FabSwingers.com forum: I want to watch…

By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

I’m a 38 M and I really want to experience being in a room while a couple is playing. I would like to watch and perhaps join in, if invited to.

I’ve thought about clubs and that but I’m a bit nervous about the whole thing as I’m very new to this.

Couples, please get in touch!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
44 weeks ago

London

Just go to a club. It's not as daunting as you think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

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By *parkle1974Woman
44 weeks ago

Leeds

Why don't you message couples?

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By *alandNitaCouple
44 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Honestly, if you're a voyeur, clubs are definitely the best option.

You get a night out surrounded by scantily clad women and get to watch a variety of people having sex.

Nita

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
44 weeks ago

Arlesey

As with OP, I'm in a similar situation. As a single male, attending a club for the first time by yourself is quite a daunting thought despite the possible reward it could result in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"Why don't you message couples? "

I have tried, but not traction. I’m still new here and have no verifications so it’s tough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

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By *inkster seekingMan
44 weeks ago

Ponty

"I’m a 38 M and I really want to experience being in a room while a couple is playing. I would like to watch and perhaps join in, if invited to.

I’ve thought about clubs and that but I’m a bit nervous about the whole thing as I’m very new to this.

Couples, please get in touch!"

Yes love watching couples having fun togther , its amazing

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By *WB85Man
44 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Is it just me that finds watching really awkward?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
44 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

If you are reaching out to couples and asking them straight out about watching, the likelihood is that you won’t get that far.

If you aren’t getting traction on FAB then generally your profile isn’t appealing - is it selling you as best as you can?

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By *ecky and justCouple
44 weeks ago

Godalming

Just go to a club.

You’ll have many opportunities to watch different couples.

Just be normal. Talk, don’t stalk..

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By *eatermanMan
44 weeks ago

Reading

I'm also in the voyeurs category, I find it tends to be more difficult to find anyone willing if you just message them about it without first building a connection through casual conversation

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By *arrySwindonMan
44 weeks ago

Swindon

Don’t be nervous about a club visit. Single guys are very welcome. Perfect environment to watch whatever might be going on. Kestrel near Heathrow is a good bet for a relaxed daytime visit.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
44 weeks ago

London

"Just go to a club.

You’ll have many opportunities to watch different couples.

Just be normal. Talk, don’t stalk.."

Talk don't stalk. Very wise.

Seriously, what's the issue with going to a club by yourself? It's genuinely not that big a deal.

Just try it. If it's not for you then at least you tried.

Am never sure what people are expecting. It's just like a pub but with some people wearing slightly less and the odd bit of shagging going on. Most of it not in public.

Happy to field any questions from those finding it daunting.

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By *andb69Couple
44 weeks ago

leeds

As almost everyone has said, pluck up your courage (it doesn't take much) and go to a club. We love an appreciative audience and often invite a voyeur to join in.

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By *objgukMan
44 weeks ago

Hebden Bridge

I'm pretty much a soft swap and voyeur and a club is a great place for this, yes it's daunting walking through the door for the first time but everyone is there for the same thing.

Be polite and stick to the rules and you will have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Clubs are ideal for this. Alot of couples play in the open and enjoy being watched.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
44 weeks ago

Norwichish

Any club with Amsterdam style rooms would suit your needs. Also there are some rooms where the voyeurs can lock themselves in and not be seen

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By *inkyguyUKMan
44 weeks ago

worcester

I want to watch a younger fetish couple

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I’m a 38 M and I really want to experience being in a room while a couple is playing. I would like to watch and perhaps join in, if invited to.

I’ve thought about clubs and that but I’m a bit nervous about the whole thing as I’m very new to this.

Couples, please get in touch!"

What about watching ff and then joining in x

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By *ritladMan
44 weeks ago

Taunton

"I’m a 38 M and I really want to experience being in a room while a couple is playing. I would like to watch and perhaps join in, if invited to.

I’ve thought about clubs and that but I’m a bit nervous about the whole thing as I’m very new to this.

Couples, please get in touch!

What about watching ff and then joining in x "

Yup I’d be up for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

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By *uffhandymanMan
42 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

Love getting involved with couples. Watching, listening, playing, whatever they ask of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

"Love getting involved with couples. Watching, listening, playing, whatever they ask of me"

I’d love the opportunity to lol

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