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By *ocostonerking OP   Man
48 weeks ago

london

I have a preference for larger women but I dont understand why it gets so much judgement

Any advice on how to deal with unsolicited opinions/hate? I don't want to be judged on dating the people I want to date!

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Love a curvy woman!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex

Where are you getting the unsolicited opinions and judgement?

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By *ocostonerking OP   Man
48 weeks ago

london

A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex


"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc"

That's not nice.

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By *orthernman71Man
48 weeks ago

N

Love a curvy woman

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
48 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

been a bbw most of my adult life, never had a problem

I would say if thin ladies are your thing, scroll on, no need for negativity

we all like who we like

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By *aizyWoman
48 weeks ago

west midlands


"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc

That's not nice. "

Its really not, if someone makes you happy it doesn't matter what others think.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
48 weeks ago

wonderland.


"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc"
get better friends.

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
48 weeks ago

out of town!


"been a bbw most of my adult life, never had a problem

I would say if thin ladies are your thing, scroll on, no need for negativity

we all like who we like

"

Great curves lizzy

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By *heekyDemandCouple
48 weeks ago

Leicester


"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc get better friends. "

Amen to that Cali, when are you sorting a night out for us lot?

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By *heekyDemandCouple
48 weeks ago

Leicester

BTW, fresh BBW here xxx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
48 weeks ago

Wirral.


"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc get better friends. "

This!

Also, figure out WHY it bothers you. Do you maybe feel a little bit ashamed, yourself? Because I couldn't give a toss what anyone said about a partner of mine - be they friend or stranger.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
48 weeks ago

wonderland.


"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc get better friends.

Amen to that Cali, when are you sorting a night out for us lot? "

In time.. lol ??

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By *ackem wetMan
48 weeks ago

Sunderland

I love a curvy woman, but i also love women that define themselves as bbw... Is there a difference between a curvy woman and a bbw or is it just how the person defines themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

We are attracted to whatever our preferences are which is no one's business but yours. If you're happy with a curvy lady, thats all that matters. Relatives and friends who make judgement need to be reminded its none of their business.

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By *tylebender03Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester

I like women who have more curves than a race track and I don’t care what another dude thinks about it lol

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By *ackem wetMan
48 weeks ago

Sunderland

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By *evergiveupMan
48 weeks ago

derbyshire

I've got a fantastic curvy FB - and she goes in and out in all the right places -- and I get to go " in and out"

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By *inkylipsWoman
48 weeks ago

Debauchery


"I have a preference for larger women but I dont understand why it gets so much judgement

Any advice on how to deal with unsolicited opinions/hate? I don't want to be judged on dating the people I want to date!"

Anyone who passes judgement on you for your preferences for curvy women are obviously not even worth your time. Ignore them. If that’s what makes you happy then enjoy, its your life not theirs

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
48 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire


"been a bbw most of my adult life, never had a problem

I would say if thin ladies are your thing, scroll on, no need for negativity

we all like who we like

Great curves lizzy "

thankyou x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
48 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire


"I love a curvy woman, but i also love women that define themselves as bbw... Is there a difference between a curvy woman and a bbw or is it just how the person defines themselves? "

cant speak for all, but to me bbw is a lady over a size 18 while curvy can be a smaller size as long as hips and boobs arent thin

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By *iss.BellaWoman
48 weeks ago

Wales

Sadly there are some people that find larger/curvier women unattractive and feel the need to shame them, and people that admire them. It would seem they haven't grown out of their high school bully phase.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Love a curvy woman, so so gorgeous!

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By *ocostonerking OP   Man
48 weeks ago

london

This is a good point - I think more of caring what other people think more than anything. But definitely something to think about!

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By *ocostonerking OP   Man
48 weeks ago

london

Most definitely

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By *ocostonerking OP   Man
48 weeks ago

london

And stunning too! (But you already knew that )

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By *orksguy1965Man
48 weeks ago

Howden

Cuddley ladies, yes please, I love em

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
48 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

I guess choosing who we prefer can be seen as judgement because there will be an element of rejection on the other side of it, but its a not a personal slur on our parts. We just like bigger playmates.

If somebody says Im not for them coz I am too big I don't worry about it. But I understand there will be those who are in that situation who will be upset if told no thankyou.

we are all different. No need to get nasty.

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By *ornyinConwyMan
48 weeks ago

Conwy

A bounce, a jiggle, a wiggle & even a ripple, what's not to like?! Give me full round bottom over a boney ass any day!

Also, better cuddles!

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc get better friends. "

This - people can’t overstep your boundaries if they’re not allowed past the gate. Anyone who judges people for anything other than their character I have no time for.

Plus characters can change so I also have no time for people who don’t give benefit of the doubt too. Life is too short for people who put people down for preferences and wtf the only person who should care about the fat on their body is the person who lives in it

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

People will overstep boundaries and make judgements regardless of your preference. The best advice I can give is to just not let it get to you. Stand up for what you believe in and defend your girl IF APPROPRIATE. Aside from that just enjoy your beautiful woman!

-from a BBW

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By *ink vixenCouple
48 weeks ago

Medway

If Carlsberg did virtue signaling…..

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"If Carlsberg did virtue signaling….."

That's what i was thinking .. lol

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By *mmaleiaWoman
48 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc get better friends. "
this ^

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"If Carlsberg did virtue signaling….."

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
48 weeks ago

London (She/Her)


"I have a preference for larger women but I dont understand why it gets so much judgement

Any advice on how to deal with unsolicited opinions/hate? I don't want to be judged on dating the people I want to date!"

Wow, you’re asking us to help you live with the stigma of dating bigger women? This is epic negging!

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