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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have just upped my lower age limit which only gives a 9 year gap, but hopefully the slightly older guy will be more respectful towards the softer side to me as well as wanting to meet socially as well as sexually. Hopefully, my age wont bother them like it seems to younger guys. and yes am a little sad and demoralised at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is only a number babe dont let it annoy u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you fancy younger guys but you feel that by meeting older guys will lessen the chances of you being treated like a piece of meat ?

You are likely to have your illusions shattered if so - disrespect is not only the domain of the young.

Older guys have just got better at masking it to get their own way.

I dont mean that to be disrespectful of all older guys but if you do really prefer younger ones then seek out a couple of decent ones who will treat you how you want to be treated.

Believe me, they will be out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as an aside, your profile name may suggest you are younger than you actually are.

That may be causing men who prefer the younger girl to look at your profile and then (as wrong as it is for them to do so) get huffy when they see that you aren't 25

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we've met guys a lot younger than me, 23 years younger was the biggest age gap I think and they were very respectful and keen to make sure I was happy. Sorry if you've had a bad experience but as has been said disrespect isn't the sole domain of the young.

Hope you have better luck soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older guys are just as bad as younger ones. if your into the younger ones then go for it there a few decent ones out there that treat people with respect.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just as an aside, your profile name may suggest you are younger than you actually are.

That may be causing men who prefer the younger girl to look at your profile and then (as wrong as it is for them to do so) get huffy when they see that you aren't 25 "

lol by that token I'm 561

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just as an aside, your profile name may suggest you are younger than you actually are.

That may be causing men who prefer the younger girl to look at your profile and then (as wrong as it is for them to do so) get huffy when they see that you aren't 25

lol by that token I'm 561 "

You wear it well

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just as an aside, your profile name may suggest you are younger than you actually are.

That may be causing men who prefer the younger girl to look at your profile and then (as wrong as it is for them to do so) get huffy when they see that you aren't 25

lol by that token I'm 561

You wear it well "

I've got a picture in the attic lol.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

See im 26, ive been doing this. since i was 18, so i have experience, im not that bad looking, (i hope!) i prefer, to be honest, i only play with 30+ 40+ woman and i think im pretty damn awesome. you can still get immature men at 40+ ladys remember that its really is about personilty, and boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My 25 is actually my birthdate. Should I say that I am actually 49 at the moment then? Well we will see abt older guys, but am not anticipating any contact. Ive said hi over the time ive been on here to guys, but been just ignored. So I dont message guys anymore, I know how guys feel when their messages get deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is merely a number. It has nothing to do with how a person treats you.

It's about maturity and how a person carries themselves. Respect doesn't come with age either. It comes from life experiences and they way we were brought up..

Good luck, but you shouldn't dismiss on the fact you think the older generation will treat you any better, in my opinion, there are a lot of young decent guys on here !!

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By *adu12Woman
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Respect is what you give yourself. Do that and everyone else will fall into line

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Respect is what you give yourself. Do that and everyone else will fall into line "

I do respect myself (and not saying others dont respect theirselves), but all im after like the rest is some fun, interspersed with a bit of convo and get to know someone a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have just upped my lower age limit which only gives a 9 year gap, but hopefully the slightly older guy will be more respectful towards the softer side to me as well as wanting to meet socially as well as sexually. Hopefully, my age wont bother them like it seems to younger guys. and yes am a little sad and demoralised at the moment"

Nothing wrong with age the important thing is to enjoy yourselves a lot of guys just want the sex that's all they are interested in but I'm the sort of person that likes to get to know someone on a friends basis no matter what age and go from there

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"My 25 is actually my birthdate. Should I say that I am actually 49 at the moment then? Well we will see abt older guys, but am not anticipating any contact. Ive said hi over the time ive been on here to guys, but been just ignored. So I dont message guys anymore, I know how guys feel when their messages get deleted"

Not being funny, but you come across like the other whiners: usually men that moan about being ignored because they're bi, black, Asian, big, short, young...any excuse.

Perhaps it's just you, and nothing to do with your age! There are people with no legs, replacement parts, school mates with Methuselah beating them off with a stick...just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have just upped my lower age limit which only gives a 9 year gap, but hopefully the slightly older guy will be more respectful towards the softer side to me as well as wanting to meet socially as well as sexually. Hopefully, my age wont bother them like it seems to younger guys. and yes am a little sad and demoralised at the moment"

Well Scorpiogirl, may i respectfully point out you have set the upper age limit on your men at 50. The same age you will be this year.

I am not sure how you would react to a 70 year old man on a date but I trust you would show them respect e.g. like not hiding their zimmer frame.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xx"
but it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx"

Wasnt having a go at you saying it....

I get it alot and it really annoys me when guys say it.....I know it depends on the individual, but on here I just dont have time or patience to work it out....

