with men.

In the end the “label” matters not, its only really of any use on here as a search term xx"

I agree, as long as people don't hide their true sexuality or intentions.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds

I guess that would come under Hetro flexible if you had to label it.

On here there's only the bi and bicurious option, she's no longer curious & enjoys it so I guess it would be Bi.

As she's not looking for a relationship on here and just the sex I don't think the label would make much difference - just a woman that enjoys other women.

Mrs

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By *sinbathwilt1 OP Couple
46 weeks ago

Bath

Yes, but how do feel about the term Biplayful as opposed to bisexual? Is there a diffrence or are we reading too much into this?

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By *andC1000Couple
46 weeks ago

Ashford

Think it’s fairly clear where you’re coming from, and wouldn’t be put off at all if someone used it as a term. Don’t think labels really matter as long as you’re honest and comfortable in your own skin and with those around you.

J says I’m bi-selfish, I’m more than happy with other women playing with me and doing whatever they’d like but only really interested in kissing in return……x

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
46 weeks ago

Northampton

We had a talk about this a few weeks ago. In a world of labels the lifestyle seems obsessed with adding more.

Mrs WW loves playing with women as much as men. She has no interest in either solo meets or a relationship with another woman.

So we talked around ‘bi-curious’ and decided it definitely wasn’t that. Before the first and after the first few times, curious was probably correct; after that, curiosity has gone, she’s doing this!

So she’s classes herself as Bisexual as that seemed the most appropriate and to be open with other play partners. Of course there is consent, but Mrs WW is going to want to do some pretty rude things with the F

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Yes, but how do feel about the term Biplayful as opposed to bisexual? Is there a diffrence or are we reading too much into this?"

To me bi playful suggests, that someone might play with the same sex if they are in the mood, but it's not that an important part of play.

Bi sexual makes me think playing with both genders is more important and regular. If that makes sense.

I'm straight, so if I'm looking for couples to meet (on my joint profile) I try to read between the lines of what sort of play is important to the other couples.

Ie if I see someone say she's v bi or they specifically mention they're after ff play, I wouldn't approach them.

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By *sinbathwilt1 OP Couple
46 weeks ago

Bath

Wow! This is all great feedback. Maybe we need to say bisexual and explain this in more detail when we are messaging.

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By *dventuresofLandSCouple
46 weeks ago

Lincoln

It's definitely a term that we've used and have heard plenty of others use in the past xx

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By *aomilatteCouple
46 weeks ago

Midlands

The reality is a lot of Women on here who put bisexual are actually bi playful, so you're one of many.

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