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"We’re aware that there’s no one size fits all here but wanted to raise the question. You’re a couple, meeting for a full swap, or pick up a guy at a club. Who do you expect to provide the condoms? We always carry several but we’ve had a few guys come join us in a play room and act as if they forgot them once they get there. They happily accept and put one on when we offer it but we often wonder were they just hoping for bareback or is it assumed the lady provides?" I always take condoms to a meet when I play solo and when my wife and I play as a couple. Not sure why guys feel the comfort is more important than safety but I dont take the chance with my health or more importantly my wifes. | |||
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"We’d expect them to have some, but our preference is they use ours. Have your seen some of the screwed up packages stuffed under a wrist watch in a club? No ta . Although to be fair, we’ve probably filtered those out already " We’re exactly the same. We know where ours have been. That said there’s an argument for size appropriateness. | |||
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"The guy should have them. He knows the size and brand fits best for him. A women gave me a condom once and was to small. " I had the same problem, killed the fun as the condom wouldn't fit, her husband was visibly smaller than me. I went to get my own from the bag, she sucked me and we continued to the happy end. | |||
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"Both of you should, you can't trust the other party to bring some." Totally this. If there's any chance I'm going to be using my cock then I take some as I have a preferred brand and I'm a little large. But I'd also expect them to be provided. | |||
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"I'd expect both to have them, your sexual health is your own responsibility. Mrs " Absolutely this. Mrs | |||
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"I'd expect both to have them, your sexual health is your own responsibility. Mrs " This. However, I can't see a reason that a guy wouldn't have his own unless he intended not to use them. | |||
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"Ultimately it's the guys responsibility but I always have some on me just incase. If they haven't got one, they are expecting bare 100%." Baring means caring | |||
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"We’re aware that there’s no one size fits all here but wanted to raise the question. You’re a couple, meeting for a full swap, or pick up a guy at a club. Who do you expect to provide the condoms? We always carry several but we’ve had a few guys come join us in a play room and act as if they forgot them once they get there. They happily accept and put one on when we offer it but we often wonder were they just hoping for bareback or is it assumed the lady provides?" They probably the ones who are playing away We always carry them, definitely no glove no love | |||
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"Condoms are like health and safety in the office. On the one hand, it is everyone's responsibility. On the other, it is very specific people's responsibilities. If you have a penis or want to get with one, carry condoms. It's not difficult." Bet me to it. Was gonna say the same thought the exact sane whilst having breakfast this morning. | |||
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"I think it’s interesting that people are saying that the women should bring them too just in case the guy forgets. Like, I’m not into encouraging men’s poor behavior. If he thought he was going to get away with potentially putting my health/life at risk and murdering my finances for the rest of my life *without prior negotistion* then honestly he’s not someone I would *want* to have sex with at that point. Perhaps if more women on the scene put their foot down and said that if the guy doesn’t take a bit of responsibility and actually respect the women he wants to put his willy in then fewer of them would think they could get away with it." Exactly this! While I always have an assortment of spares, I’m not willing to play with an unsafe player ever. I always politely decline and wish them all the best. The same goes for oral, I won’t blow raw. If they won’t rubber up if they want oral, I’m not putting my health at risk. It’s just as likely to spread infections and so many don’t test all orifices so go around thinking they’re “safe”. | |||
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"Condoms are like health and safety in the office. On the one hand, it is everyone's responsibility. On the other, it is very specific people's responsibilities. If you have a penis or want to get with one, carry condoms. It's not difficult." This. | |||
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"We’re aware that there’s no one size fits all here but wanted to raise the question. You’re a couple, meeting for a full swap, or pick up a guy at a club. Who do you expect to provide the condoms? We always carry several but we’ve had a few guys come join us in a play room and act as if they forgot them once they get there. They happily accept and put one on when we offer it but we often wonder were they just hoping for bareback or is it assumed the lady provides?" I always have them with me, club or private meet. I have been asked by couples or women to use Skyn condoms due to allergies though. I think everyone should have them if they are intending to meet and have sex. I think those single guys who turn up without them do intend to have bb, if I have forgotten on the way to a meet, I stop and buy some, simples... | |||
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"We’re aware that there’s no one size fits all here but wanted to raise the question. You’re a couple, meeting for a full swap, or pick up a guy at a club. Who do you expect to provide the condoms? We always carry several but we’ve had a few guys come join us in a play room and act as if they forgot them once they get there. They happily accept and put one on when we offer it but we often wonder were they just hoping for bareback or is it assumed the lady provides?" Yes, yes they were. Nobody goes to a club without condoms hoping to fuck others and "forgets" the condoms. | |||
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"I always just ask in first messages "are you on the pill Hun" then decide if bother buying the jonnies. The women love the question, it's like erotic gold to them. The combo of starting with are you on the pill and Hun gets them wet." Oh I thought it was my GP trying to find new ways to reach out to avoid an appointment. Huh, who knew | |||
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