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

In a couple of weeks i will be 61. A lot of people set their upper limit at 60. I will still be me, for better or worse in a couple of weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xx"

So do I and would rather stick with my own age group, love the message filters as no longer bothered by young lads seeking the older/mature/milf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx"

Age makes a huge difference to some of us and attraction doesn't come into it, the first thing I do when I check a profile is to look at how old they are and pass them by if they are not the age I am interested in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx"

Ive seen plenty of younger men on here I like the look of but have never messaged them because somehow I have this feeling that any younger than 35 which was originally start age, would be wrong, having said that I did meet a guy who was only 30, my error in not reading his profile properly, I went with what he wrote and his photos and fact that he seemed a nice guy, so maybe I should go with my original gut feeling when I met him, and see if any 30 year olds want a older, not very experienced woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx

Age makes a huge difference to some of us and attraction doesn't come into it, the first thing I do when I check a profile is to look at how old they are and pass them by if they are not the age I am interested in "

Ive done that myself before now, but do wonder sometimes if ive made a mistake by not giving them a chance, specially if they are in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx

Age makes a huge difference to some of us and attraction doesn't come into it, the first thing I do when I check a profile is to look at how old they are and pass them by if they are not the age I am interested in

Ive done that myself before now, but do wonder sometimes if ive made a mistake by not giving them a chance, specially if they are in my area "

Maybe you should chat to them, if they are not interested then its no big deal is it? And if they are, well.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx"

I would prefer someone younger than me, no milf or cougar here, im not fit enough or stunning enough for that lol, just try to be a nice person really, being nice/shy like I am a bit, doesnt get you anywhere on here, they seem to like pushy experienced females? Ive done the pushy thing and it got me dumped, which knocked me back quite hard, so I hold back now on the pushy/feelings thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx

I would prefer someone younger than me, no milf or cougar here, im not fit enough or stunning enough for that lol, just try to be a nice person really, being nice/shy like I am a bit, doesnt get you anywhere on here, they seem to like pushy experienced females? Ive done the pushy thing and it got me dumped, which knocked me back quite hard, so I hold back now on the pushy/feelings thing."

That is my thought too, not pretty enough for them, and a reason not to meet long distance people either. I think the problem is that some watch porn movies and see fit slim stunning older women and think, I want some of that, then they hit reality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a couple of weeks i will be 61. A lot of people set their upper limit at 60. I will still be me, for better or worse in a couple of weeks."

I just had a quick look at your profile, you look fine for a guy of 60, ive been with a guy half your age who was, shall we say, bigger in bodysize than you, but size doesnt matter too much to me, long as not obese, im not skinny myself far from it. Im after personality and connection more than bodysize/size of cock. As I get older maybe my age limits will increase who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going with younger guys isn't wrong.. Look at it this way, some people will say being on here and having casual sex is wrong.. But your still here.

Don't worry about what others think, enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx

Age makes a huge difference to some of us and attraction doesn't come into it, the first thing I do when I check a profile is to look at how old they are and pass them by if they are not the age I am interested in

Ive done that myself before now, but do wonder sometimes if ive made a mistake by not giving them a chance, specially if they are in my area

Maybe you should chat to them, if they are not interested then its no big deal is it? And if they are, well....."

You are right, maybe I will. I browse sometimes too but no matter what I leave unticked in interests box, same old faces show up everytime. No its not a big deal I guess or it shouldnt be should it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx

Age makes a huge difference to some of us and attraction doesn't come into it, the first thing I do when I check a profile is to look at how old they are and pass them by if they are not the age I am interested in

Ive done that myself before now, but do wonder sometimes if ive made a mistake by not giving them a chance, specially if they are in my area

Maybe you should chat to them, if they are not interested then its no big deal is it? And if they are, well.....

You are right, maybe I will. I browse sometimes too but no matter what I leave unticked in interests box, same old faces show up everytime. No its not a big deal I guess or it shouldnt be should it. "

No it shouldn't as you cannot be wanted by everyone you chat to but will be wanted by some

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate when people say "Age is only a number"!

OP....Stick to what you want and dont let things get to you...xxbut it is in terms of attractions it shouldn't make a difference didnt mean it to sound sarcastic or anything but if im attracted to anyone age doesnt matter to me prefer older women myself anyhow xxx

I would prefer someone younger than me, no milf or cougar here, im not fit enough or stunning enough for that lol, just try to be a nice person really, being nice/shy like I am a bit, doesnt get you anywhere on here, they seem to like pushy experienced females? Ive done the pushy thing and it got me dumped, which knocked me back quite hard, so I hold back now on the pushy/feelings thing.

