FabSwingers.com forum: Ice breaker....

By *ick1111 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Near Spalding

Who struggles with sending the first and knowing what content to include, and to show that you are one of the genuine ones on here?

Looking for inspiration.......

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
44 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I think if you're genuinely into someone then that communication comes easier

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

I struggle to communicate via text full stop so 1st messages are probably very bland, saying that I just don't send them

Mrs

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
44 weeks ago

SW Scotland

We just include a few lines about what we’re looking for and what we like about their profile.

If the other profile has asked for face pics with first message we send them as well.

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By *ecretSearcherMan
44 weeks ago

Reading

"Who struggles with sending the first and knowing what content to include, and to show that you are one of the genuine ones on here?

Looking for inspiration.......

100% and being dyslexic and probably ASD and ADHD makes it even harder.

I don't think there is a correct answer as to what is an opening post, each person is different and so it's what they are looking for.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
44 weeks ago

Leicester

"I think if you're genuinely into someone then that communication comes easier

Been genuinely into you since first fell over your profile

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By *x SmithMan
44 weeks ago

East Lancs

I have a plan for an in-person ice breaker, gonna try it at Northwich Bi-day is Friday monthly swingers event.

Northwich Bi-day lasts 14 hours, from 11am Friday to 1am. I'm thinking of arriving early for a change, meet the daytime crowd. I suspect it'll have a different vibe, may be a bit more social than evening.

But alas, I'm still a bit of a wallflower.

So I decided the other day to register an internet domain-name similar to my Fab username https://mx-smith.uk/ and I set up a website to forward to my fab profile, via the Fab login page if you're not already logged in coz that's how Fab works. Next I thought to print out my domain-name on stickers with a QR code and a couple of pride flags or similar. I thought about business-card kinda thing, but stickers are more fun. Maybe 6cm diameter. I've got my design ready.

But, I'm looking for a sticker printing firm that's discreet. I don't want one that checks the artwork before printing since it literally will say on it "FAB: Mx_Smith" and "https://Mx-Smith.UK" and a QR code to the site. The best price, the best service, seems the best quality I've found also do checks. I've asked, out of privacy, could you process my order without??

They've not replied.

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By *dventuresofLandSCouple
44 weeks ago

Lincoln

What we would like in an initial message is something genuine and not a copy and paste. A little about you, a little about what you're looking for and some upto date clear face pics.

It doesn't have to be war and peace just a nice message and obviously attraction has to be there for all parties that's why we ask for face pics and we will return then

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