That is my thought too, not pretty enough for them, and a reason not to meet long distance people either. I think the problem is that some watch porn movies and see fit slim stunning older women and think, I want some of that, then they hit reality "

I am guilty of saying age is only a no, but that is referring to myself not others, I watch a porn programme myself and the women are stunning, makes me wish I was like that but im me and the guys here claim to love curves - or is it all just bs on their part to get sex? Yes reality is the curvier lady.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


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I am guilty of saying age is only a no, but that is referring to myself not others, I watch a porn programme myself and the women are stunning, makes me wish I was like that but im me and the guys here claim to love curves - or is it all just bs on their part to get sex? Yes reality is the curvier lady."

There are plenty of genuine people on here, and plenty that will say whatever it takes to get a meet........your mission, should you choose to except it, is to separate the wheat from the chaff.......this isn't mission difficult, miss scorpio, this is mission impossible......this message will self destruct in 5.......ah feck it, it actually won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I am guilty of saying age is only a no, but that is referring to myself not others, I watch a porn programme myself and the women are stunning, makes me wish I was like that but im me and the guys here claim to love curves - or is it all just bs on their part to get sex? Yes reality is the curvier lady.

There are plenty of genuine people on here, and plenty that will say whatever it takes to get a meet........your mission, should you choose to except it, is to separate the wheat from the chaff.......this isn't mission difficult, miss scorpio, this is mission impossible......this message will self destruct in 5.......ah feck it, it actually won't "

ooo you want to be careful saying things like that, will make you sound old....shit I watch the same programme too

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By *ltimateGemWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have to say that my preference is for the older man. The reason for this is life experience! Also I have children who are grown up and I often get emailed by men younger than my children. I'm usually very polite and say that I prefer older and their reply is often "age is nothing but a number babes" "I've got stamina" "I love you older ladies!" Please!! If age is nothing but a number then why is it that the number 5 (just a number mind!) will sound off alarm bells in our heads and also the age 95. Just numbers??

The hardest thing for women is desperation and if you are sounding the slightest bit desperate or vulnerable you could be opening yourself up to abuse. There are some lovely men in here, despite whatever age they are, you just need to choose wisely. Say to yourself, does he make me feel comfortable through his emails? If not, then move on. I am, however very surprised that you approach men on here. You seem so lovely and attractive! A woman like you should be inundated with emails!! Just remember that the respect comes from yourself. If you love yourself, you will do everything to protect yourself. I get lots of men who will email me once they see my pic and without thought will tell me how they're going to shag me. Again, I'm usually very polite and assertive and may use a word that some (the bright ones!) may have to look up! The reply I get after is "I'm so sorry, could we possibly start again?" When you think of the amount of men that frequent this site in regards to my choices, it's a definite no from me!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"ooo you want to be careful saying things like that, will make you sound old....shit I watch the same programme too "

lol, never fear, apparantly age is only a no'

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Lots of people are saying age is just a number but that simply is not true. We have different ideas, expectations and experience as we get older. Physically we look different and feel different. I'm certainly not the same as I was when I was 25.

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york


"In a couple of weeks i will be 61. A lot of people set their upper limit at 60. I will still be me, for better or worse in a couple of weeks.

I just had a quick look at your profile, you look fine for a guy of 60, ive been with a guy half your age who was, shall we say, bigger in bodysize than you, but size doesnt matter too much to me, long as not obese, im not skinny myself far from it. Im after personality and connection more than bodysize/size of cock. As I get older maybe my age limits will increase who knows? "
. Thanks. I tried to message you but my age got me blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ooo you want to be careful saying things like that, will make you sound old....shit I watch the same programme too

lol, never fear, apparantly age is only a no' "

Especially where old children's programmes are concerned no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say that my preference is for the older man. The reason for this is life experience! Also I have children who are grown up and I often get emailed by men younger than my children. I'm usually very polite and say that I prefer older and their reply is often "age is nothing but a number babes" "I've got stamina" "I love you older ladies!" Please!! If age is nothing but a number then why is it that the number 5 (just a number mind!) will sound off alarm bells in our heads and also the age 95. Just numbers??

The hardest thing for women is desperation and if you are sounding the slightest bit desperate or vulnerable you could be opening yourself up to abuse. There are some lovely men in here, despite whatever age they are, you just need to choose wisely. Say to yourself, does he make me feel comfortable through his emails? If not, then move on. I am, however very surprised that you approach men on here. You seem so lovely and attractive! A woman like you should be inundated with emails!! Just remember that the respect comes from yourself. If you love yourself, you will do everything to protect yourself. I get lots of men who will email me once they see my pic and without thought will tell me how they're going to shag me. Again, I'm usually very polite and assertive and may use a word that some (the bright ones!) may have to look up! The reply I get after is "I'm so sorry, could we possibly start again?" When you think of the amount of men that frequent this site in regards to my choices, it's a definite no from me!"

Ive had emails from guys same age as my son, just not happening. I hope my profile or me here doesnt sound desperate, I really am not. Am picky and choosy but less so now with the body shape, personality and compatibility first with me.

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